Appropriate age difference between client and SP??

Josephine Grey

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Good Lord, it seems all this PC shit made some folks unable to recognize a joke. I would expect people in an escort forum would be more liberal in accepting some rough humor. You want to cater for older gentlemen - you are expected to lough at sexist/racist jokes.
I am not going there with you. I said what I have to say. Good evening sir.
 
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It was a perfectly reasonable answer to your question. Anyone in the business is banging dudes who gross them out, even ignoring the age question. If they couldn't handle it they wouldn't be in the business. It's reality.
If nobody but hot attractive studs were paying to fuck the business would collapse, this is also reality. It would look a lot more like the gigolo market.
There are straight dudes who fuck dudes for cash. This is also reality. I am sure they are grossed out by their clients even if they say no homo after every session.
As for the last part, it was a bit of sarcasm over some of the over the top marketing that some girls do here. That is also a reality.

That you consider any of this rude or uncalled for says more about you than it does me.





This guy gets it.
Sorry, I didn't have the original post or question for this thread.
 

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Samranchoi

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If you want SP for conversation or for sex, then older (late 20s - early 30s) are fine. If you like DATY - I prefer younger ones (under 25, preferably under 22) as IMHO the taste and esthetics of the Y deteriorates very fast with the age and the use. No matter how women care for her skin, a skin of 35 y.o. is not comparable with a skin of 20 y.o. (unless that 20 y.o. is a veteran). 35+ are too old for SPs and they cater only for some specific clientele (older dudes who are uncomfortable with young girls or who want a long-term relationship with an SP). Maybe in 20 years when I will turn 70, I will be OK with 35 y.o. SPs, but now I only shop in "under 25" section.
And apparently guys who reach 50 tend to regress back towards their puberty years in search of trying to figure out girls and themselves but sadly “fail”.
 
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If you want SP for conversation or for sex, then older (late 20s - early 30s) are fine. If you like DATY - I prefer younger ones (under 25, preferably under 22) as IMHO the taste and esthetics of the Y deteriorates very fast with the age and the use. No matter how women care for her skin, a skin of 35 y.o. is not comparable with a skin of 20 y.o. (unless that 20 y.o. is a veteran). 35+ are too old for SPs and they cater only for some specific clientele (older dudes who are uncomfortable with young girls or who want a long-term relationship with an SP). Maybe in 20 years when I will turn 70, I will be OK with 35 y.o. SPs, but now I only shop in "under 25" section.
Interesting point of view... I can relate to that, for sure.
I see SPs in their 20's (advertised) and I am way over 2X their age (will not disclose my age lol)... for sure some SPs in that age group, not all, lack experience but the feel of that young body is refreshing, like drinking from the fountain of youth, and I enjoy teaching them few tricks...I may push to "under 20 section" (but above 18 though), as I love dining at the Y.
Just checked the last 10 SPs I have seen, they had an average of 26 with a low of 20 and a high of 42...once in a while, I go back to the "senior SP" section for a different experience... mind you the 42 SP felt more like 50 I think...
The rule of thumb with the agencies from my experience:
- advertised age 20-29: real age = advertised + 2 or 3 years
- advertised age 30-40: real age = advertised + 5 years
- advertised age > 40: real age = advertised + 10 years
 
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Varoufakis

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And apparently guys who reach 50 tend to regress back towards their puberty years in search of trying to figure out girls and themselves but sadly “fail”.
Not sure what is meant by "apparently": opinion, fact, research, tabloid story, etc...
I am in my 50's and I am not trying to figure out anything ... just getting laid and having a blast... letting other younger people figure out the meaning of life...
 
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Mishman527

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You're thinking about it too much.
As long as there is a service offered and you wish to partake. That's all. You don't even need to be able to get it up.
You're judging yourself regarding age. Certainly not her, and definitely nobody else is.
 

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Back to the topic at hand...

For some weird reason, I'm fine with any age 21 or over. I think the reason I came up with this number, is because there's just something off about seeing an SP that's sill a teenager, and 20 still feels to close to a teenager. 21 just seems to be the age that puts my mind at ease in terms of the SP being a right minded adult.
 

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Due to the intimate nature of this business, what drives the answer to this question is what is comfortable for both parties. If a SW has age (or other) restrictions, you respect them. If you feel uncomfortable being with a 20 year old, you don't book them. The key to a satisfying encounter is to make the other person feel comfortable within the bounds of your restrictions & vice versa. You are bound to have a much better time with a SW (or hell, with ANY woman for that matter) by paying attention to cues & not trying to push her out of her comfort zone.

There's a difference between calling a SW a "cum hungry slut" on a forum, and her saying it as dirty talk while giving you a bbbj. Context matters.

And sexist/racist jokes are never ok. That's not being PC. It's being a decent human.
 

MrPrezident

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Red House over yonder.
Only Aunt Bea and Clara and the other ladies from Mayberry would care about a date being "age appropriate."

Have a glass of wine, dim the lights, and play some Jill Scott music on your phone with an auxiliary Bose spreaker. If you have a big enough erection it will pull all the wrinkles out of your face.
 

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Butler1000

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Um......

For me the whole point is to fuck a girl I probably wouldn't have a shot with otherwise. And pretty sure that's the vast majority of us. As noted, be a good client and age means nothing.
 

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I prefer going to Sps who are between 30 to 50, to varying degrees a few years younger or older, depending on the person.
It mostly depends on the attitude. I am not at that age where I am a creepy old man.
Hope that never happens. Lol.
L.D.
 
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50’s the new 19. 🤷‍♂️🤣
 

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And sexist/racist jokes are never ok.

Actually they are. That's what makes them jokes. Some of the best stand ups comics of all time had elements of this in there material. In fact there was an episode of Curb Your Enthusiasm this year where the whole episode was based on racist and prejudice jokes. Nobody is running around saying Larry David complete jerk because of it. Probably because they knew it was just jokes.
 
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By describing us as ''cum hungry slut" you enable this type of language toward us.
NotADoctor is right...I see this type of language in SW marketing all the time. Although, the correct phrasing is "Slut who is cum hungry" to be politically correct, the person always comes first. :rolleyes:

I'm sure every escort has a preferred client age range and looks, but all agency escorts I have talked to on the subject have said the same thing. I can't control who comes through that door next, all I hope for is that they are clean and respectful, and the majority are.
 
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