Using Real Name While Screening

[Macbo3]

I don't have any issue with SP's knowing who I am (or even requiring deposits), but everything these days is getting hacked and there are huge data dumps that end up on the internet. I don't particularly like the idea that my information is sitting on someone's server. Many SP's have large followings and I'm sure there are plenty of bad actors who would enjoy stealing their data for no shortage of bad reasons.

Not that there is much we can do about this, but I am wondering how others feel about it. Also, is there anything you've found that ensures SP's are happy and feel comfortable with the screening, but that does not require you to send so much data over the internet.

 

[canada-man]

stick to reputable ones here.

 

[Jasmine Raine]

There are plenty of threads on screening.

Most here will say don't screen, and anyone who does screen is an idiot waiting to be fucked over

Basic common sense would tell you other wise. Out of the hundreds, even thousands of sex works operating and screening on a daily basis with multiple clients in a day, you only hear about breaches at sites like Ashley Madison, not an escort.

Escorts use email accounts like ProtonMail set up with encryptions for things like hacking but also government involvement. We use hosting sites in Switzerland and domain names in Switzerland as well.

This is our Livelihood. We're not willing to risk months and years worth of income, thousands of dollars worth of income, just so that we can out somebody and destroy everything that we have created. We don't go through these precautions so that one day information can be compromised on our end and BAM, again we are out of clients. It's not how we look to operate. We're not out to give out your information. We don't really want it especially the first date anyways. We just want to make sure you're safe before you show up and while you're at our place. After that we don't care what you or your information do.

But again the masses here will say don't, your loser if you do and only see agency girls because indies suck. That is what the most of the men here think anyway.

 

[Spacealien2]

Just see someone else if you don't want to be screened. It's that simple.

 

[rhuarc29]

I won't see an escort who requires my real name, and I don't expect an escort to give me her real name either. I think it's unreasonable. Too much to lose in this industry.
It's not a significant risk, but minimizing risk is part of life. If I can see great ladies who don't require my real name, why bother with those who do?
If others want to accept that risk, that's fine too. But I won't.

 

[bazokajoe]

I won't see an escort who requires my real name, and I don't expect an escort to give me her real name either. I think it's unreasonable. Too much to lose in this industry.
It's not a significant risk, but minimizing risk is part of life. If I can see great ladies who don't require my real name, why bother with those who do?
If others want to accept that risk, that's fine too. But I won't.

This!

 

[Knuckle Ball]

I won’t give out personal info...there are way too many risks and countless examples of unstable SP’s outing their clients and abusing the trust they have been given.

This may limit the SP’s I can see although most of the escorts with intrusive screening procedures also tend to be “high end courtesans” that I can’t afford to see anyhow so the whole discussion is kind of a moot point as far as I’m concerned.

 

[Platon]

I'd say if you are married then don't do it. You never know who you are really dealing with, that picture may be pretty and polished to perfection but it may hide some nasty details.

 

[whiteshaft]

I won't see an escort who requires my real name, and I don't expect an escort to give me her real name either. I think it's unreasonable. Too much to lose in this industry.
It's not a significant risk, but minimizing risk is part of life. If I can see great ladies who don't require my real name, why bother with those who do?
If others want to accept that risk, that's fine too. But I won't.

I am with you on this one!

 

[Gentlemoan]

By just giving first name, there isn’t much harm.

 

[Mr Deeds]

Idont m old ,single and don't really hide my little vices any more. Im sure most guys arnt in my position.

 

[oil&gas]

By just giving first name, there isn’t much harm.

Can you just make up a first name to an indy who
requires legal proof of the ID of 1st time clients?

 

[whiteshaft]

Just see someone else if you don't want to be screened. It's that simple.

I agree especially when one is married or in a relationship.
Be logical and don't let the small head doing critical thinking for you lol.:very_drunk:

 

[squeezer]

Most here will say don't screen, and anyone who does screen is an idiot waiting to be fucked over

I agree and yes you maybe one day when you slip up on the wrong one!

But again the masses here will say don't, your loser if you do and only see agency girls because indies suck. That is what the most of the men here think anyway.

I agree again but some indies are okay!

I won't see an escort who requires my real name, and I don't expect an escort to give me her real name either. I think it's unreasonable. Too much to lose in this industry.
It's not a significant risk, but minimizing risk is part of life. If I can see great ladies who don't require my real name, why bother with those who do?
If others want to accept that risk, that's fine too. But I won't.

Ditto and double triple DITTO!!!

 

[Spacealien2]

I agree especially when one is married or in a relationship.
Be logical and don't let the small head doing critical thinking for you lol.:very_drunk:

I wish I could listen to my dick sometimes. My head is interfering with my civilian love life.

 

[luvyeah]

Escorts sole interest is money.

Are you telling me across the board that HOOKERS have enough integrity to pass on quick and easy money for just information?

Let's be real!

While I have met some very nice SPs - why risk it?

Knowledge is power, don't give them that power over you.

The only real solution is to use a NDA - and even that is not completely safe given the legalities and the nature of arrangement.

 

[luvyeah]

Can you just make up a first name to an indy who
requires legal proof of the ID of 1st time clients?

There are kids that make fake ID to buy alcohol. It really can't be that difficult for a bunch of grown men.

 

[malata]

There are kids that make fake ID to buy alcohol. It really can't be that difficult for a bunch of grown men.

dunno. i'm bad with glue

 

[squeezer]

There are kids that make fake ID to buy alcohol. It really can't be that difficult for a bunch of grown men.

No need to, just stick to the ladies that don't demand your real name! Don't allow the industry to change to our detriment.

 

[whiteshaft]

Idont m old ,single and don't really hide my little vices any more. Im sure most guys arnt in my position.

You make so many of us so envious lol!:nod: