Picky guy when selecting women

[Justchilling77]

Most women I end up meeting from Leo list in person they end up not being attractive or their butt is not big enough. Or the butt is big but in bad condition. So most of the times when I see an escort 9/10 I end up bailing on them and don't stay.

Are they're any escorts with hot face and nice body I mean a body like Nicki Minaj. Small waist big butt ?

 

[fibrewax]

LoL !!
We all have our preferences regarding what looks "good to us".
That is why - as a "paying customer" it is your right to make the best choice for "you" and not to let anyone shame you for being picky.
It is your money, after all, and you need to be assured that you get what you pay for.
Sadly in this industry, any guarantees of value for your money are non-existent and it is more like playing poker.

 

[Alison_xox]

My personal opinion :
The woman in Ottawa are more “au natural” kind of providers. They rock the natural look and it’s what’s more popular here.
You might want to try a FMTY provider from the US to find what you are looking for.

 

[Justchilling77]

My personal opinion :
The woman in Ottawa are more “au natural” kind of providers. They rock the natural look and it’s what’s more popular here.
You might want to try a FMTY provider from the US to find what you are looking for.

Maybe I will try to go to Toronto or Montreal then. My type is probably there

 

[raegae2000]

Ya only reason I've yet to see an escort and barely see massage girls is because I need to see a face and their posing is highly misleading to reality. Filters have killed it to.

 

[Justchilling77]

Why not their suppose to look like porn stars if Iam going to pay a girl for sex I want to make sure it's a girl I wouldn't have a chance with. Not an average girl. She has to look like the porn actors hot nice face , nice boobs and big ass

 

[raegae2000]

Hence why I like strip clubs!

 

[MaverickPunter]

Most women I end up meeting from Leo list in person they end up not being attractive or their butt is not big enough. Or the butt is big but in bad condition. So most of the times when I see an escort 9/10 I end up bailing on them and don't stay.

Are they're any escorts with hot face and nice body I mean a body like Nicki Minaj. Small waist big butt ?

If you have a 90% failure rate maybe it's time to change your MO. Explain what you are looking for, and if the girl doesn't match your criteria, then move on until you find the girl you want.

Walking out on 90% of the women sounds weak, arrogant, and is a gigantic waste of time for all concerned. Are you compensating the women and saying a few kind words before you turn and run? Or are you boosting your fragile ego by rejecting these ladies and just leaving them with a hole in their schedules, devastating humiliation and a loss of income? The girls are human beings with feelings and bills to pay, not objects for your amusement and gratification.

Your weak-assed protocols cause girls to raise prices, double-book, and give TERBians and Ottawa a bad name.

Most girls invest time, energy, and money with professional photoshoots that show them at their sexy best. They are excited about the shoots and proud of the results. Obviously most of the ladies don't look like that all the time, but to hold them to that standard is cruel and juvenile in the extreme.

Maybe you should stick around and enjoy their pleasures and bring something to the table, and the bedroom. If 90% of women are disappointed with you right out of the gate, that's not a good record, and it's entirely due to poor planning and procedures, and some spineless ego gratification.

 

[ErectileReptile]

Why not their suppose to look like porn stars if Iam going to pay a girl for sex I want to make sure it's a girl I wouldn't have a chance with. Not an average girl. She has to look like the porn actors hot nice face , nice boobs and big ass

The majority of hobbyists are likely WAY below average, so the average SPs meet their requirements. I would think.

I get you though, when paying for an SP, she should have a good combination of
- services
- look
- rates
- friendly welcoming personality
- location

You may find you Minaj babe here but you'll have to keep an eye on the Montreal and Toronto visiting SPs. Or like you said, go visit them. Ottawa is pretty average like Alison mentioned above.

 

[Justchilling77]

If you have a 90% failure rate maybe it's time to change your MO. Explain what you are looking for, and if the girl doesn't match your criteria, then move on until you find the girl you want.

Walking out on 90% of the women sounds weak, arrogant, and is a gigantic waste of time for all concerned. Are you compensating the women and saying a few kind words before you turn and run? Or are you boosting your fragile ego by rejecting these ladies and just leaving them with a hole in their schedules, devastating humiliation and a loss of income? The girls are human beings with feelings and bills to pay, not objects for your amusement and gratification.

Your weak-assed protocols cause girls to raise prices, double-book, and give TERBians and Ottawa a bad name.

Most girls invest time, energy, and money with professional photoshoots that show them at their sexy best. They are excited about the shoots and proud of the results. Obviously most of the ladies don't look like that all the time, but to hold them to that standard is cruel and juvenile in the extreme.

Maybe you should stick around and enjoy their pleasures and bring something to the table, and the bedroom. If 90% of women are disappointed with you right out of the gate, that's not a good record, and it's entirely due to poor planning and procedures, and some spineless ego gratification.

You're not getting the point here and most girls on Leo list 90% don't even use a their real photos or they use a photo for 2 years ago or a year ago that's kind of wasting my time when I have expectations and they get crushed everytime. That's not fair for me to be deceived. And most girls take pics from different angles so their body looks good and fit but in reality it's the opposite you can watch to YouTube videos of how some girls make their butt look big or small waist from different angle that's not fair to the guy.

 

[DirtyDanBrown]

You're not getting the point here and most girls on Leo list 90% don't even use a their real photos or they use a photo for 2 years ago or a year ago that's kind of wasting my time when I have expectations and they get crushed everytime. That's not fair for me to be deceived. And most girls take pics from different angles so their body looks good and fit but in reality it's the opposite you can watch to YouTube videos of how some girls make their butt look big or small waist from different angle that's not fair to the guy.

Your right.

75 Percent of the time the woman is worse looking than her pics. But I've learned to expect that. I've also learned that for me service trumps looks.

 

[Justchilling77]

Your right.

75 Percent of the time the woman is worse looking than her pics. But I've learned to expect that. I've also learned that for me service trumps looks.

Damn I guess there's no hope then eh..... Damn Shame

 

[MikeO]

Damn I guess there's no hope then eh..... Damn Shame

My sentiments have already been expressed by Maverick Punter. I was going to write my own response, but he pretty much nailed it. (He's actually nailed a few of the same ladies as I have as well.) The only thing I'll add is, "The secret to happiness is to lower your standards!". This is only a half-joke. (I've been telling the girls this since high school...lower your standards...take ME....you can be HAPPY....all you have to do is LOWER YOUR STANDARDS!

I'd have given up hobbying before I started if my first experience hadn't been GREAT. The first lady I visited almost 5 years ago (Karmella Lynn / now Anna Lee) was (and still is) one of the prettiest, sweetest, most intelligent and excellent providers of services that I've ever met. If my 'success rate' was a mere 10%, I wouldn't be wasting my time (or ladies' time) at all, especially in these covidays.

There are many lovely and gorgeous ladies in Ottawa and many in the industry and many of them with great personalities and great services. You just have to scout them out and support them. LeoList (without substantial additional research) is probably the least efficient way of finding someone who is true to their pics and their promises, particularly if you are frequently trying new ladies that drift on and off those ads, are here for only a few days and promise the stars and moon, and don't have a web site or a Twitter account.

You are probably correct, though, in that there may not be hope for you... without therapy.

 

[Justchilling77]

My sentiments have already been expressed by Maverick Punter. I was going to write my own response, but he pretty much nailed it. (He's actually nailed a few of the same ladies as I have as well.) The only thing I'll add is, "The secret to happiness is to lower your standards!". This is only a half-joke. (I've been telling the girls this since high school...lower your standards...take ME....you can be HAPPY....all you have to do is LOWER YOUR STANDARDS!

I'd have given up hobbying before I started if my first experience hadn't been GREAT. The first lady I visited almost 5 years ago (Karmella Lynn / now Anna Lee) was (and still is) one of the prettiest, sweetest, most intelligent and excellent providers of services that I've ever met. If my 'success rate' was a mere 10%, I wouldn't be wasting my time (or ladies' time) at all, especially in these covidays.

There are many lovely and gorgeous ladies in Ottawa and many in the industry and many of them with great personalities and great services. You just have to scout them out and support them. LeoList (without substantial additional research) is probably the least efficient way of finding someone who is true to their pics and their promises, particularly if you are frequently trying new ladies that drift on and off those ads, are here for only a few days and promise the stars and moon, and don't have a web site or a Twitter account.

You are probably correct, though, in that there may not be hope for your... without therapy.

Lol I've met some hot girls before but most of them are from Toronto or Montreal. Seems like Toronto or Montreal has better quality of women as in looks or personalty.

 

[limbosuper]

If you have a 90% failure rate maybe it's time to change your MO. Explain what you are looking for, and if the girl doesn't match your criteria, then move on until you find the girl you want.

Walking out on 90% of the women sounds weak, arrogant, and is a gigantic waste of time for all concerned. Are you compensating the women and saying a few kind words before you turn and run? Or are you boosting your fragile ego by rejecting these ladies and just leaving them with a hole in their schedules, devastating humiliation and a loss of income? The girls are human beings with feelings and bills to pay, not objects for your amusement and gratification.

Your weak-assed protocols cause girls to raise prices, double-book, and give TERBians and Ottawa a bad name.

Most girls invest time, energy, and money with professional photoshoots that show them at their sexy best. They are excited about the shoots and proud of the results. Obviously most of the ladies don't look like that all the time, but to hold them to that standard is cruel and juvenile in the extreme.

Maybe you should stick around and enjoy their pleasures and bring something to the table, and the bedroom. If 90% of women are disappointed with you right out of the gate, that's not a good record, and it's entirely due to poor planning and procedures, and some spineless ego gratification.

This gave me a hard on , nailed it

 

[Cool_De_La]

Lowering your standards makes sense if you're in a club and it's almost closing time and you haven't been able to hook up with someone yet. In that case, you would lower your standards to not go home empty handed.

But if you're purchasing a service, you would expect to get what is advertised at the very least. You wouldn't go to the dealership to buy a Lexus and leave with a Corolla for the same price.

 

[Nesbot]

Sorry man. Not with you on this one at all.

 

[Mreffect]

Why not their suppose to look like porn stars if Iam going to pay a girl for sex I want to make sure it's a girl I wouldn't have a chance with. Not an average girl. She has to look like the porn actors hot nice face , nice boobs and big ass

Noone is supposed to look like anything, you have a personal preference. One that not all of us share. You are allowed your preference but personally I find many types of women beautiful. Some times I want to spend time with a cute spinner, sometimes a more voloptuous woman.

What I would agree with you on is misrepresentation in pictures, you can cut down on this with more rigoroous screening, it's pretty obvious nowadays when somebody has body tuned, photoshopped or stuck filters on their pics. 90% of the providers I end up seeing nowadays look like their pics, because i'm rigarous in how I screen.

 

[DirtyDanBrown]

Lowering your standards makes sense if you're in a club and it's almost closing time and you haven't been able to hook up with someone yet. In that case, you would lower your standards to not go home empty handed.

But if you're purchasing a service, you would expect to get what is advertised at the very least. You wouldn't go to the dealership to buy a Lexus and leave with a Corolla for the same price.

I like your theory, but don't expect to pay 200 bucks and have Gisele Bundchen open the door to the motel 6.

 

[ErectileReptile]

Lowering your standards makes sense if you're in a club and it's almost closing time and you haven't been able to hook up with someone yet. In that case, you would lower your standards to not go home empty handed.

But if you're purchasing a service, you would expect to get what is advertised at the very least. You wouldn't go to the dealership to buy a Lexus and leave with a Corolla for the same price.

A little raw but yes I see your point, lowering standards when paying a lot of hard earned money doesn't make sense to me. If one side of the transaction needs to be lowered, something on the other side needs to be balanced at well.