Thoughts on Providers working during.... ?

[randall_stevens]

It's happened to me a few times that the day of my session, I get the message saying "It's that time of the month". I have no intent of doing anything with SP's or MA's when it's that time, so I cancel. But also, there was 1 that used that excuse more than once, so I think it was just an excuse to cancel. Either way, it's a turn off for me

 

[Taraparker]

Agreed!

For me, Depo has been great!

I’ve been on the mirena IUD for 8 years, and have had only maybe 4-5 surprises. It’s great and I don’t have to endure 3-7 days of pain every month, and get to work without worry. I highly recommend to everyone who is able to get one.

EDIT: please understand that depo and IUD’s that stop periods have side affects and hormones and a lot of women can’t be on certain birth controls.

 

[Theredmilf]

Ya, I don't get all that other gibberish.

It's like making an appointment at the garage to get your summer tires put on and you get there and the mechanic has a broken arm and says that they can't change the tires, but they can change you oil (pun intended).

You say, I don't want my oil changed, I want the tires put on. The mechanic says, well I can't do that, but you still owe me for my time.

It's BS no matter what if it's known before the appointment.

On the other hand, I've been in that situation and was advised beforehand, which I very much appreciated.

I even had it happen one time during (yes, to avoid the gibberish, it can arrive unexpectedly simply due to sex). It was obviously just one of those times. She felt horrible, but what can you do. It wasn't intentional, so all good even if unpleasant. Some times you just have to laugh at the timing in life.

I’m not arguing for or against here, you’re entitled to your personal preferences, but I think the analogy is more like you still get your tires changed but they used an extra tool that day you weren’t aware of. At least that’s what’s more common.

I’m also on Mirena and thankfully free at last but not everyone suffers the monsoon I once had, many have very light or almost nonexistent days, a few drops can be easily be contained with a sponge or cup without any impact on your session. As a bonus she’s probably extra randy and has sensitive nipples. You should take advantage!

A woman’s body is a fertile garden of delights, some things might look a little scary, but they’re all part of a healthy garden.

 

[asuran]

It's a natural occurrence every healthy woman has.
Sometimes I see people say GFE has to include this, that or whatever. Well, real girlfriends have periods every month, if they ever have a girlfriend before they would know this.
(This is to those that always whine about GFE this or that)

 

[Nesbot]

The problem with the "I would like to be informed" take is that humans aren't clockwork machines, and menstrual cycles can be unpredictable.

- the timing of a person's period can fluctuate by a week or more each month
- the duration of a person's period can fluctuate by several days each cycle
- the amount of bleeding a person experiences can fluctuate on each day of their period

Given those variables, how exactly would SPs be supposed to inform clients of their period? If a person's period can begin up to a week early and lasts about a week are they expected to decline advance bookings on 14 days out of every month based on the possibility of starting their cycle early? What does that do to prebookings? If the amount of blood flow can vary on each day of a person's period (from unnoticeable to "murder scene") how are they supposed to calculate that, even for planning near-term/last-minute bookings?

I understand how this could be an unfortunate complication during a booking, but if you want to have sex with people who have uteruses you should probably just accept it as a normal thing and learn to deal with it. People with cycles spend like 15% of their lives menstruating. So you should expect 15% of your bookings (roughly 1 in 7) to occur when the person you're booking is menstruating.

Any man here who has ever had a sister, mother, older daughter, or been in a relationship with a female knows everything you've posted. I admire your stats at the end. That's a pretty good rule of thumb.

Lost in that analysis though, is that there are some women in the industry that take medical measures to limit or temporarily eliminate their periods. So I can see why it's a shock to some people when it happens during session.

 

[Nesbot]

If you get the depo shot (progesterone), you don't get periods anymore. It's pretty cool. Injections are every three months. no periods, no accidental pregnancies, it's purrrfect.

Thank you Alma. THis is the point I was trying to make. I should have kept reading down the thread to see yours before I posted mine. LOL. I suck at message boards.

 

[Nesbot]

It's a natural occurrence every healthy woman has.
Sometimes I see people say GFE has to include this, that or whatever. Well, real girlfriends have periods every month, if they ever have a girlfriend before they would know this.
(This is to those that always whine about GFE this or that)

Again...some "real women" use medical intervention to not have periods every month. Sometimes periods are so severe that dr's recommend medical intervention. Not to get to graphic but I've had family members go through this. It's not fun for them.

 

[asuran]

Again...some "real women" use medical intervention to not have periods every month. Sometimes periods are so severe that dr's recommend medical intervention. Not to get to graphic but I've had family members go through this. It's not fun for them.

Unfortunate for your loved ones that went thru this.
Let's hope the medical procedures helped.

It's a life changing issue. Hopefully they are healthy otherwise.

 

[Gntlmn]

I had surprise blood on my fingers once with an SP I was seeing indy for about 3 years to that point about every week or 2. It was the first time I'd experienced it in all my times with SWs. I didn't freak out but she also didn't apologize profusely for it, or at all. I think that was a really good way for both of us to handle it, to make no big deal of it. So, my first time for that, had no "trauma" associated with it and now I can look back and see it as "normal" and I'm grateful to her for her approach. I guess I was lucky.

 

[KittyCaterina]

I had surprise blood on my fingers once with an SP I was seeing indy for about 3 years to that point about every week or 2. It was the first time I'd experienced it in all my times with SWs. I didn't freak out but she also didn't apologize profusely for it, or at all. I think that was a really good way for both of us to handle it, to make no big deal of it. So, my first time for that, had no "trauma" associated with it and now I can look back and see it as "normal" and I'm grateful to her for her approach. I guess I was lucky.

I know that some ladies who are built in a way that makes their vagina extra "tight" can experience spotting after sex.

My pelvic area and hip bones are slightly inverted, making me walk pigeon toed and making my entryway very tight.

With certain clients after sex, I have spotting afterwards on the condom.

It does not always mean an SP is on her period, especially with clients who are well endowed.

 

[Theredmilf]

Thanks to all the above posters normalizing what it is to be a woman. Even though my menstrual days are done, I’ve had a whole lifetime having a pussy and also enjoying my share haha. I understand a menstrual cycle brings different fluids and at certain points or months this can cut into play. I personally have experienced most ladies do their absolute best to please gents and meet their service desires.

Obviously, as with all life, some might fall short of expectations. We’re all independent contractors though and so you guys actually have the power to pick and choose. My hope is you don’t stigmatize periods and choose people who really care about this business & industry.

 

[StillROAMing]

I guess not every guy experimented with really slippery wet sex as a teen. In my experience, women are horny as hell during this time. To the guys who are squeamish about seeing a little blood when they pullout I can only suggest to never try Greek.

 

[Alison_xox]

Omg it happened to me once ! We were super into the session. So much that we haven’t noticed I started my period right there. Eventually , we realized and it was a mess. Like a real mess.
I got so stressed that my client would freak out, but instead he smiled and said “Well , I hope you are still in the mood because I’d love to bring it to the shower” .. We then spent a long moment in the shower being very naughty.
I don’t know if you can read it sweet heart , but if you can, I would like you to know that you are absolutely wonderful and a true gentleman. You made me feel so comfortable that I almost forgot you were a client.

I will always remember that session and it was honestly one of the top 10 sessions of my “career”.

Kisses
Ali

 

[KKOPSEX]

For escorts, they wouldn't typically work when they are bleeding🩸

As for recovery, yes I think they should. If the clients can't bang on her ass or fuck her new juggs, that ain't right.

Thats harsh.

Ya, I don't get all that other gibberish.

It's like making an appointment at the garage to get your summer tires put on and you get there and the mechanic has a broken arm and says that they can't change the tires, but they can change you oil (pun intended).

You say, I don't want my oil changed, I want the tires put on. The mechanic says, well I can't do that, but you still owe me for my time.

It's BS no matter what if it's known before the appointment.

On the other hand, I've been in that situation and was advised beforehand, which I very much appreciated.

I even had it happen one time during (yes, to avoid the gibberish, it can arrive unexpectedly simply due to sex). It was obviously just one of those times. She felt horrible, but what can you do. It wasn't intentional, so all good even if unpleasant. Some times you just have to laugh at the timing in life.

Some are super horney then.

Omg it happened to me once ! We were super into the session. So much that we haven’t noticed I started my period right there. Eventually , we realized and it was a mess. Like a real mess.
I got so stressed that my client would freak out, but instead he smiled and said “Well , I hope you are still in the mood because I’d love to bring it to the shower” .. We then spent a long moment in the shower being very naughty.
I don’t know if you can read it sweet heart , but if you can, I would like you to know that you are absolutely wonderful and a true gentleman. You made me feel so comfortable that I almost forgot you were a client.

I will always remember that session and it was honestly one of the top 10 sessions of my “career”.

Kisses
Ali

Could be worse you could be diving in the dark and came out looking like a shinning Macintosh.

 

[KKOPSEX]

The problem with the "I would like to be informed" take is that humans aren't clockwork machines, and menstrual cycles can be unpredictable.

- the timing of a person's period can fluctuate by a week or more each month
- the duration of a person's period can fluctuate by several days each cycle
- the amount of bleeding a person experiences can fluctuate on each day of their period

Given those variables, how exactly would SPs be supposed to inform clients of their period? If a person's period can begin up to a week early and lasts about a week are they expected to decline advance bookings on 14 days out of every month based on the possibility of starting their cycle early? What does that do to prebookings? If the amount of blood flow can vary on each day of a person's period (from unnoticeable to "murder scene") how are they supposed to calculate that, even for planning near-term/last-minute bookings?

I understand how this could be an unfortunate complication during a booking, but if you want to have sex with people who have uteruses you should probably just accept it as a normal thing and learn to deal with it. People with cycles spend like 15% of their lives menstruating. So you should expect 15% of your bookings (roughly 1 in 7) to occur when the person you're booking is menstruating.

K men do you have a hornier time like on a full moon for instance. Like skinny dipping and swanking under the moon light. O sweet memories.

 

[CuddleBuddy2]

Thank you everyone for sharing your opinions and experiences. Special thanks to the ladies for joining the discussion and much respect for what you deal with. Had no idea about Mirena, so thank you for the education

I hope everyone appreciates the struggles women go through in the adult industry. I think and hope that we can all agree that woman menstruating is normal and there's nothing wrong with it.

However some clients prefer not to see ladies when they're menstruating or recovering from something which could affect the session. Those clients would appreciate it if they knew about the situation before the session.

I have experienced what Ms.KittyKaterina mentioned as spotting on the condom a few times. Wasn't a big deal, never mentioned it in my reviews. However the last time a lady got a lot of blood over me. She apologized and I told her it's ok and normal, trying to put her at ease but inside I was shocked. At first I thought I cut myself lol. She probably wasn't expecting it so can't blame her for it. Would have appreciated a heads-up if she knew before hand though. I didn't review our session if anyone's wondering.

Another time an MA got a tattoo so she tried to stay away from the water. I guess it was bad timing for me that she decided to get a tattoo recently

Then I've read posts on terb about some providers restricting boob play because they had a boob job done or their nips are sensitive. As a boob guy I'd be bummed if I couldn't play with them

I think it's only fair to give the client a heads-up if something might affect the fun time during the session or offer a discount so we know it's genuine.

 

[Kingsley.McKenna]

Omg so glad to see the majority here normalizing what is a very normal but not often talked about subject.

I think it goes without saying that providers really do their best to navigate the Red Sea accordingly lol

But, as some pointed out, and unfortunately some of us have had the surprise of experiencing... sometimes nature calls when you least expect it!
As a provider who experienced this for the first time not so long ago, let me tell ya, it’s honestly more mortifying for us, especially when we wonder if we’re going to face the scrutiny of a review board about this later on and have it negatively impact future business.

So, to the gentleman who are so understanding and have broached the subject without negativity, you guys are the best.

This is the real GFE hahaha

 

[jazzbox]

My girlfriends would often get incredibly horny during their periods. Once I got over some initial squeamishness we had some great experiences. One time a GF - on her period - had an orgasm while giving me a blowjob. No manual stimulation occurred. I didn't last long either!

 

[jalimon]

My girlfriends would often get incredibly horny during their periods. Once I got over some initial squeamishness we had some great experiences. One time a GF - on her period - had an orgasm while giving me a blowjob. No manual stimulation occurred. I didn't last long either!

From my experience during their period girlfriend a very horny but also have very bad temper. So you'd get the best sex ever but still sleep on the couch!