That type of intimacy absolutely happens with some clients and sex workers. It breaks my heart that it hasn't happened for some others.
Years later and I still recall some amazing sessions.
Like the one time I was doing a duo and I was riding the gentleman and he said, "Slow down or I wont be able to hold back" (or something similar) and I just couldn't stop.. I came so hard on him that my duo partner was laughing at how my ass jiggled when I came. He was right.. he couldn't hold back. I felt like an asshole for being so selfish. I always wanted him to know that.
Years later and I still recall some amazing sessions.
Like the one time I was doing a duo and I was riding the gentleman and he said, "Slow down or I wont be able to hold back" (or something similar) and I just couldn't stop.. I came so hard on him that my duo partner was laughing at how my ass jiggled when I came. He was right.. he couldn't hold back. I felt like an asshole for being so selfish. I always wanted him to know that.
Some articulate ladies here! Thanks for the candor. :yo:
Very interesting question and comments.
My wife and I practiced Tantra for many years. In Tantra, the female orgasm is very important.
Tantra is that "place" where the erotic and the spiritual encounter each other. A dance of masculine and feminine energies. A vicious circle in which he gets "high" on her "high" and she gets "high" on his "high"... and so on and on and on. Which eventually reaches an apex with her release in orgasm of torrents of her energy.
When -- perhaps, if -- that happens, both he and she can touch and experience a state of bliss... the "transcendental peace that follows ecstasy." Sometimes known as "Samadhi," "Satori," "Nirvana"...
Once I tasted that, I seek those kinds of connection and experiences in all my erotic encounters...
I found it with civvies often enough.
For a while, I believed I could find it with a courtesan. But I more or less gave up the hobby when I realized how foolish my expectations were.
No woman can do that several times a day. Nor on demand. Or under pressure. And it takes time. For both connection and foreplay. Sensitivity. Skill. Communication. And it can't be done with a clock ticking away like a taxi meter, either.
That kind of intimacy cannot be bought or sold.
Nor can you fake it, either! :smokin:
So I well understand you, ladies. And more power to those of you who can and/or frequently do orgasm with your clients. Perhaps, in some way you each touch that state of bliss... do you?
But I am surprised to hear that so many of you cannot orgasm from intercourse. Is it like that in your non-professional encounters, too?
And assuming a cunning linguist, do you orgasm in oral in a professional encounter? Or do you hold yourself back?
Perry