A girl advice on how to keep her man happy ...

[Varoufakis]

Do you agree?

Do you Agree? Girl has the Best Advice Ever on How to Keep your Man Happy!

This girl is not only good looking, she's smart and knows how to keep her man happy. If there was an assignment on how to keep a man happy, she just passed with a 100%.

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[Jenesis]

I am sure all those things will keep a man happy. Just wondering what he does to keep her happy in return.

 

[silentkisser]

I am sure all those things will keep a man happy. Just wondering what he does to keep her happy in return.

Well, she obviously doesn't have to work (I think?) so she gets to be a woman of leisure, where she can shop or get her nails done...

TBH, this doesn't sounds like a relationship worth having. It's more like a sugar daddy situation, not a loving, long-term partnership.

 

[Varoufakis]

Hmmm I am having spaghetti w meatballs today….

 

[xmontrealer]

I am sure all those things will keep a man happy. Just wondering what he does to keep her happy in return.

I think you gotta assume most (but not all) guys would appreciate that amazing attention and would do all they could to keep the lady happy too.

Interesting your first thought is "but what about me"?

 

[Jenesis]

I think you gotta assume most (but not all) guys would appreciate that amazing attention and would do all they could to keep the lady happy too.

Interesting your first thought is "but what about me"?

It is not a “what about me”. I have me covered. I don’t date, don’t want to date and enjoy single life.

I guess I am used to making myself happy, the concept of living life just to make your man/woman happy is too foreign to me.

So many people live life expecting their SO to make them happy. This was about making the man happy so naturally I asked about the reciprocal. If someone is spending their time and Energy making someone else happy then how are they then able to retain happiness for themselves.

I personally would not do all that nor accept the responsibility of having to make someone else happy. Run your own dang bath. LOL

Oh and don’t assume that it would be reciprocated. There are way to many one sided relationships out there. Personally I think a majority are one sided usually.

 

[Jasmina]

Why wouldn't it be?

If this was an article about how a dude can keep his women happy, can you imagine how you would have reacted to that... I certainly can.

Interesting your first thought is "but what about me"?

 

[NotADcotor]

All a guy needs is some friction. Hell often just a few fricks is sadly enough.

That and don't be an unreasonable beast to be around.

 

[james t kirk]

You know what id really like when I come home from a long day at the salt mine?

Just an hour of peace and quiet.

No questions, no talking, no reciting of the life schedules. No additional bullshit, I get more than my fair share at work. No blah blah blah. I don't even care about dinner. Just some peace or as close to that as you can possibly get.

Why is that so fucking hard?

 

[Ginomore]

I am sure all those things will keep a man happy. Just wondering what he does to keep her happy in return.

He provides the money.
She is obviously talking about a high earning man since she is a housewife.

 

[Butler1000]

You know what id really like when I come home from a long day at the salt mine?

Just an hour of peace and quiet.

No questions, no talking, no reciting of the life schedules. No additional bullshit, I get more than my fair share at work. No blah blah blah. I don't even care about dinner. Just some peace or as close to that as you can possibly get.

Why is that so fucking hard?

When I had job stress (working two jobs to get over the Mortgage/debt hump) I used to go out to a local for 2 hours and two pints. Never more than that. But I needed to decompress before going home. My SO totally understood and was on board. And If Decided to come home instead she knew(about 95%) not to hit me with anything for about at least an hour.

You need to talk to her, tell her you need that boundry space between work and home, full stop. That ypu won't be that grumpy guy if you get that time. And then maintain it. Give it a name, so if she starts when you walk in just say the name of it(Grumpy Time, Decompressing Now, whatever works, hell let her name in something stupid as long as you get it) and it stops.

Then hold up your end after by dealing with the shit. Worked great for me

 

[Varoufakis]

It is not a “what about me”. I have me covered. I don’t date, don’t want to date and enjoy single life.

I guess I am used to making myself happy, the concept of living life just to make your man/woman happy is too foreign to me.

So many people live life expecting their SO to make them happy. This was about making the man happy so naturally I asked about the reciprocal. If someone is spending their time and Energy making someone else happy then how are they then able to retain happiness for themselves.

I personally would not do all that nor accept the responsibility of having to make someone else happy. Run your own dang bath. LOL

Oh and don’t assume that it would be reciprocated. There are way to many one sided relationships out there. Personally I think a majority are one sided usually.

First, the post was meant as a joke…I guess everyone figured that by now…

Second, to go back to your argument how she can retain happiness for herself… did it occur to you that may be her happiness is providing other happiness?

I, for one, feel pleasure when I please my woman… watching her have an orgasm is priceless

 

[Jenesis]

First, the post was meant as a joke…I guess everyone figured that by now…

Second, to go back to your argument how she can retain happiness for herself… did it occur to you that may be her happiness is providing other happiness?

I, for one, feel pleasure when I please my woman… watching her have an orgasm is priceless

I think you are missing my tone. I’m only trying to explain my experience and question the opposite out of curiosity as it is not something I experience.

As for being happy making others happy, sure. But an orgasm is a long way from all the stuff she is taking about.

He provides the money.
She is obviously talking about a high earning man since she is a housewife.

Money doesn’t always buy happiness. Often times it is the opposite. It hides the pain

 

[Varoufakis]

When I had job stress (working two jobs to get over the Mortgage/debt hump) I used to go out to a local for 2 hours and two pints. Never more than that. But I needed to decompress before going home. My SO totally understood and was on board. And If Decided to come home instead she knew(about 95%) not to hit me with anything for about at least an hour.

You need to talk to her, tell her you need that boundry space between work and home, full stop. That ypu won't be that grumpy guy if you get that time. And then maintain it. Give it a name, so if she starts when you walk in just say the name of it(Grumpy Time, Decompressing Now, whatever works, hell let her name in something stupid as long as you get it) and it stops.

Then hold up your end after by dealing with the shit. Worked great for me

"And If Decided to come home instead she knew(about 95%) not to hit me with anything for about at least an hour."

What happened in the other 5%? Literally, hit you? Or Sex?

 

[Butler1000]

"And If Decided to come home instead she knew(about 95%) not to hit me with anything for about at least an hour."

What happened in the other 5%? Literally, hit you? Or Sex?

The other 5% she had a bad day herself. So would start yammering about whatever stupid admin thing at work that happened, or the bad call she took, whatever.

And during that time I was working hard. Sometimes had 3 jobs in a day. So sex was scheduled. I didn't hobby for years either. It was a commitment to getting ahead of things.

It took a buy in from her. But we did it.

 

[Varoufakis]

The other 5% she had a bad day herself. So would start yammering about whatever stupid admin thing at work that happened, or the bad call she took, whatever.

And during that time I was working hard. Sometimes had 3 jobs in a day. So sex was scheduled. I didn't hobby for years either. It was a commitment to getting ahead of things.

It took a buy in from her. But we did it.

Happy to hear you made it.

 

[NotADcotor]

Being reasonable and willing to compromise when reasonable can go a long way to fixing problems.
Like giving someone space if they come home instead of the nag nag nag.

 

[Bored2022]

You know what id really like when I come home from a long day at the salt mine?

Just an hour of peace and quiet.

No questions, no talking, no reciting of the life schedules. No additional bullshit, I get more than my fair share at work. No blah blah blah. I don't even care about dinner. Just some peace or as close to that as you can possibly get.

Why is that so fucking hard?

Goto a beach after work to chill first and then home after.