When A One Night Stand Wants a Relationship

[Claudia Love]

I met this gentlemen at the grocery store and we both started flirting so we exchanged numbers. I thought it was perfect timing because I just split up with my hubby. So we had our romp and I told him I do not want a relationship he didn't. say anything so i thought all is good. Then i start getting the calls every hour , of him telling me he wants to be a couple I'm fast forwarding this so i don't bore you but I told him look i already said i just wanted sex and nothing more right now. This guy couldn't accept this. So i had to block his number so he'd stop blowing up my phone. Just when I thought i knew what men like i get this curve ball thrown at me that is making me feel like im a bad person. Here I thought he'd love the idea of just getting together to fuck suck lick. He went cray cray all serious so now i'm the bad guy i've got this guy crying freaking out on me and quite frankly this is just too much. So I'm at a patio having a mojito trying to not think about this shit anymore. This is why I always come back to sex work because i have a high sex drive and guys treat me really good and give me my space. Cheers!

 

[Moose134]

I met this gentlemen at the grocery store and we both started flirting so we exchanged numbers. I thought it was perfect timing because I just split up with my hubby. So we had our romp and I told him I do not want a relationship he didn't. say anything so i thought all is good. Then i start getting the calls every hour , of him telling me he wants to be a couple I'm fast forwarding this so i don't bore you but I told him look i already said i just wanted sex and nothing more right now. This guy couldn't accept this. So i had to block his number so he'd stop blowing up my phone. Just when I thought i knew what men like i get this curve ball thrown at me that is making me feel like im a bad person. Here I thought he'd love the idea of just getting together to fuck suck lick. He went cray cray all serious so now i'm the bad guy i've got this guy crying freaking out on me and quite frankly this is just too much. So I'm at a patio having a mojito trying to not think about this shit anymore. This is why I always come back to sex work because i have a high sex drive and guys treat me really good and give me my space. Cheers!

lol how come I didn’t meet you at the grocery store after my divorce?

 

[Claudia Love]

lol how come I didn’t meet you at the grocery store after my divorce?

You woulda found me if you looked where the zucchinis are muah

 

[Moose134]

You woulda found me if you looked where the zucchinis are muah

Lol

 

[oil&gas]

The OP just had bad luck. A guy wanting a serious relationship
from a woman in a one night stand is as likely as that woman being
a virgin deflowered by him.

 

[poker]

Some guys equate sex and love at different points in there life.

He's going through a needy phase. Nobody likes that.
Instead of explaining politely that you only wanted sex... you should have started picking out baby names, and talking about how "mother" is just going to "love you". He would have blocked you.

 

[Valcazar]

Some guys equate sex and love at different points in there life.

He's going through a needy phase. Nobody likes that.
Instead of explaining politely that you only wanted sex... you should have started picking out baby names, and talking about how "mother" is just going to "love you". He would have blocked you.

Dangerous play.
Some people who go right to the calling every hour stage won't blanche at that, they will jump in full steam ahead.

 

[poker]

Dangerous play.
Some people who go right to the calling every hour stage won't blanche at that, they will jump in full steam ahead.

I was actually joking... but you are probably be right. The idea of consistent pussy is a dangerous thing.

 

[xix]

Nice comments above, but he could be a co-dependent, emotional basket case - low self-esteem, only had one woman his life, - high school sweethearts , always did the dumping of a relationship, fantasy up the head.

One word is what sums it up. Nutjob.

Yeah mention you want three kids.

 

[WetSeeker]

You woulda found me if you looked where the zucchinis are muah

I need to find the zucchini section and see who is handling them ;-)
After my separation after LTR ended, I hooked up, we had fun and fast forward she wanted me to move-in and pay rent. I bolted. Too soon, too fast.

 

[Jenesis]

When I have clients who want to date me after one visit, knowing the arrangement we are in, I don’t even bother trying with civies anymore.

Part of the whole reason I went P4P was to avoiding the guy getting all in his feels for me.

I remember way back in the day, before escorting, I would bring a guy home from the bar, I would make him wait in my living room while I went to shower as dancing all night leaves things less desirable to say the least. Then I would fuck him in the living room because I didn’t even want to share my bed.

When I was done, I was pretty dismissive and I had a few guys standing in my living room, some still naked, asking about the next time or asking for a number. I would just try to politely decline. “Sorry, I’m good with just this” “Sorry, I thought you knew this was a one time thing” etc.

I had a few say they felt like a used bitch and were not quite happy. Meh - I was fine so it was all whatever to me. LMAO.

I mean guys can do it to girls all the time, why not the other way around?

 

[Claudia Love]

I need to find the zucchini section and see who is handling them ;-)
After my separation after LTR ended, I hooked up, we had fun and fast forward she wanted me to move-in and pay rent. I bolted. Too soon, too fast.

When a woman truly wants a relation she will not expect payment ....ive fallen in love with like 5 clients in the past 10 years and some i almost married...it's only natural that real emotions can occur if you truly are a match but if shes stringing you a long looking for pay ....she;s just using you

 

[Valcazar]

When I was done, I was pretty dismissive and I had a few guys standing in my living room, some still naked, asking about the next time or asking for a number. I would just try to politely decline. “Sorry, I’m good with just this” “Sorry, I thought you knew this was a one time thing” etc.

I think there is a wide range of "Sorry, I though you knew this was a one time thing" though.
There are people who really are quite clear about it and people who just avoid mentioning it or clarifying if people look like they might be misunderstanding early.
(Not accusing you, just pointing out there can be a lot of "left unsaid" that goes on in a pickup.)

None of that changes "and now they fucking call every hour" being not okay.

 

[poker]

When I have clients who want to date me after one visit, knowing the arrangement we are in, I don’t even bother trying with civies anymore.

Part of the whole reason I went P4P was to avoiding the guy getting all in his feels for me.

I remember way back in the day, before escorting, I would bring a guy home from the bar, I would make him wait in my living room while I went to shower as dancing all night leaves things less desirable to say the least. Then I would fuck him in the living room because I didn’t even want to share my bed.

When I was done, I was pretty dismissive and I had a few guys standing in my living room, some still naked, asking about the next time or asking for a number. I would just try to politely decline. “Sorry, I’m good with just this” “Sorry, I thought you knew this was a one time thing” etc.

I had a few say they felt like a used bitch and were not quite happy. Meh - I was fine so it was all whatever to me. LMAO.

I mean guys can do it to girls all the time, why not the other way around?

But... but... Sugar Nipples... it's me. I thought we had something special!

 

[Scorpio1971]

You woulda found me if you looked where the zucchinis are muah

Send me a private massage if your looking for a male friend.

 

[Stradler]

You woulda found me if you looked where the zucchinis are muah

Damn, I missed you, I was in the melon section

 

[Claudia Love]

Damn, I missed you, I was in the melon section

thats my second hot spot of the grocery store i've picked up more men sober in grocery stores than i have at the bar lol at least i know if they eat healthy lol