DDBDEAPE - Jolie

[DirtyDanBrown]

Communication:

This was pretty straight forward, she's quick to reply. Not always available as I think she looks after her grandkids but she's honest about her availability and is fairly fast to respond.

First Impression:

Her apartment is private and parking isn't a problem, no hunting down hotel room numbers or anything complicated. Opening the door she was dressed nice and was very friendly and welcoming. Her appearance isn't anything spectacular, her teeth are pretty jacked and her body isn't anything to brag about but the knockers are ample...and they don't call me DDB because I'm picky about looks.

The Main Course:

She aims to please but she wants you to be in charge. She's into LFK and is all in all very sensual and makes you feel welcome. I admire the fact she likes to take her time and make you feel good while working her magic. After we went through the regular battery of events I finished exhausted and had a quick shower. Love having access to a shower afterwards in a welcoming environment.

Conclusion:

So she's no supermodel, but the service is solid so I can't really complain. The only reason I can't give this two thumbs up is the unsolicited messages after asking me for money. The second I receiver an unsolicited message of nearly any type it's an instant thumbs down for me. In the words of Charlie Sheen, "I don't pay them for $EX I pay them to leave" So by that virtue it's a one thumb up one thumb down for DDB!

 

[Mod123]

@DirtyDanBrown

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Specifically 10 and 21.

 

[JohnnyFever]

Seems like a decent, straightforward review to me, something we should be encouraging here. Nice to see someone focus on the regulars too instead of the "here today, gone tomorrow" Leolist providers.

Totally agree about the unsolicited texts, that's a huge negative.

 

[Hotchilly]

@DirtyDanBrown

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Specifically 10 and 21.

Rule 10: Posts alleging BBFS, substance abuse or health issues will not be permitted.
Rule 21: When writing reviews please keep them informative, balanced, to the point and classy, not vindictive and hurtful. Remember, you are discussing a human being.

Question for the mod:
Can you please outline how DDB transgressed these rules? Perhaps I am insensitive, but I don't see it except possibly where he wrote "her teeth are pretty jacked and her body isn't anything to brag about". Or possibly where he wrote "In the words of Charlie Sheen, "I don't pay them for $EX I pay them to leave" ".

If these are the disrespectful comments, then I don't get it as many posts are far far more disrespectful than these comments.

By this post, I am not trying to cause trouble, I am simply and legitimately seeking to better understand.

Thanks!

 

[Nesbot]

I was going to ask the same thing. But looks like mod edited the original post so maybe there was something in their that went against Rule 10, and 21?

Either way at least we're not getting the same old "she was very fun, but I won't go in to details. That remains private between the two of us".

I hope DDB gets things right on his reviews because its bringing life to the board.

 

[Bbw hunter]

Nice review, DDB. Brings back memories! I saw Jolie during one of my early Ottawa visits in 2018, on the same day I saw Sadi Love. Jolie was solidly in Milf territory (think she said was 47) but had great big natural juggs and was quite a sexual woman. There was a small upcharge for bbbj but no big deal. Had fun with her but really had no desire for a repeat; it was one and done. Nothing really wrong with her I just wanted to explore more girls in your great town...came back a week later for Rebecca Gold and have been returning regularly since haha.
No unsolicited texts from Jolie...back then she was still talking on the phone lol.

 

[Nocturnal101]

I was going to ask the same thing. But looks like mod edited the original post so maybe there was something in their that went against Rule 10, and 21?

Either way at least we're not getting the same old "she was very fun, but I won't go in to details. That remains private between the two of us".

I hope DDB gets things right on his reviews because its bringing life to the board.

There was another new DDB review last night that looks like it has since been deleted.

 

[asuran]

Can you please outline how DDB transgressed these rules? Perhaps I am insensitive, but I don't see it except possibly where he wrote "her teeth are pretty jacked and her body isn't anything to brag about". Or possibly where he wrote "In the words of Charlie Sheen, "I don't pay them for $EX I pay them to leave" ".

If these are the disrespectful comments, then I don't get it as many posts are far far more disrespectful than these comments.

I don't recall what was written prior to the edit but I did see some stuff that were blatant disregard of the rules. So what you see now are the parts that are OK-ish.

There was another new DDB review last night that looks like it has since been deleted.

I caught a glimpse of it last night. That one too was alleging stuff that are not to be talked about per forum rules.

I think DDB is walking a thin line and his next review/post probably will decide his fate. He's gotten enough chances, I'd say.
I recommend @DirtyDanBrown to try a "less is more" approach to his writing style.

 

[source]

There's one think I think is a bit odd in this thread. I've had mod interventions (for different reasons) and the mod PM'd me the reason for deletion, along with a warning.

In this case, putting a reference to such and such forum rules in the thread just lets other readers read between the lines just as if the OP was still there.

 

[ErectileReptile]

Well that sucks! It was fun reading his dirty reviews.

 

[Sonic Temple]

Solid review @DirtyDanBrown. Thanks for sharing.

 

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These are very simple rules to follow, there is nothing outlandish about them. You are discussing human beings who have decided to share a very personal part of themselves with you, yes some are bad apples but most are not. I have heard it for years about how bad Ottawa clients are, and how people will not tour here for that reason. You guys keep asking for agencies in Ottawa then slam someone for not providing a checklist of services? These people are allowed to choose not to offer you something, like they have their own free will. As someone who has worked in Ottawa for YEARS, I have deeply thought about leaving due to the clientele. Please take the time to read the rules, act accordingly and treat people with human dignity & respect.

 

[Fred Zed]

How difficult is it to post respectful, informative or critical, reviews while staying within our guidelines ? seriously ? The Toronto incall section is filled with them. Ottawa's members cant ? The rules are in place for a reason. To stop trolls from posting inaccurate , spiteful info that cant be proven. You guys need to remember one thing. Mods dont have time to read every post written. We act ONLY when something is flagged. So please dont blame the mods from doing their jobs. And regarding the members who left, they weren't welcomed here anyway with their disrespectful attitude's towards other members, the ladies and the moderators.

 

[MaverickPunter]

Agree with Fred Zed, RF, and beautiful Nadia.

It's easy to follow the rules, which are common courtesy and common sense.

Fred Zed has better things to do than to babysit the Ottawa-Kingston forum.

We don't want to have the forum shut down because we're time-wasters. It's a privilege to have a place to post.

Appreciate the more pleasant tone on TERB lately and the efforts of Fred Zed to create a quality product for all concerned.

 

[Nesbot]

It's true the rules are pretty straight forward and are the very basic in respecting one another. I'm not one to hold back an opinion, so here it is.

This is a great place that offers a ton of information that is useful to everybody in this industry. But everything should be done in moderation (ha pun). Removing spiteful ignorance from the board is always a positive thing. I just really really hope we're careful enough not to become too draconian with the way in which people present their experiences. Because there is another board for Ottawa that was once more vibrant and popular than this one. And its a virtual ghost town now for that simple fact. IMO the beauty of this board is free expression (yes, as long as you follow the rules).

As long as this place provides awesome perspectives from providers and clients alike it will be good. But if it becomes a place that offers few to zero details and becomes bland, the success will be marked by the activity level and frequency of posts.

 

[Fred Zed]

It's true the rules are pretty straight forward and are the very basic in respecting one another. I'm not one to hold back an opinion, so here it is.

This is a great place that offers a ton of information that is useful to everybody in this industry. But everything should be done in moderation (ha pun). Removing spiteful ignorance from the board is always a positive thing. I just really really hope we're careful enough not to become too draconian with the way in which people present their experiences. Because there is another board for Ottawa that was once more vibrant and popular than this one. And its a virtual ghost town now for that simple fact. IMO the beauty of this board is free expression (yes, as long as you follow the rules).

As long as this place provides awesome perspectives from providers and clients alike it will be good. But if it becomes a place that offers few to zero details and becomes bland, the success will be marked by the activity level and frequency of posts.

We encourage all input when it comes to reviews, both positive, neutral, and very critical. It is all very helpful and welcomed. But come on, some of the comments are a bit over the top , spiteful, full of malice and intentionally written to hurt the provider. Especially some of the comments thrown in from guys who have never seen, or will ever see the provider. Their main purpose is to come here and be entertained. Those members are slowly being weeded out one by one. We have received many many thank yous from members who have noticed a noticeable difference in the direction the forums have been going. A more professional, say what you need to say, but keep it civil type forum. With no name calling or bickering and much more respectful to the ladies, even if it was a very critical review. It is possible.

 

[Nesbot]

You are going off on a tangent.

Meaningful reviews are allowed. There is no reason for the board to become bland. The Toronto section is vibrant and it functions well.

No one has ever said that helpful details can’t be posted provided that posters observe the rules.

The rules are very simple. Stick to them and we can drain the swamp.

The mods have been fair in applying the rules.

I said what I said. Nowhere did mention not following the rules. In fact, I think I mentioned following the rules twice.
And there was no tangent. It was as straightforward as can be. But I'll say it again because apparently I wasn't clear. This is the internet. You will have differing opinions. Its always wise to keep that in mind as long as the rules are being followed. (There, I stated it again). This place is healthy with discussion. It would be a shame if that changed and all the voices were the same. As long as everybody follows the rules.

 

[Nesbot]

We encourage all input when it comes to reviews, both positive, neutral, and very critical. It is all very helpful and welcomed. But come on, some of the comments are a bit over the top , spiteful, full of malice and intentionally written to hurt the provider. Especially some of the comments thrown in from guys who have never seen, or will ever see the provider. Their main purpose is to come here and be entertained. Those members are slowly being weeded out one by one. We have received many many thank yous from members who have noticed a noticeable difference in the direction the forums have been going. A more professional, say what you need to say, but keep it civil type forum. With no name calling or bickering and much more respectful to the ladies, even if it was a very critical review. It is possible.

I don't know what goes on behind the scene's. And if removal of posters is causing positive feedback I'm all for it.

 

[gibarian]

How difficult is it to post respectful, informative or critical, reviews while staying within our guidelines ? seriously ? The Toronto incall section is filled with them. Ottawa's members cant ? The rules are in place for a reason. To stop trolls from posting inaccurate , spiteful info that cant be proven. You guys need to remember one thing. Mods dont have time to read every post written. We act ONLY when something is flagged. So please dont blame the mods from doing their jobs. And regarding the members who left, they weren't welcomed here anyway with their disrespectful attitude's towards other members, the ladies and the moderators.

I venture into the Toronto indies board from time to time and actually find it much more of a toxic cesspool than the Ottawa one ever was. There are a number of regular posters over there who are constantly posting variations of "She's not worth those rates" or "Never screen, boys" in thread after thread. IMO the reasons the Ottawa section ostensibly got "cleaned up" were a) it's small pond and the offenders were highly visible and easy to gather up for deletion, whereas the offenders on the TO boards get lost among the much higher traffic, and b) the providers who complained about TERB users/incidents on Twitter last year specifically pointed out users/incidents in the Ottawa section, not the Toronto section.

 

[dynomyte]

I think Nesbot makes some very valid points and is definitely not off on a tangent. In fact, this Jolie thread is no longer about Jolie and Nesbot was not responsible for the redirected discussion. The reality is, the board has a lot of potential to be an effective source of information for providers and clients alike, but it seems as though critical reviews are not tolerated or are creatively edited through moderation. To have this opinion, and it is simply an opinion, is a clear violation of the rules as it critiques the moderator's decisions. It really does seem that the only opinions permitted are those that are "rosy".

By no means do I post things that are degrading (check my posts as none of my posts reveal anything explicit) but I do see many posts by others being slammed or deleting when they were not disrespectful but because they communicated a negative experience. Being able to communicate both a positive or negative experience seems to be the purpose of a review board.

I agree that the board had become a very toxic environment with a few had apples ruining it for everyone, so something had to be done to bring it back to some fun and healthy discussions. However, going too far the other way also distracts from the purpose of a review board and I think that Nesbots points about free speech should not be so easily dismissed. I wish i could say what that balance looks like, but i cant. I do, however, believe that people can share their reviews (both positive and negative) respectfully. Perhaps the sticking point in this discussion is what "respectful" criticism looks like?