I read different posts of multiple users’ philosophy of love on different websites and I noticed that I have not found a single person’s philosophy of love aligning with my own and I wanted to know if there is a problem with my perception of love and maybe somebody can enlighten me here. Love to me is consensual sex. It doesn’t matter if you’re having sex as a ONS , FWB , your girlfriend , wife or an escort. If both parties agree to have sex with each other, there’s at least an ounce of love there. Love is the amount of semen that gets extracted from the penis by the woman. The higher the load of semen that’s getting ejaculated, the more the man loves that woman. Love is thinking about a woman and you suddenly get an erection. It’s the volume of the orgasms that the woman is giving you when you’re having sex with her. It’s the incredible physical touch that you get from the woman during sex. It’s looking at dozens of pictures of a woman and you’re masturbating to her. It’s the thought of always wanting to have sex with that same person over and over again because your deeply and passionately into her. Does anybody else have a philosophy of love that’s similar to this?
Sex is love?
- Thread starter Tashki
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Well I think first of all I love is more of a spiritual thing sex is biological. The amount of semen you produce does not translate into love. The intensity of your orgasm is not necessarily to see how much you love somebody although I think it helps. If I can make an observation you did not mention how a woman feels during sex and how intense her orgasm is
Excellent observation. I’m afraid that’s due to my symptom of having a high ratio of having sex with escorts vs sex with civilians in my life.
Sex is not (always) love. I was madly in love with an ex GF, once during sex she said she loved me too. Later she confessed it was just passion. She could not "attach' to a man. She had a few family issues, including adoption.
Too bad, the sex was always incredible, sometimes very kinky public sex and mentally she was off the charts brilliant. Sapiosexual. Just being in her presence instant boners.
Once after the 'official' break-up she slept in a spare bedroom at my place as 'friends'. I was dying inside but loved her. Had a shower in the morning, walked out naked as usual, she acted shocked, I died a little more while growing a huge boner...and put on a towel, next morning she was waiting outside the bathroom door. I wish she would have just dropped and given me one of her epic blowjobs as some kind of closure.
She was horny but not in true love.
It was just my turn.
Too bad, the sex was always incredible, sometimes very kinky public sex and mentally she was off the charts brilliant. Sapiosexual. Just being in her presence instant boners.
Once after the 'official' break-up she slept in a spare bedroom at my place as 'friends'. I was dying inside but loved her. Had a shower in the morning, walked out naked as usual, she acted shocked, I died a little more while growing a huge boner...and put on a towel, next morning she was waiting outside the bathroom door. I wish she would have just dropped and given me one of her epic blowjobs as some kind of closure.
She was horny but not in true love.
It was just my turn.
Sex is not love when its a business deal. You can love the idea of having sex you can love sex but it is not love with an escort. It is looking at her picture booking her seeing her beauty and falling in LUST. Once you know the difference between lust and loved you will understand it better. I can look at a man and find him handsome and my hormones and body seem to crave him in a lustful way and sometimes sex with a stranger is wonderful and sometimes its awkward cause you both want different things. But when you love a woman its because you've seen her without make up on you've seen her puke from having the stomach flu you have seen her imperfections on her body and you both share your deep thoughts dreams and goals with each other and you both are there to listen and help each other through good times and bad. But going on a dating site and seeing a hot woman and having casual convo eating dinner then having sex is not love its sexual gratification for both of you. if you dont understand what real love is your going to have a lot of broken hearts from thinking its real love.
first remember love is never exclusive.
2nd there are many different forms of love that one can experience regardless of the circumstances. Just google it to get an idea what others define.
3rd remember that the opposite of love is not hate it is indifference
4th remember that it is all connected
5th god is in the rain, so is in you, in her, in your experiences in your connections in your presence in everything you can feel it when it’s there
6th you can make the point we are all one and every single one of us in connected through all our thoughts and experiences. This becomes evident on a high dose of those magical chocolates
where everything you read, see, hear and touch you feel this extreme sense of connectedness to all and you see how it all fits
yes it is possible to love through sex regardless of the sex and don’t allow anyone to define it for you. You can use others definitions of it as guidance however only you know the answer to this and what it is. A lot of people are scared shitless of anything love and hurt and all this other nonsense and treat it as taboo and make all this drama out of it because how they project their fears of it and the bad experiences they felt especially in this business lol whatever you do don’t say anything love related to any SP regardless of the experience if you want to keep enjoying the experience. They are strongly conditioned against this.
if you think or feel you love her let her go and free her from your thoughts and experiences. If she loves you she will come back to you. If not just move on or never talk about it with her and just enjoy the experience.
Lastly never confuse lust for love because lust is about you and not her
2nd there are many different forms of love that one can experience regardless of the circumstances. Just google it to get an idea what others define.
3rd remember that the opposite of love is not hate it is indifference
4th remember that it is all connected
5th god is in the rain, so is in you, in her, in your experiences in your connections in your presence in everything you can feel it when it’s there
6th you can make the point we are all one and every single one of us in connected through all our thoughts and experiences. This becomes evident on a high dose of those magical chocolates
where everything you read, see, hear and touch you feel this extreme sense of connectedness to all and you see how it all fitsyes it is possible to love through sex regardless of the sex and don’t allow anyone to define it for you. You can use others definitions of it as guidance however only you know the answer to this and what it is. A lot of people are scared shitless of anything love and hurt and all this other nonsense and treat it as taboo and make all this drama out of it because how they project their fears of it and the bad experiences they felt especially in this business lol whatever you do don’t say anything love related to any SP regardless of the experience if you want to keep enjoying the experience. They are strongly conditioned against this.
if you think or feel you love her let her go and free her from your thoughts and experiences. If she loves you she will come back to you. If not just move on or never talk about it with her and just enjoy the experience.
Lastly never confuse lust for love because lust is about you and not her
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Love is a gutter on the side of the road, outside a downtown bar. Some wander these streets stinking drunk, and fall in that gutter. The gutter will consume them. Stuck forever they shall be in the darkness of night, under cloud and rain in a gutter of love. But for the others, it is only with the sobering light of day they are able to crawl out of the filthy mess they have landed in, and stumble away.
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My dad was a greeting card writer, so it’s kind of a giftGeez, you're such a romantic!
