Ok i don't get this

[Bigdaug]

I read some of your reviews with sps and the way you write its like the best experience of your lives.

I don't feel anything like that. Not even close.

I don't remember any of the girls I've seen. Description wise how they look or anything. If I bumped into them in public I wouldn't know who they are.

I think of ladies I was with in the past who I dated! Who i was really into. Even ones long ago.The amazing times I had. Escorts never.

I've seen a lot of the ones that are really well reviewed and raved about.

I just find the whole thing rushed and fake. I guess.

Example. Cuba last year met this attractive young lady at the beach flirted with her for days had drinks she was smoking in her two piece bikini. She was there with her sister who didn't say one word. I bumped into her by the pool grabbed her pulled her into me and gave her a huge kiss. We started fooling around in the ocean next couple of days. Getting closer. Her last night there I took her out to varedero listened to live music drinking shots of rum. Dancing took her back to my room had sex with her all night. What a fucking night still remember the way she looked when she met me at the bar at 9pm before we went out. All in white with a very short dress. Hmmmmmm.

That I remember very well!

She was a nurse from Montreal dated for a bit didn't work out because of distance and obligations. I won't forget her anytime soon.

Thats just one if hundreds of stories I can talk about the last few decades.

Really don't get the sp thing its like nothing.

I think this isn't for me.

Oh well gave it a shot.

 

[jalimon]

You gotta stop smoking a big fatty before seeing SP!

 

[Jasmina]

Do you ever talk to the SP, besides small talk while you undress, or do you just do the deed and get out?

What's your headspace going in? How do you select the SPs you are seeing? Do you take your time and find out a lil about them besides the reviews (twitter, their websites as examples)?

Have you considered trying to find SPs that you might have other common interests in (music, sports, etc)?

 

[RichardG2020]

I read some of your reviews with sps and the way you write its like the best experience of your lives.

I don't feel anything like that. Not even close.

I don't remember any of the girls I've seen. Description wise how they look or anything. If I bumped into them in public I wouldn't know who they are.

I think of ladies I was with in the past who I dated! Who i was really into. Even ones long ago.The amazing times I had. Escorts never.

I've seen a lot of the ones that are really well reviewed and raved about.

I just find the whole thing rushed and fake. I guess.

Example. Cuba last year met this attractive young lady at the beach flirted with her for days had drinks she was smoking in her two piece bikini. She was there with her sister who didn't say one word. I bumped into her by the pool grabbed her pulled her into me and gave her a huge kiss. We started fooling around in the ocean next couple of days. Getting closer. Her last night there I took her out to varedero listened to live music drinking shots of rum. Dancing took her back to my room had sex with her all night. What a fucking night still remember the way she looked when she met me at the bar at 9pm before we went out. All in white with a very short dress. Hmmmmmm.

That I remember very well!

She was a nurse from Montreal dated for a bit didn't work out because of distance and obligations. I won't forget her anytime soon.

Thats just one if hundreds of stories I can talk about the last few decades.

Really don't get the sp thing its like nothing.

I think this isn't for me.

Oh well gave it a shot.

Well, that was a great vacay story , but you can’t honestly compare the pursuit and seduction of that nurse over the course of a week in Varadero with an hour of borrowed time with an SP.

You worked hard to seduce her, and your efforts were rewarded. It’s no surprise that it was more impactful on a visceral level for you.

Don’t fret about forgetting the SP’s you’ve seen too much though. The SP’s probably don’t remember you either (or the majority of clients they see only once.)

We all have different reasons for seeing escorts. Some men want sexual variety. Some crave physical intimacy. Some are fulfilling a fantasy. While others just need a sexual release.

If you don’t find it enjoyable, fulfilling, or worthwhile seeing an SP, then you are doing the right thing by walking away. Why waste your time and money any further.

While most of my dates have been positive experiences, like you - I’ve had some forgettable ones as well.

However, for the most part, I’m very happy with this lifestyle.

I feel fortunate to have been intimate with a number of amazing ladies, and I look forward to becoming acquainted with many more.

I’m glad you’ve come to your own self realization. Good luck to you.

 

[mellowjello]

My experience with SPs is the same as civilian women, for the most part you will get back what you put out.

 

[Jenesis]

My experience with SPs is the same as civilian women, for the most part you will get back what you put out.

This.

And what the others have said.

It would appear that SPs are no more then a substitute for your hand and some lube. While for me and others, it is made to be something more.

Either way is fine. I mean you will get some who say treat them like a human being but you can be respectful and still only be using the person as a sex toy. I get that.

Let people enjoy their times and rave and whatever and you enjoy the nut busting and moving on.

Unless you want something more, then we are in a different discussion. Which TERB can be helpful towards. You just have to figure out what you’re in it for.

 

[Tomoreno]

I don't remember any of the girls I've seen. Description wise how they look or anything. If I bumped into them in public I wouldn't know who they are.

When you get to an incall location, they put a blindfold on and lead you through tunnels to meet a lady... but once you're with a lady and doing it - you're supposed to take the blindfold off.