Imagine the young man when he starts out in his "arranged marriage of some degree" (as Hailey described his cultural norms) showing his bride all the tricks and turns Hailey taught him, perhaps asking her not only for a bj but some bls to go along with it. Reminds me of the novel Les liaissons dangereuses and the movie Dangerous Liaisons -- the Vicomte de Valmont taught the young Cécile de Volanges the arts of the boudoir, after which she was too corrupted for marriage.