Thoughts on Providers working during.... ?

[CuddleBuddy2]

How do clients/providers feel about providers working during Shark week or recovery? Should the lady not be working during this time. Should she atleast inform the client when they book so one can make an informed decision. Frankly I would never repeat with anyone if they knowingly book during Aunt Flo without informing the client. Unfortunately I had this experience a while back and it wasn't pleasant to say the least.

Also if a provider had some work done and recovering, should they inform the client when booking? Since it would affect the session.

Thoughts?

 

[jalimon]

Maybe because i’m french i don’t know but what shark week or recovery means? i have no clue what you’re talking about.

 

[CuddleBuddy2]

Maybe because i’m french i don’t know but what shark week or recovery means? i have no clue what you’re talking about.

Sorry I was trying to be funny. I meant menstruation with "Shark week". You know because of blood. It's also a popular show on the Discovery channel.
Recovery from anything like breast implants to injury to tattoos.

 

[curiousm7]

How do clients/providers feel about providers working during Shark week or recovery? Should the lady not be working during this time. Should she atleast inform the client when they book so one can make an informed decision. Frankly I would never repeat with anyone if they knowingly book during Aunt Flo without informing the client. Unfortunately I had this experience a while back and it wasn't pleasant to say the least.

Also if a provider had some work done and recovering, should they inform the client when booking? Since it would affect the session.

Thoughts?

I think it would be a courteous gesture to be straightforward about either a period or injury/surgery recovery.

Not all guys are comfortable with sex during that time of the month and, with respect to recovery, I personally would feel like shit if I inadvertently did something to cause pain to a recovery area.

 

[ErectileReptile]

For escorts, they wouldn't typically work when they are bleeding🩸

As for recovery, yes I think they should. If the clients can't bang on her ass or fuck her new juggs, that ain't right.

 

[CuddleBuddy2]

For escorts, they wouldn't typically work when they are bleeding🩸

As for recovery, yes I think they should. If the clients can't bang on her ass or fuck her new juggs, that ain't right.

Boby slides or shower play wouldn't be fun during her period or if she's recovering from something. Also some Indy MAs are ok with daty.

You'd be surprised to know a lot of SPs work during their period. Some just hide it better. This isn't the first time I've experienced it sadly.

I think anything which would affect the session should be mentioned before booking. Most clients would appreciate it.

 

[squeezer]

Yeah for your last line.

I've been hobbying for MANY years and never meet a escort in her red 🩸

And indy MAs are essentially ymmv escorts, it's just a decoy bro.

That is because you didn't realize they were using a sponge. LOL

 

[CuddleBuddy2]

That is because you didn't realize they were using a sponge. LOL

Yeah lol. I thought Biz was smarter than that after his many years of "Hobbying"

 

[Nesbot]

Yeah for your last line.

I've been hobbying for MANY years and never meet a escort in her red 🩸

And indy MAs are essentially ymmv escorts, it's just a decoy bro.

Years ago when I first started I went to see a lady with PK agency and as soon as we started getting hot and heavy she said "no sex though cause I started my period" I of course said ok because I was new. Never occured to me I was being played. But I wouldn't doubt that I've seen a lady or two that was on it but hiding it well.

On the MA thing...I'm with ya there.

 

[medalllione]

I think it would be a courteous gesture to be straightforward about either a period or injury/surgery recovery.

Not all guys are comfortable with sex during that time of the month and, with respect to recovery, I personally would feel like shit if I inadvertently did something to cause pain to a recovery area.

I think the gesture should be brought forward before (not when) you meet as this could inform whether or not the meeting even occurs. I have had a few occasions when the MA brought this up during session and it adversely affected the shower play and main event, it basically led to minimalistic session, which took away from the overall satisfaction quotient. Had I known in advance, I would have waited it out before booking. I think this perhaps needs to be regularly brought up by adminstrators in the spas with their hostesses.

Yeah, some guys don't mind, but for those that do, it leaves a sour experience.

 

[gibarian]

I think it would be a courteous gesture to be straightforward about either a period or injury/surgery recovery.

Not all guys are comfortable with sex during that time of the month and, with respect to recovery, I personally would feel like shit if I inadvertently did something to cause pain to a recovery area.

Boby slides or shower play wouldn't be fun during her period or if she's recovering from something. Also some Indy MAs are ok with daty.

You'd be surprised to know a lot of SPs work during their period. Some just hide it better. This isn't the first time I've experienced it sadly.

I think anything which would affect the session should be mentioned before booking. Most clients would appreciate it.

I think the gesture should be brought forward before (not when) you meet as this could inform whether or not the meeting even occurs. I have had a few occasions when the MA brought this up during session and it adversely affected the shower play and main event, it basically led to minimalistic session, which took away from the overall satisfaction quotient. Had I known in advance, I would have waited it out before booking. I think this perhaps needs to be regularly brought up by adminstrators in the spas with their hostesses.

Yeah, some guys don't mind, but for those that do, it leaves a sour experience.

The problem with the "I would like to be informed" take is that humans aren't clockwork machines, and menstrual cycles can be unpredictable.

- the timing of a person's period can fluctuate by a week or more each month
- the duration of a person's period can fluctuate by several days each cycle
- the amount of bleeding a person experiences can fluctuate on each day of their period

Given those variables, how exactly would SPs be supposed to inform clients of their period? If a person's period can begin up to a week early and lasts about a week are they expected to decline advance bookings on 14 days out of every month based on the possibility of starting their cycle early? What does that do to prebookings? If the amount of blood flow can vary on each day of a person's period (from unnoticeable to "murder scene") how are they supposed to calculate that, even for planning near-term/last-minute bookings?

I understand how this could be an unfortunate complication during a booking, but if you want to have sex with people who have uteruses you should probably just accept it as a normal thing and learn to deal with it. People with cycles spend like 15% of their lives menstruating. So you should expect 15% of your bookings (roughly 1 in 7) to occur when the person you're booking is menstruating.

 

[curiousm7]

The problem with the "I would like to be informed" take is that humans aren't clockwork machines, and menstrual cycles can be unpredictable.

- the timing of a person's period can fluctuate by a week or more each month
- the duration of a person's period can fluctuate by several days each cycle
- the amount of bleeding a person experiences can fluctuate on each day of their period

Given those variables, how exactly would SPs be supposed to inform clients of their period? If a person's period can begin up to a week early and lasts about a week are they expected to decline advance bookings on 14 days out of every month based on the possibility of starting their cycle early? What does that do to prebookings? If the amount of blood flow can vary on each day of a person's period (from unnoticeable to "murder scene") how are they supposed to calculate that, even for planning near-term/last-minute bookings?

I understand how this could be an unfortunate complication during a booking, but if you want to have sex with people who have uteruses you should probably just accept it as a normal thing and learn to deal with it. People with cycles spend like 15% of their lives menstruating. So you should expect 15% of your bookings (roughly 1 in 7) to occur when the person you're booking is menstruating.

I get your point but, even with prebooking, most ladies request confirmation day of prior to providing address. This, to me anyway, would be the ideal time to let her date know that her period has arrived...just a thought.

 

[gibarian]

I'm glad I've been lucky to never once dealt with this. Well luck, experience, intuition, etc what ever it is.

None of the above. As mentioned earlier, you've probably dealt with it and not known, because providers have solutions for minimizing the effects.

The last person I saw texted me afterwards to explain that if her "pussy felt weird" it was because she had a tampon in. I'd just thought she was unusually tight/tiny.

I get your point but, even with prebooking, most ladies request confirmation day of prior to providing address. This, to me anyway, would be the ideal time to let her date know that her period has arrived...just a thought.

Can you imagine the headaches and complaints that would cause, though?

Boards like this would be flooded with gripes: "She cancelled the day of our booking! She said it was due to her period, but I don't believe her! I can only sneak away from my wife once a month, and this cancellation ruined my only opportunity this month!"

 

[KTDoy]

Sorry I was trying to be funny. I meant menstruation with "Shark week". You know because of blood. It's also a popular show on the Discovery channel.
Recovery from anything like breast implants to injury to tattoos.

aka: She is on the rag this week

 

[curiousm7]

None of the above. As mentioned earlier, you've probably dealt with it and not known, because providers have solutions for minimizing the effects.

The last person I saw texted me afterwards to explain that if her "pussy felt weird" it was because she had a tampon in. I'd just thought she was unusually tight/tiny.


Can you imagine the headaches and complaints that would cause, though?

Boards like this would be flooded with gripes: "She cancelled the day of our booking! She said it was due to her period, but I don't believe her! I can only sneak away from my wife once a month, and this cancellation ruined my only opportunity this month!"

I didn't say cancel. My thinking was giving the client the heads-up...and, if he cancels, his choice.

I see your view on the gripes: six of one, half dozen of another. Which is worse, gripe on cancelation or gripe that she had her period and, as a result, perceived as not honest and more restricted? I guess there is no perfect solution, guys will complain no matter what.

I used to love switch Madison's approach: her "visitor" was always announced publicly as Greek/CIM week.

 

[CuddleBuddy2]

I feel it would be fair to give the client a heads-up on day of appointment if something (period, boob job, healing from a tattoo etc.) would affect the session and offer a discount as well.

I think many would appreciate the honesty and still see the provider. I would even forego the discount and give it back as a tip.

 

[CuddleBuddy2]

Years ago when I first started I went to see a lady with PK agency and as soon as we started getting hot and heavy she said "no sex though cause I started my period" I of course said ok because I was new. Never occured to me I was being played. But I wouldn't doubt that I've seen a lady or two that was on it but hiding it well.

On the MA thing...I'm with ya there.

I experienced something similar many years ago with an agency lady in Toronto. It was her first day and she said she was sore when I met her. I didn't feel I was being played so I didn't inform the agency or even review her. She was sweet but really inexperienced, probably a college gal just trying to pay her tuition. Maybe other clients complained and she was gone from the agency or maybe she figured it wasn't the job for her.

 

[AlmaOttawaMA]

If you get the depo shot (progesterone), you don't get periods anymore. It's pretty cool. Injections are every three months. no periods, no accidental pregnancies, it's purrrfect.

 

[withpassion]

I didn't say cancel. My thinking was giving the client the heads-up...and, if he cancels, his choice.

I see your view on the gripes: six of one, half dozen of another. Which is worse, gripe on cancelation or gripe that she had her period and, as a result, perceived as not honest and more restricted? I guess there is no perfect solution, guys will complain no matter what.

I used to love switch Madison's approach: her "visitor" was always announced publicly as Greek/CIM week.

Ya, I don't get all that other gibberish.

It's like making an appointment at the garage to get your summer tires put on and you get there and the mechanic has a broken arm and says that they can't change the tires, but they can change you oil (pun intended).

You say, I don't want my oil changed, I want the tires put on. The mechanic says, well I can't do that, but you still owe me for my time.

It's BS no matter what if it's known before the appointment.

On the other hand, I've been in that situation and was advised beforehand, which I very much appreciated.

I even had it happen one time during (yes, to avoid the gibberish, it can arrive unexpectedly simply due to sex). It was obviously just one of those times. She felt horrible, but what can you do. It wasn't intentional, so all good even if unpleasant. Some times you just have to laugh at the timing in life.

 

[KittyCaterina]

If you get the depo shot (progesterone), you don't get periods anymore. It's pretty cool. Injections are every three months. no periods, no accidental pregnancies, it's purrrfect.

Agreed!

For me, Depo has been great!