Would you marry an SP?

[xix]

Marry? I wasn't even able to date one. And she wasn't even an SP. She was an MPA.

Moral of the story. Even if you are the type of guy that can handle being in a relationship with an SP, chances are she is not capable of handling it herself.

I think your MPA was one of those people that didn't want to be with you. It wasn't you it was her. These people, whether employee, tenant or spouse man/woman are people that want to quit and move on but don't KNOW how to do it. Or are afraid to say goodbye, it's over, I want to move one. They like to be kicked out , thrown out or even by court order. IT is some weird DNA they have in their heads. I can't explain it, low self-esteem, co-dependent and I can't figure it out. Some times - I have seen this - people will cheat to be dumped so they can move on. Hidden bisexual tendencies? I can't find it but I have learn to detect this kind of behaviour I have seen it so many times in different forms.

I have seen this happen myself, but starting from before they became an MPA then seeing the change as is progressed. However similar mental stress occurs in police, military, doctors and dentists. Different stress but all can damage relationships. They all share the "do not bring work home with you rule" however sometimes because of the law and sometimes because of custom.

I agree with above statement ,people don't have an outlet, if they are introvert I think they crack. Their EGO gets in the way big time. Also leave work issue at work is a good rule but people have NO idea how to do this.

Worst part is the EGO. EGO says if it is not my idea then it's not a good idea and it can't be real. Until the true pro shows up by magic wand these egotistic nut case see it as their idea. I have worked with people in office / shop floor like this.

I wouldn't marry a SP, MPA, or teacher, they are already damage and if they can't handle the stress, they will get worse. NOW if they agree to do a few things or activities for life to manage their stress, I think I could marry one.

 

[poker]

No need to get into details. Suffice to say, there really isn’t a way to play it at all to make it work. Trust me, I tried. Was just curious into others experiences with this.

I was married for 15 years before I stumbled into the hobby. Made some funnies with a girl on the boards back in the day… we took our chatting off line to texts… and eventually met. She was married as well. We saw each other on the side for about 6 months. I was head over heels for this woman. She was gorgeous, and charming…. And a little ditzy. And a lot crazy. She would have mental breakdown about once every 2 months where she just fell off the earth. Would not answer calls or texts… or leave her apartment.

Other clients were trying to get her into their personal lives too. And my whole life fell apart. My wife found out. We tried to reconcile. Took a few years for it to come about, but she kicked me to the curb. Don’t even blame her.

While I have no doubt the SP did have feelings for me, I got used. And she made promises she had no intention of delivering on. It was a shit show.


Learned the hard way. Keep business strictly business.

 

[Chloetemptress]

The question for me is do I want to date a client ? Lol
I kick myself in the ass everytime . No matter how great the sex is

most just date escorts or MPASfor free sex or they continue to see escorts even when they are dating one. I will stick to a sugar daddy

 

[poker]

The question for me is do I want to date a client ? Lol
I kick myself in the ass everytime . No matter how great the sex is

most just date escorts or MPASfor free sex or they continue to see escorts even when they are dating one. I will stick to a sugar daddy

When it’s a client/SP session…. We put on the act. It’s an hour… how hard can be to seem normal that long? Lol. (Honestly, I had a serious crush on you for months after our session. You played you part perfect!)


But alas… people are people. You don’t have to be an SP to be crazy…. Plenty of batshit crazy “normal” people out there. Just sayin.

 

[joeblow77]

I was married for 15 years before I stumbled into the hobby. Made some funnies with a girl on the boards back in the day… we took our chatting off line to texts… and eventually met. She was married as well. We saw each other on the side for about 6 months. I was head over heels for this woman. She was gorgeous, and charming…. And a little ditzy. And a lot crazy. She would have mental breakdown about once every 2 months where she just fell off the earth. Would not answer calls or texts… or leave her apartment.

Other clients were trying to get her into their personal lives too. And my whole life fell apart. My wife found out. We tried to reconcile. Took a few years for it to come about, but she kicked me to the curb. Don’t even blame her.

While I have no doubt the SP did have feelings for me, I got used. And she made promises she had no intention of delivering on. It was a shit show.


Learned the hard way. Keep business strictly business.

You’re experience is very similar to mine. Right down to the breakdowns. It’s hard to get them out of the cycle of looking at everyone as just a means to an end I guess.

 

[poker]

You’re experience is very similar to mine. Right down to the breakdowns. It’s hard to get them out of the cycle of looking at everyone as just a means to an end I guess.

Why would they change though…? Everyone looks at them like a sex object rather than a person. Everyone want a piece of them all the time. They build up there own unique defensive strategy (for lack of a better phrase)… and make their way in the world the way they know how.

Everyone is different, and some may approach it different at different points in their life. Some girls use their sexuality to their advantage. Some girls are sick of being treated like meat for a guys pleasure. Should you hide it from family. Do people you know talk about you (or too you) like you’re a whore? They are at the gym, and make friends with another girl their working out… what happens if the other girl finds out what she does?

There is definitely a lot more going on then what meets the eye.

 

[joeblow77]

Why would they change though…? Everyone looks at them like a sex object rather than a person. Everyone want a piece of them all the time. They build up there own unique defensive strategy (for lack of a better phrase)… and make their way in the world the way they know how.

Everyone is different, and some may approach it different at different points in their life. Some girls use their sexuality to their advantage. Some girls are sick of being treated like meat for a guys pleasure. Should you hide it from family. Do people you know talk about you (or too you) like you’re a whore? They are at the gym, and make friends with another girl their working out… what happens if the other girl finds out what she does?

There is definitely a lot more going on then what meets the eye.

You make some good points, but you also need to be able to differentiate between those that expect something and those that offer something. Not everyone is the same. Some actually value the individual over the situation, if that makes sense.

 

[BBC_Mentor]

I now quite often sit on dating sites.
Since covid appeared I stopped communicating with anyone at all and all my friends are lost(
I decided that I will try to find friends on a dating site, now I already have friends that have become very close to me.
So I advise you not to sit and be sad, but to act and stop being afraid to meet people.
I can advise you to use the site https://blog.fling.com/best-real-hookup-sites/ where I sit.
And most importantly, be brave, other people are just like you, and many people like you are maybe afraid to write first and get acquainted.

 

[Cowboy_Tony]

Meeting an SP and dating her is a complete waste of time. 1 in gazillion chance it'll ever work out. She'll fill your head with all the right things you want to hear. A long time SP told me this a while back "They don't call them TRICKS for nothing. We're meant to trick you in to feeling something we could never give you. You pay me to fuck you. If I really liked you, you wouldn't be paying me.".

Forget about this whole stupid idea.

You : Pay her. Fuck her. Be nice to her. Wash your dick and go home.
Her: Pay me. Fuck me. Be nice to me. Wash my pussy and go home.

 

[Tashki]

"We're meant to trick you in to feeling something we could never give you."

And what could they never give me? I’m curious to know.

 

[poker]

Meeting an SP and dating her is a complete waste of time. 1 in gazillion chance it'll ever work out. She'll fill your head with all the right things you want to hear. A long time SP told me this a while back "They don't call them TRICKS for nothing. We're meant to trick you in to feeling something we could never give you. You pay me to fuck you. If I really liked you, you wouldn't be paying me.".

Forget about this whole stupid idea.

You : Pay her. Fuck her. Be nice to her. Wash your dick and go home.
Her: Pay me. Fuck me. Be nice to me. Wash my pussy and go home.

"If I really liked you, you would 't be paying me"... fair. However, she has to like someone. And someone is getting it for free... so the question then becomes, if that someone were you, could you marry her?

 

[Cowboy_Tony]

"If I really liked you, you would 't be paying me"... fair. However, she has to like someone. And someone is getting it for free... so the question then becomes, if that someone were you, could you marry her?

I wouldn't hold my breath. Women are crazy and remember everything. It would be a matter of time before she threw the fact in your face that you used pay her to fuck you and you used to pay others to fuck you.

That person that she "likes" will be some douchebag who treats her like shit and fucks other women and he guilts her by saying "you fuck strange men all day long". Find me an SP who isn't mentally damaged and I'll buy you blow jobs for a year .

Hold your breath. I'll call 911 when you turn blue.

 

[MarianneC]

I wouldn't hold my breath. Women are crazy and remember everything. It would be a matter of time before she threw the fact in your face that you used pay her to fuck you and you used to pay others to fuck you.

That person that she "likes" will be some douchebag who treats her like shit and fucks other women and he guilts her by saying "you fuck strange men all day long". Find me an SP who isn't mentally damaged and I'll buy you blow jobs for a year .

Hold your breath. I'll call 911 when you turn blue.

Oh, women will always throw facts back at you to remind of how you screwed something up. Isn't that just normal course for any man-woman relationship no matter what? If you're going to get the same from a civilian or a professional, then might as well go with whatever makes you more horny, I would say.

 

[superman12]

Why ruin a good thing by wanting to marry an sp?? I would never ever want to marry an sp because that would just ruin everything. There is a certain thrill you get when you go hook up with an sp. Shes looking her best, hopefully you are too, and the excitement you experience wouldn't be there if its the same women you wake up to everyday. Sex gets boring, being with the same women day and nighr gets boring. Why do you think men cheat lol

 

[MarianneC]

Why ruin a good thing by wanting to marry an sp?? I would never ever want to marry an sp because that would just ruin everything. There is a certain thrill you get when you go hook up with an sp. Shes looking her best, hopefully you are too, and the excitement you experience wouldn't be there if its the same women you wake up to everyday. Sex gets boring, being with the same women day and nighr gets boring. Why do you think men cheat lol

You are of course free to marry who ever you like. But in the end, we the providers are just another girl like any other, and if you get along with them and are attracted to them, then what's the problem in marrying them. Obviously you need to go in with your eyes wide open, and know that she's got a major history, which you need to be okay with. But of course, clients also have their own histories, that we'd need to be okay with.

 

[Sthall]

You are of course free to marry who ever you like. But in the end, we the providers are just another girl like any other, and if you get along with them and are attracted to them, then what's the problem in marrying them. Obviously you need to go in with your eyes wide open, and know that she's got a major history, which you need to be okay with. But of course, clients also have their own histories, that we'd need to be okay with.

Absolutely. If the respect and honesty is there for each other it'll work.

 

[superman12]

You are of course free to marry who ever you like. But in the end, we the providers are just another girl like any other, and if you get along with them and are attracted to them, then what's the problem in marrying them. Obviously you need to go in with your eyes wide open, and know that she's got a major history, which you need to be okay with. But of course, clients also have their own histories, that we'd need to be okay with.

You are right. Everyone is free to choose who they marry. I wouldnt personally have any problem if a client chose to marry an sp where they have a mutual love and attraction for one another. Its just something i wouldnt be able to do. For me as a married man when i see an sp its sort of a fantasy and a dirty little secret that makes it all the more exciting. To each there own i guess amd whatever makes you happy

 

[haplessinquiry]

Sometimes guys might marry an SP for totally the wrong reason, such as "she's so hot". But you can say the same thing even if you marry your high school sweetheart. Sometimes lust is all that's propelling you, and no long term goals.

 

[luvdog]

A civilian woman can hurt you as much as an SP could.
Think it is more about the person, not what she does for a living.

That can also go for Hobbyists.
Sps can get hurt by Non-clients too.
LD

 

[MarianneC]

Sometimes guys might marry an SP for totally the wrong reason, such as "she's so hot". But you can say the same thing even if you marry your high school sweetheart. Sometimes lust is all that's propelling you, and no long term goals.

Obviously you have to go in with eyes wide open with all marriages. Some people marry 3 or 4 times, and still can't figure out what they're really looking for.