How client’s age IMPACTS an escort, as seen in some Ads

[Hippopotamus]

For me - I don’t want to see people who remind me of my kids first of all.

Second - many in their 20s are time wasters playing games or looking for instruction etc and that is not something I’m interested it.

Third - while doing incalls at my home a) I don’t want to run into my kids friends and b) I can’t explain random 20 something kids coming to my house if it ever came up

Another meaningful insight from a companion perspective. Yupp, valid point.

 

[Hippopotamus]

"That is, a woman has a sexual attachment to her father. This is caused by an absent father or a toxic relationship with a father or father figure, and leads her to seek attention from other usually much older men. Aggressive flirtation, promiscuity, a tendency toward exhibitionism,"

Personally, I would never take advantage of a young woman seeking attention. Besides, I'm a one woman man now.

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By now, u have teased us twice , saying you are a “one woman man” . And Your dog (in the pic) seems fully relaxed..

 

[Darts]

The lady in the pic below used to advertise "only gents under 40" and maybe still does. Her minimum rate back in the day was $750. Not sure how many 20 somethings can afford $750 when $750 was real money.

 

[Akila Besos]

I generally prefer having the older gentleman visit me when I'm working

For instance sessions can go at a much more natural pace. Plus they aren't trying to hit every single acronym under the sun during a short period of time.

I value the conversations I have with the older gents plus my kitty ain't dying in pain once the session ends. They don't leave huge bruises/marks on me which is a plus.

 

[Bagilson]

Oh come on now sweetie. You know that by discussing violence with women does not mean we are excluding violence with men.

What is being said is the onus should be on perpetrator to NOT commit the offence as oppose to the victim needing to learn to avoid the offence.

Since this context is talking about violence between a man and woman and as the woman as the victim because she is a sex worker, that is the reason only one gender of victims is discussed.

But it can be said that clients need to be taught to be respectful and non-violent over sex workers needing to be trained to avoid and defend. Since there are male sex workers as well. Again though, usually seen by other men. There is a much higher demand for rent boys over heterosexual only male escorts.

Your points are well taken, and I was being a bit rhetorical (perhaps not the right word). I’m just making the point that there is a certain small percentage of humans that are predisposed to hurting other humans. It would be nice if we could train them out of it, but we can’t. Ultimately everybody’s safety is their own responsibility. If you are in a line of work or a hobby that attracts the violent fringe you would be wise to be able to protect yourself.
In a perfect world I should be able to wander around Regent Park at 1am counting a wad of hundreds and still be safe. If I try doing that in reality, and get mugged, it would certainly be wrong to say that I deserved it, but it would also be inaccurate to say that I bore no responsibility for the outcome.

 

[Bagilson]

Mmmm victim blaming and a lack of understanding of gender based violence. So sexy.

Youngling, I’m not blaming you; I’m just explaining action and consequence. There will always be a certain small portion of society that will resort to violence. If you continually expose yourself to environments where this fringe element congregates, sooner or later you will encounter one of them. No one is saying you deserve it when this happens, no one is blaming you for when this happens. You are simply being told that it is likely to happen; like hurricanes on the gulf coast. You can talk about how nice it would be if we got rid of hurricanes (and it would), but until that day comes you’d be wise to have a plan to deal with them. Much like prostitutes would be wise to have a plan to deal with the a violent client.

 

[Vera.Reis]

Youngling, I’m not blaming you; I’m just explaining action and consequence. There will always be a certain small portion of society that will resort to violence. If you continually expose yourself to environments where this fringe element congregates, sooner or later you will encounter one of them. No one is saying you deserve it when this happens, no one is blaming you for when this happens. You are simply being told that it is likely to happen; like hurricanes on the gulf coast. You can talk about how nice it would be if we got rid of hurricanes (and it would), but until that day comes you’d be wise to have a plan to deal with them. Much like prostitutes would be wise to have a plan to deal with the a violent client.

There's definitely no prejudice coming from someone who calls us prostitutes.

 

[MONTYY]

I generally prefer having the older gentleman visit me when I'm working

For instance sessions can go at a much more natural pace. Plus they aren't trying to hit every single acronym under the sun during a short period of time.

I value the conversations I have with the older gents plus my kitty ain't dying in pain once the session ends. They don't leave huge bruises/marks on me which is a plus.

The young guns think they need to fuck like Porn Stars, go fast and hard as possible...get in as many rounds as possible.

The older guys, like me, are good with one round and we want it to last, need more foreplay

 

[Varmitt]

Older guys know where everything is and what it’s for

 

[poker]

Rather a sexist viewpoint. You only want men trained not to hurt women, but you don't care if they hurt other men.

Either way, your position amounts to a nothing-burger from a practical standpoint. Society goes to great lengths to teach people not to hurt other people. For a small minority, that teaching never takes hold. That small minority usually ends up in the legal fringes of society. When you are in a business where you deal with the legal fringes of society (i.e. drug dealer, cop, prostitute or customer of prostitutes) you are exposing yourself to an unavoidable increase in risk. It's like skydiving or SCUBA diving; know the risk and have some safety measures in place to mitigate it. If something bad happens, and you didn't have plans to mitigate it, you'll have my sympathies but ultimately, from a pragmatic standpoint, you'll also have some of the blame.

@Darts… and you said he was one of the good guys.

 

[ExpCharlee]

I definitely have some wonderful younger clients. However, I prioritize clients over 40 because--to be honest--I find they're better in bed. Experience goes a long way when it comes to bedroom skills! I don't notice much of a difference in stamina when it comes to age. I also love older gentlemen because they have more life experience and interesting stories to tell.

 

[Darts]

@Darts… and you said he was one of the good guys.

It's all relative. Yes, compare to some other members. I think what he is trying to say here is that some professions are inherently more dangerous/risky than others and precautions must be taken, or something like that. Of course, I would word it much more delicately.

 

[faveone]

I generally prefer having the older gentleman visit me when I'm working

For instance sessions can go at a much more natural pace. Plus they aren't trying to hit every single acronym under the sun during a short period of time.

I value the conversations I have with the older gents plus my kitty ain't dying in pain once the session ends. They don't leave huge bruises/marks on me which is a plus.

I miss you terribly baby

 

[Robert Mugabe]

I could do without the greeting "good evening your flaccid flatulence" .

 

[Valcazar]

Older guys know where everything is and what it’s for

As an older gentleman, I think you're being too generous in your assessment.

 

[ExpCharlee]

As an older gentleman, I think you're being too generous in your assessment.

haha. older guys know they don't know anything. this ^ is the attitude that's fun in a session <3

 

[ExpCharlee]

Coming from a young dude myself, and as someone who jumped into this hobby really young. Most younger dudes should avoid hobbying until they have had some life experiences. Count it as a blessing in disguise.

I've seen some younger guys who just want to learn more about the female body. I sit them down in front of my vulva and walk them through what everything is, trying to dispel the mystery. Taught young guys to kiss. Given lessons on consent and body language. I think hiring an escort when you're younger can be a really enriching experience.

I've also seen several virgins! I think it's totally appropriate to choose to have your first sexual experience with a professional. Someone else can take control, walk you through the experience, and they'll feel totally comfortable and in their element the whole time.

I'm sorry you didn't have the best first experiences. <3

 

[Scholar]

Yes because God forbid your aim would be taken at the men who harm us, it must be our responsibility to learn self defense.

The world would be better served by teaching men to not hurt women.

Who said responsibility? All that was said is that he hoped you took some self defense lessons. Most men, at least real men, don't hurt women and would be appalled at the idea of doing so. Unfortunately, you have chosen a profession that puts you in the position to be alone with multiple strange men on a daily basis. That puts the onus on you to be prepared for the eventuality that you will be in a position where knowing how to defend yourself is required.

I know this isn't a discussion on price but let's be honest, the reason you can charge what amounts to more than a day's pay for the average guy for an HOUR of your time is at least partly due to the risk that you take working in this profession. That risk isn't limited to violence but that is one of the big ones.

All that said, let me be clear. It is not all right for anyone to assault another person, whether SP or civilian, but it is absolutely a good idea to be able to defend yourself if someone initiates violence against you.

 

[Valcazar]

haha. older guys know they don't know anything. this ^ is the attitude that's fun in a session <3

I'm a very good student with the right teacher.

I've seen some younger guys who just want to learn more about the female body. I sit them down in front of my vulva and walk them through what everything is, trying to dispel the mystery. Taught young guys to kiss. Given lessons on consent and body language. I think hiring an escort when you're younger can be a really enriching experience.

I've also seen several virgins! I think it's totally appropriate to choose to have your first sexual experience with a professional. Someone else can take control, walk you through the experience, and they'll feel totally comfortable and in their element the whole time.

I'm sorry you didn't have the best first experiences. <3

My first was a professional (not hired, we met in other circumstances) and was very conscientious about making sure I had a good first experience and learned well.

 

[Akila Besos]

I miss you terribly baby

I'll see you again soon .