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Got into a fight with a woman today.

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Josephine Grey

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It's obviously really for the best afterall. Sorry for the slight emotional dammage. We are all free to believe in what we want and she should respect that. Her freedom ends where yours begins.
 

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Mentally unstable
Psychiatrically damaged
Emotionally distraught
Intellectually unbalanced
Therapeutically dependent
Politically triggered
Intimacy-challenged
Academically disinclined
Rationally immature
Behaviourly unpredictable
Institutionally affiliated
Is that how you really feel about escorts ? The type of guys that think like this may be the ones at fault here and typically are the kind of men that escorts find to be manipulate and push boundaries because they think we are weak and brain dead. I am not saying that Robert is this type as I do not know him but I have had clients who have tried to manipulate me pretending to be there for me and then totally pushing the limits. Pretending to be great friends but then play head games. I have learned the hard way. I have a few OP I trust as real friends but it is much better for the most part to keep the escort / client relationship all about the sex session for the said amount of time and leave it at that. Boundaries get crossed ,miscommunication and head games start if an Sp thinks a client is her friend from a few experiencs. . Just the comments about squeezing the last drop out of her and insulting our characters as human beinging has opened my eyes as to how some of you clients think. It is pretty sick and you think escorts are unstable . I enjoy my clients sexually and it's good to know that I need to be aware as to whom I open up to moving forward. I don't usually read the lounge or comment but wow I never knew how some of you think of sex workers. 🤔
 

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Curls up in the fetal position on the carpet clutching my Bear Spray....

🎶 Soft Kitty, Warm Kitty, Little Ball of Fur. Happy Kitty, Sleepy Kitty, Purr, Purr, Purr 🎶
 
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"If you listen to dogs barking, you'll go deaf and never learn much" (Darkovan proverb...)
Many dogs like you bark all the time. Fortunately, I don’t experience any difficulties.

Just a friendly reminder, this topic is about Robert and would prefer to see him in a better mind space.
 

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Somewhere between here and there
I have been lucky to see a couple of truly amazing women during this hobby - one I have been seeing for almost 20 years on and off (You know who you are;))

I had one regular who the sex started to not be as good and everything seemed rushed and she didn't seem into it. I just stopped seeing her no drama. She would message me on occasion and after a couple of years saw her again and it was great but realized she wasn't someone I wanted to see often as I feel the service would decline over time.

Another unfortunately started to use drugs heavily and I stopped seeing her immediately one time when halfway through the session she started to be really out of it.

I like a variety which is why I hobby but as I age I am looking for someone who is going to treat me with respect and do what we agree to. I don't push any boundaries and am always very upfront about what I want and ensure the woman agrees in advance and is OK with everything.
 

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if you screw a backup dancer...you'll chase the shoes not the blues

"just saying"
I hear what your saying…

When I’m committed, I‘m committed. When I’m not, I’m not. I enjoy my tight network, meeting new people and keeping friendly to my aquaitances.

:)
 
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I hear what your saying…

When I’m committed, I‘m committed. When I’m not, I’m not. I enjoy my tight network, meeting new people and keeping friendly to my aquaitances.

:)

that's not at all what I was saying ... but on that note

if someone that you gave a ride doesn't have to hide... what are you doing with your spare time ?
 
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Robert Mugabe

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Is that how you really feel about escorts ? The type of guys that think like this may be the ones at fault here and typically are the kind of men that escorts find to be manipulate and push boundaries because they think we are weak and brain dead. I am not saying that Robert is this type as I do not know him but I have had clients who have tried to manipulate me pretending to be there for me and then totally pushing the limits. Pretending to be great friends but then play head games. I have learned the hard way. I have a few OP I trust as real friends but it is much better for the most part to keep the escort / client relationship all about the sex session for the said amount of time and leave it at that. Boundaries get crossed ,miscommunication and head games start if an Sp thinks a client is her friend from a few experiencs. . Just the comments about squeezing the last drop out of her and insulting our characters as human beinging has opened my eyes as to how some of you clients think. It is pretty sick and you think escorts are unstable . I enjoy my clients sexually and it's good to know that I need to be aware as to whom I open up to moving forward. I don't usually read the lounge or comment but wow I never knew how some of you think of sex workers. 🤔
The squeezing the last drop out of her wasn't meant in an exploitive or insulting way. It was a bit of a back handed compliment. As in savoring the last delicious drop of a delicious drink. I've been a loyal and friendly customer for years with this one.
 

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The squeezing the last drop out of her wasn't meant in an exploitive or insulting way. It was a bit of a back handed compliment. As in savoring the last delicious drop of a delicious drink. I've been a loyal and friendly customer for 12 years with this one. Should say something about the relationship.
12 years is a long time... I'm not asking her age but ... have you?

the way you feel about her might not be how you think she feels about herself ... and after 12 yrs ... that might be very good : )

assuming your not thinking she is a fruit.
 
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that's not at all what I was saying ... but on that note

if someone that you gave a ride doesn't have to hide... what are you doing with your spare time ?
I’m not on spare time.

Sorry, I didn’t understand you. What did you initially mean? Maybe because i have options and I don’t chase or feel a need to?
 

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I’m not on spare time.

Sorry, I didn’t understand you. What did you initially mean? Maybe because i have options and I don’t chase or feel a need to?
that's beautiful... i actually want to believe you.

one thing is just a little bit closer to it... you have options but they are not

"limitless"

its okay... i wouldn't chase you either : )
 
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that's beautiful... i actually want to believe you.

one thing is just a little bit closer to it... you have options but they are not

"limitless"

its okay... i wouldn't chase you either : )
Doesn’t sound like it to me.

Speak for yourself.

Whats with the negative direction with me? Who are you lol? There is nothing going on between us lol.
 
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I'm not sure... its a problem you text her ... but if you live an hour away... why do you drive to see her every week?
if you really enjoy her company so much, why not say you want her every Sunday noon & or every Monday at noon.
do you think that maybe she forgot you... or was she really busy?
if shes seen you a lot then maybe she expects you to meet her?


is she changing locations often? bc my guess is that it will be more costly &
time consuming for her to come to you ✅... on a regular basis
I'm curious... but if you think shes taking "you" personally...
"try another girl" : )
I live over an hr away from mine. We just set up a day and time weekly to meet. Sometimes she comes to my place and sometimes I drive to her. We just confirm via text the day before to confirm and I've had no issues in 5 years and only good times.
 

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I live over an hr away from mine. We just set up a day and time weekly to meet. Sometimes she comes to my place and sometimes I drive to her. We just confirm via text the day before to confirm and I've had no issues in 5 years and only good times.

do you probe her about other clients or quiz her on her day?... or do you just "fuck" for an hour straight?
 
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