She was always vulnerable to this. I remember visiting Ottawa, and she did an outcall to my hotel. She offered to buy tickets to a sporting event (because she saw the jersey that I was wearing), so that we could go together (on her dime). She also wanted to travel, and asked to go on a trip. She also asked me to go out for dinner with her. She was vulnerable to find someone who cared. I was not in a situation that I could be seen on a sporting event monitor with her (Alyssa), but it broke my heart to say no. She would drive to Kingston, if I asked when she was coming next. She would reply "I'll be there tomorrow". She would say often "you really like me". Then all of a sudden, she started ditching appointments, and everything changed, probably when the dude showed up.