Anonymous eTransfer Methods / Does Paying Up Front Aid with Screening?
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In an ideal world where people commit to agreed upon times or have the courtesy to cancel within a resonable amount of time deposits would never be needed. But unfortunately, due to the opportunity cost, providers need some way to protect their investment of an incall or times they choose to be available. Paying all up front is usually a bad idea in any business, but at least a deposit can almost guarantee times are honored.
A confident SP that knows she will get paid is usually in the clients best interest because it should translate into less desperation, mitigating risky, unhygenic or unsafe behaviour. A escort who is more secure and knows how to budget her time almost always ensures a better session than one who is continually anxious about if shell be able to pay for rent/food/bills etc.
And then there are of course some even that are secure, have a steady income and still do stupid shit, double booking, back to back, not showering etc.
There is no way it can be a perfect science.
Some girls have pretty ambitious screening requirements, wanting us to send LinkedIn profiles, etc. I always pay in cash at the appointments. What I am asking about here is some simple way to just anonymously wire some cash in advance of the appointment in lieu of my autobiography to put their minds at ease.
Legit thats insane to be sharing that kind of privacy
There are sugar babies you can strike up relations with who ask less info
Again if this is someone you never even seen before its insanity to be sending money upfront
I dont care how good her 5 year old photo shopped pics are
Heck we have contributing members on this board who say how great they are and yet have never changed profile pics here or websites in 5+ years
And if its someone you have seen before then most of the need to prebook becomes nonsense anyways
But I dont even tell them my terb handle much less my real name
Most people asking for money upfront are scammers you can see that with posts on this and other forums
No that's not true and you all shouldn't assume the worse. I always ask for deposits upfront. And all of the reputable ladies do, we are operating a business no tender hookups. I recommend checking the providers website , social media and reviews lastly. I don't know anyone that would steal a deposit. As for all upfront, that's only if you are a canceller , or no showed in the past, or on tour.
its your business do what you want, I will never ever pay anything before I'm there in person
How is it anon when you are required to link a bank account or payment card???
Otherwise Bitcoin or crypto are the best
If you REALLY want check out Paysafecard would get my vote since its cash only and has no links whatsoever to your name / ID
Thanks for that tip. Interesting breakdown of a bunch of payment methods here including Paysafecard: https://cybernews.com/resources/the-ultimate-guide-to-safe-and-anonymous-online-payment-methods/
In reading about the following travails about Matt Gaetz this was a reminder of why it's helpful to have anonymous payment methods:
The Times has reviewed receipts from Cash App, a mobile payments app, and Apple Pay that show payments from Mr. Gaetz and Mr. Greenberg to one of the women, and a payment from Mr. Greenberg to a second woman. The women told their friends that the payments were for sex with the two men, according to two people familiar with the conversations.
In encounters during 2019 and 2020, Mr. Gaetz and Mr. Greenberg instructed the women to meet at certain times and places, often at hotels around Florida, and would tell them the amount of money they were willing to pay, according to the messages and interviews.
From here: https://www.nytimes.com/2021/04/01/...tion=click&module=Top Stories&pgtype=Homepage
Agreed most likely I'm not going to need to send money to someone I've seen before, so this would only be for situations I'm a first time client with someone, but I would only visit a provider who was well established and well reviewed, so if in addition to that if I'm only sending a deposit to help put their minds at ease personally I don't think it's a huge risk, and even if I lost that amount of money it wouldn't be a big deal. The point is I'd much rather just risk a small amount of money than have to provide my life story, my terb handle or anything else as some women seem to be asking... If they are good enough to regularly obtain that level of compliance from their clients then in some cases they could be very worthwhile to visit.
