How to choke an SP?

[Thackeray]

This has come up a few times - girls asking to be choked while I’m inside them.

I’m generally uncomfortable with it - I’m really not trying to hurt anyone here - but I’m increasingly aware that girls in their 20s seem to enjoy this.

So I’ve got two questions:

1) WTF? Does the lower oxygen level to the brain make the sex more enjoyable? Or is it the slight risk of permanent brain damage or death that makes it “sexy”?

2) How do you go about doing this? A non-SP young female friend basically said one hand is good, two bad. But nothing’s that simple. Are you supposed to press on the carotid artery? Or the windpipe? What am I optimally going for here?

 

[Robert Mugabe]

This has come up a few times - girls asking to be choked while I’m inside them.

I’m generally uncomfortable with it - I’m really not trying to hurt anyone here - but I’m increasingly aware that girls in their 20s seem to enjoy this.

So I’ve got two questions:

1) WTF? Does the lower oxygen level to the brain make the sex more enjoyable? Or is it the slight risk of permanent brain damage or death that makes it “sexy”?

2) How do you go about doing this? A non-SP young female friend basically said one hand is good, two bad. But nothing’s that simple. Are you supposed to press on the carotid artery? Or the windpipe? What am I optimally going for here?

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ask these two guys. Oh no. you can't.

 

[Sonic Temple]

Damn - I'm kinda curious who likes this as I can see this being a crazy turn on.

 

[jonboy1]

Very carefully!

 

[Robert Mugabe]

Leave without paying.

 

[poker]

Oh…. This one is easy. You don’t.

This is clearly not “your” thing. You are paying for their service. Not the other way round. Therefore, feel free to live out your fantasies. They have private lives for their fantasies.

Now…. If you are still curious, you can ask them how much pressure is correct. Kind of practise it out of the moment. But you are under no obligation to start jumping through sexual hoops and doing crazy shit for your SP.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

Oh…. This one is easy. You don’t.

This is clearly not “your” thing. You are paying for their service. Not the other way round. Therefore, feel free to live out your fantasies. They have private lives for their fantasies.

Now…. If you are still curious, you can ask them how much pressure is correct. Kind of practise it out of the moment. But you are under no obligation to start jumping through sexual hoops and doing crazy shit for your SP.

Unless they offer a discount.

 

[poker]

Unless they offer a discount.

Good one!

 

[xmontrealer]

I don’t try it often, and only discovered it as being a "thing" when one sp asked for it a couple of years ago.

She seemed to enjoy it. The next time I tried it with a "regular" I gently placed my hand on her throat, but I then chickened out and pulled my hand away. To my surprise she immediately took my wrist and placed my hand back on her throat.

Anyways, now when I think about doing it, especially if I feel a lady is near to having an orgasm, I gently place my hand on the her throat and judge her reaction. If there doesn't seem to be any objection to that I will increase pressure on both sides of her neck with the thumb and index or middle finger of one hand, pressing only on her carotid arteries, never on her windpipe. I also probably use too little pressure cuz I really don't want to hurt her, or God Forbid have her pass out.

So far in most cases it seems to quicken and intensify her orgasm...

 

[Josephine Grey]

This has come up a few times - girls asking to be choked while I’m inside them.

I’m generally uncomfortable with it - I’m really not trying to hurt anyone here - but I’m increasingly aware that girls in their 20s seem to enjoy this.

So I’ve got two questions:

1) WTF? Does the lower oxygen level to the brain make the sex more enjoyable? Or is it the slight risk of permanent brain damage or death that makes it “sexy”?

2) How do you go about doing this? A non-SP young female friend basically said one hand is good, two bad. But nothing’s that simple. Are you supposed to press on the carotid artery? Or the windpipe? What am I optimally going for here?

I applaud her for saying out loud what she wants and what turns her on not a lot of sw does that but....consent.

You seem like you want to try so I would say just ask her prior your next session. If it is such a stress for you tho don't do it tho. Sex is suppose to be fun!

 

[Thackeray]

I applaud her for saying out loud what she wants and what turns her on not a lot of sw does that but....consent.

You seem like you want to try so I would say just ask her prior your next session. If it is such a stress for you tho don't do it tho. Sex is suppose to be fun!

Oh it IS fun… but Lord it really is a gas watching a hot young girl thrash and moan with you.

I try to please where I can - this one has had me stumped though.

 

[Varoufakis]

This has come up a few times - girls asking to be choked while I’m inside them.

I’m generally uncomfortable with it - I’m really not trying to hurt anyone here - but I’m increasingly aware that girls in their 20s seem to enjoy this.

So I’ve got two questions:

1) WTF? Does the lower oxygen level to the brain make the sex more enjoyable? Or is it the slight risk of permanent brain damage or death that makes it “sexy”?

2) How do you go about doing this? A non-SP young female friend basically said one hand is good, two bad. But nothing’s that simple. Are you supposed to press on the carotid artery? Or the windpipe? What am I optimally going for here?

For question 1: overthinking it. It's the feeling of being dominated that turns her on...the opposite does it for men...
For question 2: gentle and slow and look for cues from your partner...

I usually do it only with those I know they want it... or asked for it...same with hair pull...

PS.

Sex and sexual intimacy should never be treated like a routine oil change.
Everyone has different preferences in the bedroom, so never assume anything, and always ask first.

 

[xmontrealer]

For question 1: overthinking it. It's the feeling of being dominated that turns her on...the opposite does it for men...
For question 2: gentle and slow and look for cues from your partner...

I usually do it only with those I know they want it... or asked for it...same with hair pull...

Agree 100%. Start gentle and slow, be very careful about increasing pressure, and try to make sure she seems to be enjoying it and not just tolerating it.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

My brother was telling me about a girlfriend who wanted him to hit her hard during sex. He timidly and reluctantly slapped her face . "no you bastard! Harder!!. So he wailed off and slugged her. Didn't enjoy it, but she did. Women. There was a Len Deighton book where a French detective was saying that they had to put cops at the doors of brothels to check customers because girls were getting stabbed. The stabbings continued. They found out that some of the girls were smuggling in knives for the customers. His conclusion was....women.....Indicator that the girls still love a tough guy. And some like it rough.

 

[Mandalorian]

The first time I’ve ever choked a girl during sex was with a Toronto SP in my hotel room. She was a regular here as well and never mentioned any rough or airway play at all here. She asked me to choke her on round two and I reluctantly did so. It was cool but nerve wracking and I think my nervousness turned her on even more. Afterward she told me how she likes it so much she puts a belt around her neck when she masturbates.

Since then I’ve done it a bunch of times with others but all of them were just curious to try. I’ve never come across one as crazy about it as the first girl.

 

[cex]

This has come up a few times - girls asking to be choked while I’m inside them.

I’m generally uncomfortable with it - I’m really not trying to hurt anyone here - but I’m increasingly aware that girls in their 20s seem to enjoy this.

So I’ve got two questions:

1) WTF? Does the lower oxygen level to the brain make the sex more enjoyable? Or is it the slight risk of permanent brain damage or death that makes it “sexy”?

2) How do you go about doing this? A non-SP young female friend basically said one hand is good, two bad. But nothing’s that simple. Are you supposed to press on the carotid artery? Or the windpipe? What am I optimally going for here?

LOL! There is this popular SP I was with some years ago that wanted something like that during the session. I obliged and I must admit at some point it got a bit scary for me with how hard she wanted to be choked. At one point she goes "don't get squirmy on me, fucking choke me" I swear, I never thought it was possible to choke anyone that hard. After the session she was telling me I could have even choked harder and she would like that.
I think it just takes one getting use to it and the person you are with, she was fine with it and didn't complain afterwards. Just don't do it though if you are not comfortable with it.

 

[Akila Besos]

I like the whole getting choked deal . Like in the heat of the moment it just turns me on alot

Maybe I'm just very primal but when someone does it they will get the best A++++ game outta me

Obviously I tap on the person shoulders if the hold is wayyy too tight

 

[VIPhunter]

I can't imagine why this is sexy to anybody, choker or chokee, but it really seems to be a thing I guess.

 

[oral.com]

My SB likes getting choked in the heat of the moment. I start gently and gradually squeeze the front of her throat with one hand, it really sends her over the edge. She also loves when I pull her hair. I grab a handful close to her scalp and gradually pull while we fuck. I love watching her get off on this. She’s gotten pretty kinky over the past year since we met.

 

[SeaGirth]

It’s kinda scary though to imagine if things go wrong they could go really really wrong.