The 'no black gents' rule

[Boss Nass]

Although it rubs my liberal sensibilities the wrong way, would there be less chance of a scam? If someone is going to take the money and run, or call the pimp into the room, would they really care about that rule? It would turn away potential victims, not exactly a good business model.

Or am I missing something?

 

[redshank]

It usually goes like this

A lot of providers with this policy are already GFs to or under the control of Black pimps that don't want them vulnerable to other pimps. I can only assume that Black pimps think most other pimps are also Black

Some girls have had some kind of bad experience where either the Black client tries to haggle/is rough with her/or robs her

Then the debate between it's her body and she has the right to select whoever she wants vs this is a business transaction and if you refuse service to a client simply because of skin colour than the provider is a racist/bigot

I like to add this video clip for comedic relief

"Pure Alabama Black Snake...but it ain't too God Damn Beaucoup"

 

[Boss Nass]

It usually goes like this

A lot of providers with this policy are already GFs to or under the control of Black pimps that don't want them vulnerable to other pimps. I can only assume that Black pimps think most other pimps are also Black

Some girls have had some kind of bad experience where either the Black client tries to haggle/is rough with her/or robs her

Then the debate between it's her body and she has the right to select whoever she wants vs this is a business transaction and if you refuse service to a client simply because of skin colour than the provider is a racist/bigot

I like to add this video clip for comedic relief

"Pure Alabama Black Snake...but it ain't too God Damn Beaucoup"

I get all that, but if they're scammers why would it matter to them? The money they run away with is all the same colour.

 

[redshank]

I get all that, but if they're scammers why would it matter to them? The money they run away with is all the same colour.

Doesn't the girl have the ability to filter out potential risks? If she states "No Black Gents" then it is a Black Gent knocking at her door she might not open the door/buzz for him. I would think having this option lowers the risk of being scammed/robbed in her mind. I'm not saying she's correct but it gives her some control if that is the reason she has the policy

 

[Boss Nass]

I'm talking about the risk of the customer getting scammed, not the girl.

 

[wazup]

The way you worded it is confusing. I've read it 5 times and still don't understand what you're asking. There may or may not be a pimp in the room, there's a customer involved whose colour we're not sure of and an escort somewhere, and somebody is taking somebody's money and the pimp gets called into the room and somebody doesn't care about the rule, but the pimp means there is less chance of a scam?

And none of this is a good business model because it would turn away potential victims? Have I got this right ?

 

[Charlemagne]

Not this thread again....

If you wave the money in their faces, 9 times out of 10 the rule goes out the window in my experience (with Asians).

 

[y2kmark]

Kind of telling that there's no evidence of such a rule on Only Fans or the Covid 19 Sex Worker Relief Fund threads...

 

[Boss Nass]

The way you worded it is confusing. I've read it 5 times and still don't understand what you're asking. There may or may not be a pimp in the room, there's a customer involved whose colour we're not sure of and an escort somewhere, and somebody is taking somebody's money and the pimp gets called into the room and somebody doesn't care about the rule, but the pimp means there is less chance of a scam?

And none of this is a good business model because it would turn away potential victims? Have I got this right ?

I'll simplify it: if they're pulling a scam, why would they bother putting that rule in? Or any rule that might deter a sucker from turning up? So my premise is that if you see that in an ad, would there be less chance that we, the customer, will lose our money?

 

[Jenesis]

I get all that, but if they're scammers why would it matter to them? The money they run away with is all the same colour.

I get what you are trying to say. They would not want to limit the potential pool of victims by denying certain races.

I don't know if that is completely true though. I would think scams could still happen. Maybe they don't want to deal with the “scary black man” who could have a gun and stop them from stealing the black guy's money. Because a lot of people think all black guys carry guns.

So I don't know it would be an indication that the person is not a scam artist.

 

[AH1]

I get what you are trying to say. They would not want to limit the potential pool of victims by denying certain races.

I don't know if that is completely true though. I would think scams could still happen. Maybe they don't want to deal with the “scary black man” who could have a gun and stop them from stealing the black guy's money. Because a lot of people think all black guys carry guns.

So I don't know it would be an indication that the person is not a scam artist.

in their eyes all black men are the same right. Let’s put all them in the same basket. No difference at all If I understand.

I talked to an SP about that. She told me, I am not racist and don’t have any problems at all with black people as a matter of facts my boyfriend is black. Really don’t get that logic.

 

[Jenesis]

in their eyes all black men are the same right. Let’s put all them in the same basket. No difference at all If I understan.

I talked to an SP about that. She told me, I am racist and don’t have any problems at all with black people as a matter of facts my boyfriend is black. Really don’t get that logic.

Yea, definitely don't get the logic.

And you are right, some people will lump all POC as the same. And all with a negative brush.

I am lucky in a way. My first BF in high school was a second gen Pakistani. I learned early about a different culture and I was fascinated. It made me want to learn more about other cultures. I must have dated every colour of the rainbow because I didn't see colour. I saw people and then learned about them, their culture, their lifestyles.

But I had support with my interracial dating and in my high school group of friends, we were a mixed bag so there was no hostility towards bi-racial dating. It may have been different for me if I had not taken that leap.

But he was a drummer and hot and sweet to me. It was a great 2-year relationship.

 

[Zipperpants]

I'll simplify it: if they're pulling a scam, why would they bother putting that rule in? Or any rule that might deter a sucker from turning up? So my premise is that if you see that in an ad, would there be less chance that we, the customer, will lose our money?

They are afraid of what a black guy will do to them when they scam him. You know the whole stereotype that all black guys are scary and are in gangs etc etc.

Based on what I have seen. The vast majority of the ads I have seen with that listed turned out to either be terrible service or just a plan old scam. So when I see that listed I avoid.