Being an Escort - AMA!

[squiffynimrod]

Thank you for doing this Ahri. Always great to get to know someone a little better. Here's my question:

Let's say you and a client really hit it off, nice connection, sparks flying.
Your client wants to see you more.
Would you prefer one 3 hour date or three 1 hour dates and why.

Thanks!

 

[Ahri]

Thank you for doing this Ahri. Always great to get to know someone a little better. Here's my question:

Let's say you and a client really hit it off, nice connection, sparks flying.
Your client wants to see you more.
Would you prefer one 3 hour date or three 1 hour dates and why.

Thanks!

I wanted to do this because I feel like it hasn't been done on this forum before!

I would prefer a 3 hour date! Again if I was doing this for only the money then it would have to be three 1 hour dates but I like making connections with clients more.

 

[Fun For All]

Hey buddy...two questions...how do you think the Leafs will do in this years playoffs...and when do you think the large venues will be able to have 20,000 spectators attending.

@Ahri

So you don't follow the Leafs? You have no opinion on when COVID restrictions regarding extremely large gatherings will be lifted?

 

[bazokajoe]

Guess all this free advertising has paid off.

 

[Ahri]

@Ahri

So you don't follow the Leafs? You have no opinion on when COVID restrictions regarding extremely large gatherings will be lifted?

I'm sorry I don't really follow the leafs... I never been to a leafs or Jay's game before always wanted to go to one haha.

In regards of covid I have no idea when large gatherings will be allowed. I just hope that it is soon.

Fun fact I got vaccinated already

 

[Ahri]

Guess all this free advertising has paid off.

I know the importance of having an online precence that's why I decided to make a TERB!

 

[CB1986]

I wanted to do this because I feel like it hasn't been done on this forum before!

I would prefer a 3 hour date! Again if I was doing this for only the money then it would have to be three 1 hour dates but I like making connections with clients more.

Can you describe your ideal 3hr date? Most guys can’t fuck for 3hrs straight, so what would you like to do during the down time?

Congrats on the Ultra-VIP btw.

CB

 

[jalimon]

Guess all this free advertising has paid off.

For the very few SP that dare to contribute here I think you comment is a bit out of line.

And remember if she was not offering good service it would have backfire terribly...

 

[Ahri]

There's something I wanna ask the guys here...

Why do you guys see SPs/Escorts? I know to some there is more than just the sex.

(If your uncomfortable posting here feel free to DM me) I am genuinely curious!

 

[Toxboy75]

I know the importance of having an online precence that's why I decided to make a TERB!

It is working. You are all booked up for this week!

 

[Leslielake]

There's something I wanna ask the guys here...

Why do you guys see SPs/Escorts? I know to some there is more than just the sex.

(If your uncomfortable posting here feel free to DM me) I am genuinely curious!

For the variety that we as guys will never get in a civie life. And its just the curiosity and excitement of meeting someone new.

 

[Bushdoc]

From a guys' perspective, I think most of us would consider making money as a gigalo to be a dream come true. But with one caveat, I would NEED to screen the clients with a photo first, because their looks could change it from a fantasy to a nightmare. Even if it was just a body pic without the face, that's something I would need.

When I first started this hobby, I was surprised there are zero SP's that ask for that. I would have assumed that at least some that do it "not just for the money" would ask for that. I know that would discourage some clients, but I think it could attract others by establishing some sort of connection or feeling of exclusivity.

I think, in general, girls put less importance on visual appearance, but is that all it is? Why do you think no SP needs to see a pic first? Is that something you would ever consider doing?

 

[Ahri]

From a guys' perspective, I think most of us would consider making money as a gigalo to be a dream come true. But with one caveat, I would NEED to screen the clients with a photo first, because their looks could change it from a fantasy to a nightmare. Even if it was just a body pic without the face, that's something I would need.

When I first started this hobby, I was surprised there are zero SP's that ask for that. I would have assumed that at least some that do it "not just for the money" would ask for that. I know that would discourage some clients, but I think it could attract others by establishing some sort of connection or feeling of exclusivity.

I think, in general, girls put less importance on visual appearance, but is that all it is? Why do you think no SP needs to see a pic first? Is that something you would ever consider doing?

I think your right... Girls may put less importance than that. In terms of is that something I want to do in the future I would have to think about it. Working for SFT has been great for me and no hiccups has happened so Im not looking for a change anytime soon!

 

[Ahri]

Am I allowed to ask a question here?

Go ahead that is what it is for!

 

[kherg007]

You heard my story of how i got involved (post # 53). I've met some spectacular ladies in this biz and I can express some affection toward them - but don't ever forget it's bounded. As I say all the time, this industry is like WWE wrestling. Don't ask if it was real. Only ask if you were entertained.
My fave ladies - all out of my league if this was civilian life - treat me like a handsome young FWB, despite my generic looking, over the hill self. Thus my time w the faves is so wonderful, that it seems like time stops. During our visits I'm not old anymore, I'm not stressed, I'm lost in the now. That's such a tribute to them. Thus i barrack for them hard.

 

[nottyboi]

There's something I wanna ask the guys here...

Why do you guys see SPs/Escorts? I know to some there is more than just the sex.

(If your uncomfortable posting here feel free to DM me) I am genuinely curious!

To me its a thrill. Maybe I am messed up up romantic sex gets boring. Whereas meeting someone just for sex, a super hot young lady with an awesome body who is just there for your pleasure. Its indulgent and exciting. Most people are attracted to youth and beauty, I think its in our DNA, that drives us to behave in this way. Can you supress it ? Sure .. but that also takes a toll. Honestly my GF is much younger, pretty and when people see us together they are like WTF? He must be rich. By the thrill is gone. I love her but I do not desire her in an animalistic way. It odd. I look at her and think, wow she is pretty, but meh. Maybe porn has ruined me I dunno. I have not seen an escort in a while but I exxpect I will get back into it eventually.

 

[massman]

There's something I wanna ask the guys here...

Why do you guys see SPs/Escorts? I know to some there is more than just the sex.

(If your uncomfortable posting here feel free to DM me) I am genuinely curious!

Great question, and as you will see there are very different reasons.
For me it’s not so simple as being a horndog, and wanting to have sex with beautiful young women. Yes, I am a horndog, with a sex drive that is as strong as when I was 18. For me in everyday life, sex is not that often, and it more often is a source of conflict, rather than fun / pleasure. I can have great sex, but the focus is never on me. For the most part I don’t need that, but sometimes I do.
I don’t see escorts / mpa’s that often, 10 times in one year is probably a record. So I’m not seeing sps to feed my sexual appetite, I’d be starving if I was relying on them for that! I think the reasons I see an escort (at least in an ideal encounter) are 1. To have uninhibited physical intimacy with no hassle. Where the ground rules are clear, there is no emotional manipulation etc. 2. To have a physical relationship where my partner is at least partially focused on my pleasure. I love to give pleasure, don’t get me wrong, but it’s great to have it reciprocated. 3. The other thing I look for/ have learned to enjoy, is getting to spend time with someone who is a really interesting person, in a totally different world than me. This I what keeps me coming back to a particular regular girl. If we can lay back after, shoot the shit and talk about whatever comes to mind.
A great visit with an escort will leave me completely relaxed. I will have, at least temporarily, forgot about the shit and stress in life. I’ll have a smile on my face, and will smile when I remember that feeling of being able to escape and unwind completely.
Don’t know if any of that makes any sense?!? Lol

 

[SammyS]

I don’t see escorts / mpa’s that often, 10 times in one year is probably a record. So I’m not seeing sps to feed my sexual appetite, I’d be starving if I was relying on them for that! I think the reasons I see an escort (at least in an ideal encounter) are 1. To have uninhibited physical intimacy with no hassle. Where the ground rules are clear, there is no emotional manipulation etc. 2. To have a physical relationship where my partner is at least partially focused on my pleasure. I love to give pleasure, don’t get me wrong, but it’s great to have it reciprocated. 3. The other thing I look for/ have learned to enjoy, is getting to spend time with someone who is a really interesting person, in a totally different world than me. This I what keeps me coming back to a particular regular girl. If we can lay back after, shoot the shit and talk about whatever comes to mind.
A great visit with an escort will leave me completely relaxed. I will have, at least temporarily, forgot about the shit and stress in life. I’ll have a smile on my face, and will smile when I remember that feeling of being able to escape and unwind completely.
Don’t know if any of that makes any sense?!? Lol

^^^^^^OMG this is me. I have so many similarities to massman.

There's something I wanna ask the guys here...
Why do you guys see SPs/Escorts? I know to some there is more than just the sex.

Personally I wish life was more open. In that, you are financially committed with someone (house, family) but it was okay to have sexual relationships on the side. I have no sex life at home but I have a family I'm committed to. Maybe down the road I'll change things but because of the age of my kids I wouldn't do that now. So yes I love having sex but just as important is the connection/relationship you make with the girl.

When I find a girl I click with I enjoy seeing them over and over again.

One of the hard things in this hobby is finding the right balance. I've made reference to this before in my posts but my ATF girl OMG I fell for her big time. LOL... the feeling I had for her. Eventually I realized that you're not going to have a personal relationship with a girl in this industry but you can build a "special" relationship with a person. I've met some amazing girls that I would never have had the opportunity to meet if it wasn't for this hobby and I will always be grateful for that.

Ahri, you sound like such a lovely girl. And I don't think it was your intention but I think you did one of the smartest things a girl can do in this industry and it's to connect with guys. Something I've learned, for me any ways, it doesn't matter how HOT a girl is physically... if they don't have the personality I'm probably not going to see them again.
Thanks for starting this thread Ahri!!!

 

[Ahri]

^^^^^^OMG this is me. I have so many similarities to massman.


Personally I wish life was more open. In that, you are financially committed with someone (house, family) but it was okay to have sexual relationships on the side. I have no sex life at home but I have a family I'm committed to. Maybe down the road I'll change things but because of the age of my kids I wouldn't do that now. So yes I love having sex but just as important is the connection/relationship you make with the girl.

When I find a girl I click with I enjoy seeing them over and over again.

One of the hard things in this hobby is finding the right balance. I've made reference to this before in my posts but my ATF girl OMG I fell for her big time. LOL... the feeling I had for her. Eventually I realized that you're not going to have a personal relationship with a girl in this industry but you can build a "special" relationship with a person. I've met some amazing girls that I would never have had the opportunity to meet if it wasn't for this hobby and I will always be grateful for that.

Ahri, you sound like such a lovely girl. And I don't think it was your intention but I think you did one of the smartest things a girl can do in this industry and it's to connect with guys. Something I've learned, for me any ways, it doesn't matter how HOT a girl is physically... if they don't have the personality I'm probably not going to see them again.
Thanks for starting this thread Ahri!!!

Thanks for sharing your story and thanks for your kind words.... I know how important it is to have an online precence that's why I chose to do what I did LOL

 

[mandrill]

There's something I wanna ask the guys here...

Why do you guys see SPs/Escorts? I know to some there is more than just the sex.

(If your uncomfortable posting here feel free to DM me) I am genuinely curious!

1. I can easily and regularly have sex with a woman less than 1/2 my age. I'm an older guy.
2. I like meeting people and making new acquaintances. When you pay for it, you can have as many new buddies as you want.
3. Some of those new female (far, far younger) friends are pretty cool to both fuck and talk to / hang out with.
4. It gives me a "little treat" to look forward to each week. (I see girls ideally 1x per week). It's like a girl having a shopping trip or a jock-y guy going and having a few beers with the boys at a sports bar and watching the Leafs. It's one of those "I shlepp through 5 days of work and then I get to have a little fun!" things.
5. If the girl seems to enjoy the time as well, it's a nice ego boost for me.