Would You Stop Seeing A SP If She Recognizes You On Facebook?

[ExoticSpirit]

I've been seeing a particular SP on a semi-regular basis for the last two years since our sessions always work well and her rates don't break the bank. However, she has mentioned to me twice that she thinks she saw me on Facebook even though I never gave her my real name. So I'm obviously thinking about possible privacy concerns. She is an older milf in her 40s or even early 50s though. She asked me if I'm on Facebook shown with my dogs or doing one of my recreational activities. I did not admit to anything.

Is this a red flag that I should stop seeing this SP? I certainly would not want any SP to potentially cause any issues in the future as a result of losing some confidentiality.

 

[kherg007]

Just let her know if you get outed she dies, no matter who outed you. You know, like the mutual assured destruction thing during the USA v USSR cold war thing. That should put your mind at ease LOL. (P.s. just kidding no one should threaten that sort of thing).

But in seriousness, I would be careful. It is uncomfortable knowing someone might have that info. You'll just have to trust she's a pro. And, if she does try the blackmail, report it to coppers. I think canadian cops pretty reasonable about the relative size of the crime and will go after her appropriately. After all, you were just sharing companionship. Also - does FB let you know who looked at your profile? Maybe you learn her name?

 

[malata]

yes stop seeing her if you have a wifey and a gf

 

[Tomoreno]

Certain discretion is expected from both sides.
One of the biggest issues in present times is technology. You don't have to give anyone your name or phone number. Being in the same room with 2 devices that are turned on is enough these days. I noticed long time ago that Facebook will send me a Friend Suggestion once in a while of people that I've been in the same room with but know very little about (no name, no phone #)
Before I go to see SP, i always turn off Location feature in my phone. It tracks your every movement.
If you bring your phone to a session, turn off your phone or at the very least turn off data.

 

[boomboom]

Certain discretion is expected from both sides.
One of the biggest issues in present times is technology. You don't have to give anyone your name or phone number. Being in the same room with 2 devices that are turned on is enough these days. I noticed long time ago that Facebook will send me a Friend Suggestion once in a while of people that I've been in the same room with but know very little about (no name, no phone #)
Before I go to see SP, i always turn off Location feature in my phone. It tracks your every movement.
If you bring your phone to a session, turn off your phone or at the very least turn off data.

good points
thank you

 

[Akila Besos]

Honestly I believe its up to ones discretion

When I was an active SP i tried to keep my socials hidden for as long as possible but now I am like whatever if someone follows me ..they just cannot add me because you would wanna keep your personal life away from the extra activities you do.


If it really bothers you turn your gps off on the phone ^-^

 

[kherg007]

Honestly I believe its up to ones discretion

When I was an active SP i tried to keep my socials hidden for as long as possible but now I am like whatever if someone follows me ..they just cannot add me because you would wanna keep your personal life away from the extra activities you do.


If it really bothers you turn your gps off on the phone ^-^

Btw thanks for reminding me cottonkandie....face pics. Working ladies should be aware a lot of face recognition algorithms out there in various security contexts...so...careful about your professional pics and whether to have face pics.

 

[ExoticSpirit]

Certain discretion is expected from both sides.
One of the biggest issues in present times is technology. You don't have to give anyone your name or phone number. Being in the same room with 2 devices that are turned on is enough these days. I noticed long time ago that Facebook will send me a Friend Suggestion once in a while of people that I've been in the same room with but know very little about (no name, no phone #)
Before I go to see SP, i always turn off Location feature in my phone. It tracks your every movement.
If you bring your phone to a session, turn off your phone or at the very least turn off data.

Thanks for the advice

 

[Butler1000]

Private your Facebook setting to friends only.

 

[scdave2003]

Had a SP friend on FB until my wife saw her, sadly had to say good bye but able to keep in touch via a backchannel email account.

 

[Akila Besos]

Private your Facebook setting to friends only.

Even if you do only friends...you can find a way around the restriction if your good at hacking

 

[Charlemagne]

Is that SP Victoria Catherina (this is not her real name) still around? I found her fb lol. That was awhile ago. I found it after someone sent me an article about her regarding something not so flattering.

 

[Charlemagne]

I've been seeing a particular SP on a semi-regular basis for the last two years since our sessions always work well and her rates don't break the bank. However, she has mentioned to me twice that she thinks she saw me on Facebook even though I never gave her my real name. So I'm obviously thinking about possible privacy concerns. She is an older milf in her 40s or even early 50s though. She asked me if I'm on Facebook shown with my dogs or doing one of my recreational activities. I did not admit to anything.

Is this a red flag that I should stop seeing this SP? I certainly would not want any SP to potentially cause any issues in the future as a result of losing some confidentiality.

I would stop seeing her. I would also make all the settings on the account as private as possible.

 

[Fun For All]

I don’t have Facebook so it won’t happen.

 

[oil&gas]

Many hobbyists don't seem to mind seeing a SP who has
seen their ID. Pick a SP in the right category and you won't
regret.

 

[Jasmina]

You said you've been seeing her for a couple of years... she is probably just thinking you two have gone beyond an SP/client relationship and into real friend territory. That said, if you didn't respond to the hints the first time, she should drop that convo and move on from it. Pushing the issue is not a smart move on her part. I doubt very much she plans to do anything malicious with the info. If she brings it up again, be honest and say that is part of your personal life. If she still doesn't get it, stop seeing her.

 

[ExoticSpirit]

Thanks for all your comments folks.

 

[DannyDo]

I've been seeing a particular SP on a semi-regular basis for the last two years since our sessions always work well and her rates don't break the bank. However, she has mentioned to me twice that she thinks she saw me on Facebook even though I never gave her my real name. So I'm obviously thinking about possible privacy concerns. She is an older milf in her 40s or even early 50s though. She asked me if I'm on Facebook shown with my dogs or doing one of my recreational activities. I did not admit to anything.

Is this a red flag that I should stop seeing this SP? I certainly would not want any SP to potentially cause any issues in the future as a result of losing some confidentiality.

I saw a SP once ,(so far, but I'll be back) and even though I only know her by her working name, her Facebook under her legal name came up on my "recommended" list. Facebook's algorithms are scarry. lol

 

[The Oracle]

I have a burner phone that doesn't receive any data.

Get unlimited texting and 300 minutes a month for $30 a month.

Just go down to Petro Canada and purchase minutes each month.

So no worries as far as being tracked.

Friend of mine set it up for me on a BlackBerry Bold, lol....People just laugh when they see it but things a tank and I like the raised keyboard.

I'm on Facebook but not under my real last name. All the pics of me are at least 25 years old. I'm friends mostly with school ,buddies and belong to a few groups. That's it.

As for the OP here. If you have a lot to lose I would drop seeing her pronto. The shoulda woulda's in life just aren't worth it.

 

[xix]

Facebook or any social media can locate you easily, with a cell phone. Five years ago FB would tell me who saw my account. That got removed after the hearing committee in the USA. FB back then would created people's account when they bought a new cell phone without their consent/knowledge.

The guys at work showed me how to call up someone's phone number from FB if they had an account with FB no matter how private. I asked the guy at work to look for someone, FB told him which church he goes to by gps. By using google maps and gps Corp, can guess where you were.

To me FB is that nerd in class, anti social, no friends who didn't have friends in school but knew people because he had access to the school records department by his PC.

I leave the cell phone off in the car under the seat or if you want take with you fine but everything must be OFF. A friend would see a SP during movie hours, reason to have phone off. Would call back after movie is over and when he was far away from the SP house. No GPS tracking.

I would ditch the SP now. If she thinks she saw you, or seems to want a b/f, or is fishing for your personal info I run. No question or reason to give her any.