I've also had a similar experience.Yes im new to this and dont know what im doing.
I texted her 45min before, no answer.
10min before, no answer.
Parked, texted, no answer.
Waited a courteous 10min while answering work email cuz im on the clock Boss.
Looked up my someone reputable on LL while waiting, txted, got answered within 5 min and made an appointment within the next 20min/
Showed up to the next lady hotel, texted, got room number, went up and was very happy to throw her my hard earned money.