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If I had good looks to cash in on my first thought would be modelling. The inexplicable fragrance ads, suits and watches. (I'm thinking this would be a better way to meet girls than tinder too) Plus guys have the advantage being able to get that kind of work even when we're older. The silver fox look is still desirable in advertising, think the Dos Equis guy and a million retirement and financial service ads.

I guess the more modern answer to the OP question is Social Media Influencer. Still selling stuff but in the more tech savy way. Same shit, different pile.
I heard male models get paid very low. It's like minimum wage almost. Which is why I asked the question, do top notch male looks have any value based on looks alone?
Female models can make millions, whereas the male ones can be seen couch surfing.
 

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You have been out of the game a little too long. I have seen girls walk away with losers because he drove a Dodge Charger with a purple light kit. Why do you think so many skid guys drive 2007 Lexes and BMW? Because it works with certain girls.

There is a corner store across the road from a Money Mart in the Falls at Main and Ferry street. I was walking to my car from the store when a fairly new Mercedes pulls in beside me. Young man driving. Looked like drug dealer type guy. His gf was a bleach blond bubble head skid with the nails done. Bare feet up on the dash board… seemed annoyed while he ran across to money mart. Likely had to get loan to make his car payment. Laughed my ass off to myself.

If a chick wants me for my car, I don’t want her. It’s that simple. There are good women out there. Lots of them. Although, I fear Instagram may be teaching the young kids values instead of Sunday schools, parents and grand parents.

Lesson here…. You only have to look the part. There are plenty of men not even capable of making the playoffs acting like they won the Cup…. With bimbos on their arms.
Most women I know - including some women who seemed way too smart to do this - go through a "hot drug dealer" phase in their early 20's. The danger, the easy ample money, the allure of being "an outlaw's girl" and the fact that the guy is good-looking is what gets them.

When they hit 30 years old, that changes to a "rich older guy to take care of me". Almost every escort that I ever got to know went through that exact pattern.
 
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Most women I know - including some women who seemed way too smart to do this - go through a "hot drug dealer" phase in their early 20's. The danger, the easy ample money, the allure of being "an outlaw's girl" and the fact that the guy is good-looking is what gets them.

When they hit 30 years old, that changes to a "rich older guy to take care of me". Almost every escort that I ever got to know went through that exact pattern.
Yeah, the problem is that there are not enough alpha males to "take care" of women now. All their basic needs are satisfied so expectations are now through the roof.
They are also more likely to have a good pension because they have the majority of government jobs. Something that seems to never be discussed.
New facts on pension coverage in Canada (statcan.gc.ca)
 
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Being a very good looking male definitely helps you attract women. Let's be honest. If you're a 3, you're not going to be attracting 9's. It doesn't work that way.

Sure, you can be rich and you'll score a young good looking woman, but she won't really be panting over you will she. She just wants your cash. Even the really really rich old men who are with really beautiful younger women know in their heart of hearts that she's only with him because of his status. I recall watching "Family Jewels" which was a strangely interesting show about Gene Simmons and his family. In one episode, Gene had been nailed on hidden camera pegging some sex worker in the most mechanical and horrifying manner and it made the news. So long story short, they hooked him up to a lie detector and Shannon got to ask him questions. (Doesn't matter.) But then they hooked up Shannon Tweed to the lie detector and Danny Bodaducci got to ask her questions, and one question he asked her was, "if when you met Gene he was just a normal guy and not world famous Gene Simmons would you have still dated him?" Her answer, in a split second was, "no". Just cold, matter of fact no. I thought that that was more devastating to old Gene than if she had of admitted that had fucked the varsity water polo team the night before. (Let's face it, Gene Simmons looks like an extra from Planet of the Apes. The original Planet of the Apes, the one with Charleton Heston at that.)

Women like to say that they aren't necessarily attracted to good looking men, or that its not high on their list. Bullshit. That''s just women being coy and afraid to speak the truth. Women have a huge shopping list when it comes to a male partner and looks are definitely on that list. Just like they'll tell you that size doesn't matter. Well, pour 3 glasses of red wine into them and ask that same question again.
 

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If I had good looks to cash in on my first thought would be modelling. The inexplicable fragrance ads, suits and watches. (I'm thinking this would be a better way to meet girls than tinder too) Plus guys have the advantage being able to get that kind of work even when we're older. The silver fox look is still desirable in advertising, think the Dos Equis guy and a million retirement and financial service ads.

I guess the more modern answer to the OP question is Social Media Influencer. Still selling stuff but in the more tech savy way. Same shit, different pile.
If you looked like that, you probably wouldn't be posting on TERB.
 

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If you looked like that, you probably wouldn't be posting on TERB.
Many escorts have told me that they often get very hot guys booking them. Just because you're a hot male, doesn't mean you'll get women easily.

Thus, the point of the thread, does it have value ? Whether it's for work/business or relationships/sex.

The reason is you can be a 10/10 and go on Tinder, but women get 100+ matches, maybe a handful of 10s they have to choose from. If she narrows it down to 10 hot guys and you made it on the list, your chance of getting a convo or a date going is 10%.
 
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Discuss. If you were top 0.1% in looks, what would do with it? Don't say have sex with many women for free because Tinder is still tough for such men. Apart from that what would you do?
You have just flagged yourself as a three out of ten.
 

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Most women I know - including some women who seemed way too smart to do this - go through a "hot drug dealer" phase in their early 20's. The danger, the easy ample money, the allure of being "an outlaw's girl" and the fact that the guy is good-looking is what gets them.

When they hit 30 years old, that changes to a "rich older guy to take care of me". Almost every escort that I ever got to know went through that exact pattern.

I have a good friend in her 40’s going through that now. She got engaged to a career criminal. She used to be lively, confident, and terribly outspoken. I ran into her at her job, and she is terrified. Been in a woman’s shelter twice… had a bag of coins thrown at her head Christmas morning, and she has no way to leave the guy…. He controls her phone, who she can talk to and see.

Careful what you wish for…
 
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Being a very good looking male definitely helps you attract women. Let's be honest. If you're a 3, you're not going to be attracting 9's. It doesn't work that way.

Sure, you can be rich and you'll score a young good looking woman, but she won't really be panting over you will she. She just wants your cash. Even the really really rich old men who are with really beautiful younger women know in their heart of hearts that she's only with him because of his status. I recall watching "Family Jewels" which was a strangely interesting show about Gene Simmons and his family. In one episode, Gene had been nailed on hidden camera pegging some sex worker in the most mechanical and horrifying manner and it made the news. So long story short, they hooked him up to a lie detector and Shannon got to ask him questions. (Doesn't matter.) But then they hooked up Shannon Tweed to the lie detector and Danny Bodaducci got to ask her questions, and one question he asked her was, "if when you met Gene he was just a normal guy and not world famous Gene Simmons would you have still dated him?" Her answer, in a split second was, "no". Just cold, matter of fact no. I thought that that was more devastating to old Gene than if she had of admitted that had fucked the varsity water polo team the night before. (Let's face it, Gene Simmons looks like an extra from Planet of the Apes. The original Planet of the Apes, the one with Charleton Heston at that.)

Women like to say that they aren't necessarily attracted to good looking men, or that its not high on their list. Bullshit. That''s just women being coy and afraid to speak the truth. Women have a huge shopping list when it comes to a male partner and looks are definitely on that list. Just like they'll tell you that size doesn't matter. Well, pour 3 glasses of red wine into them and ask that same question again.
About 10 years ago, I booked an escort often enough to get told details of her personal life. She was hooking up with a fitness instructor and she described their first fuck in these terms:

"I knew I was going to love fucking him because he had such a cute ass. But - oh my god! - he's got a really big dick as well!"

About sums it all up.
 

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Being a very good looking male definitely helps you attract women. Let's be honest. If you're a 3, you're not going to be attracting 9's. It doesn't work that way.

Sure, you can be rich and you'll score a young good looking woman, but she won't really be panting over you will she. She just wants your cash. Even the really really rich old men who are with really beautiful younger women know in their heart of hearts that she's only with him because of his status. I recall watching "Family Jewels" which was a strangely interesting show about Gene Simmons and his family. In one episode, Gene had been nailed on hidden camera pegging some sex worker in the most mechanical and horrifying manner and it made the news. So long story short, they hooked him up to a lie detector and Shannon got to ask him questions. (Doesn't matter.) But then they hooked up Shannon Tweed to the lie detector and Danny Bodaducci got to ask her questions, and one question he asked her was, "if when you met Gene he was just a normal guy and not world famous Gene Simmons would you have still dated him?" Her answer, in a split second was, "no". Just cold, matter of fact no. I thought that that was more devastating to old Gene than if she had of admitted that had fucked the varsity water polo team the night before. (Let's face it, Gene Simmons looks like an extra from Planet of the Apes. The original Planet of the Apes, the one with Charleton Heston at that.)

Women like to say that they aren't necessarily attracted to good looking men, or that its not high on their list. Bullshit. That''s just women being coy and afraid to speak the truth. Women have a huge shopping list when it comes to a male partner and looks are definitely on that list. Just like they'll tell you that size doesn't matter. Well, pour 3 glasses of red wine into them and ask that same question again.
Take a look at the members of British Pop/Rock bands, pre early 80's, that were popular in North America as opposed to only in the UK, plus possibly Europe and Australia. The bands that were popular in North America all had one or more handsome members, so they could be successfully marketed to girls on the cusp of puberty in magazines like Tiger Beat. The UK bands that didn't make it stateside usually had a bunch of homely guys, who didn't have any money, and couldn't play football, so playing a guitar was the only way they were going to get a bird that wasn't as unattractive as themselves. After early 80's, music videos took over, and appearance and fashion sense was often more important in selling a band than the quality of their music. A quote from Eric Ehm, when she was a MuchMusic VJ: "This next band you're really going to love, They wear great clothes".
 
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I have a good friend in her 40’s going through that now. She got engaged to a career criminal. She used to be lively, confident, and terribly outspoken. I ran into her at her job, and she is terrified. Been in a woman’s shelter twice… had a bag of coins thrown at her head Christmas morning, and she has no way to leave the guy…. He controls her phone, who she can talk to and see.

Careful what you wish for…
One woman I know actually met the "love of her life" through the "Prison Pen Pals" website. I fucking kid you not!

Needless to say, it did not end well.
 
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One woman I know actually met the "love of her life" through the "Prison Pen Pals" website. I fucking kid you not!

Needless to say, it did not end well.
Guys are no different. We rate women on face, tits, and ass… and then wonder why we get served divorce papers and taken to the cleaners by chicks that worked 3 shifts at a Hooters. 🤷‍♂️
 

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There are plenty of men not even capable of making the playoffs acting like they won the Cup…. With bimbos on their arms.
This is hard to believe. If this was true, I wouldn’t be booking escorts. I book bimbo escorts because I still can’t figure out how to get bimbos to like me in my personal life.
 

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Yes some women have an artificial -superficial list. But once they realise that they need the homely guy , they have a hard time finding one. Most of the time they meet men that don't want to get married and have kids.
In the end their life can branch out in many different ways.
 
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This is hard to believe. If this was true, I wouldn’t be booking escorts. I book bimbo escorts because I still can’t figure out how to get bimbos to like me in my personal life.
You have never seen a hot chick with a douche bag before? It’s fairly common.

The key is “confidence”. And numbers. If you make a cute little joke, and small talk to 10 random women, you can get 3 numbers. If 7 rejections don’t bother you.

Myself… I used to have it. I may not have been exuding it at douche bag level arragance… but I knew how to talk to people, girls, professionals…. Didn’t matter. Then… my world changed.
 

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Most women I know - including some women who seemed way too smart to do this - go through a "hot drug dealer" phase in their early 20's. The danger, the easy ample money, the allure of being "an outlaw's girl" and the fact that the guy is good-looking is what gets them.

When they hit 30 years old, that changes to a "rich older guy to take care of me". Almost every escort that I ever got to know went through that exact pattern.
By 30 they have lost there looks or know there looks are on the way out. Of course they want an old rich guy to take care of them.
 

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The key is “confidence”. And numbers. If you make a cute little joke, and small talk to 10 random women, you can get 3 numbers. If 7 rejections don’t bother you.
If you get 3 out of 10 the 7 rejections are a small price to pay.
When you are batting potentially 1 in 100 and some of those 99 are really vicious that it is a game not worth playing. I know a guy who just looked at a profile on POF, didn't send a message but POF lets you know if someone viewed your profile. She sent him a message says something like... No, just no. He had no fucks to give being suicidal depressed already, I would have taken it as a sucker punch... but then in this manner I am a sensitive snowflake.
Something chicks don't understand when they say, just get out there and ask someone out [aka street harassment when you are not a hottie]

Most women I know - including some women who seemed way too smart to do this - go through a "hot drug dealer" phase in their early 20's
Alpha fucks, beta bucks so they say. A game I have no interest in playing. The idea of waiting till I am in my 30's or 40's while a girl spends her youth with scumbags ignoring only to become hot shit when she is no longer at her best and probably with kids has always seemed fucked up. Thankfully I have neither looks nor money so HA!
 
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If you get 3 out of 10 the 7 rejections are a small price to pay.
When you are batting potentially 1 in 100 and some of those 99 are really vicious that it is a game not worth playing. I know a guy who just looked at a profile on POF, didn't send a message but POF lets you know if someone viewed your profile. She sent him a message says something like... No, just no. He had no fucks to give being suicidal depressed already, I would have taken it as a sucker punch... but then in this manner I am a sensitive snowflake.
Something chicks don't understand when they say, just get out there and ask someone out [aka street harassment when you are not a hottie]



Alpha fucks, beta bucks so they say. A game I have no interest in playing. The idea of waiting till I am in my 30's or 40's while a girl spends her youth with scumbags ignoring only to become hot shit when she is no longer at her best and probably with kids has always seemed fucked up. Thankfully I have neither looks nor money so HA!
Online dating is horrendous... I still go on it once in a while if I am feeling too good about myself and I need a good swift kick in the nuts.
 
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