Change my mind - I prefer + attidude and personality from SP's than phy. app.

[avg guy]

We all have a personal preference when it comes to physical attraction. Using your own barometer, would you prefer physical attributions over attitude?

I myself prefer attitude and personality. It makes the experience much more enjoyable. To reference in a business sense, there is more bang for the buck...pun intended. I have met some Sp's who met my fantasy or preferred image but had the worst encounters. Dont get me wrong, some were amazing. I have also been with some Sp's who didn't meet my "Taste" and have blown me out of the water and had me coming back.

I would rather visit a woman who might not meet my poster image of sexy but make my mind switch and make me want to treat her as a queen than meet that poster girl and have a star fish to content with.

Thoughts?

 

[Grimnul]

I feel the exact same way. Change my mind too, I guess.

 

[Desire Evaline]

LOL! I cannot help but giggle over starfish!

This is true for men as well. Maybe there is a feature the man would see as a flaw... Odds are he tries a thousand times harder than the guy who thinks he is "hot". Anyone can rut like a damn farm animal (which is what the poster perfect people do unless they had to work at being a poster child). It's starfish or rutting. Seriously... No noise. No movement. If there is movement it is horribly mechanical! Then they tell you that you are the best they ever had, and try to book their next visit before leaving!

*whimpers* BFE Wanted Please!

 

[massman]

I won’t try to change your mind. While physical appearance/ body are a contributor to the experience, attitude and personality are the most important to me.

 

[Jasmine Raine]

LOL! I cannot help but giggle over starfish!

This is true for men as well. Maybe there is a feature the man would see as a flaw... Odds are he tries a thousand times harder than the guy who thinks he is "hot". Anyone can rut like a damn farm animal (which is what the poster perfect people do unless they had to work at being a poster child). It's starfish or rutting. Seriously... No noise. No movement. If there is movement it is horribly mechanical! Then they tell you that you are the best they ever had, and try to book their next visit before leaving!

*whimpers* BFE Wanted Please!

So true. It is so disheartening when you are giving a BJ and they just lay there not making a sound and not moving. Had one of those yesterday.

 

[Mr Deeds]

Why do you have to choose. I want it all thats why I pfp.

 

[kherg007]

LOL! I cannot help but giggle over starfish!

This is true for men as well. Maybe there is a feature the man would see as a flaw... Odds are he tries a thousand times harder than the guy who thinks he is "hot". Anyone can rut like a damn farm animal (which is what the poster perfect people do unless they had to work at being a poster child). It's starfish or rutting. Seriously... No noise. No movement. If there is movement it is horribly mechanical! Then they tell you that you are the best they ever had, and try to book their next visit before leaving!

*whimpers* BFE Wanted Please!

Mind. Blown. Never thought of boy star fish experiences. How could a bloke sit there with all those curves in your face and not go all kid in a candy store on it?

 

[taratender]

Makes sense to me, yall! The brain is the sexiest organ and all that! It's so hard to tell if you will have chemistry with someone just based on photos... someone can def be my favourite physical type and then in person its like... meh. Then again I've met lots of people I wouldn't have batted an eye at just from a photo who I found myself intensely attracted to based on personality and then their looks become so much sexier as I get to know them!

 

[|2 /-\ | /|/]

Makes sense to me, yall! The brain is the sexiest organ and all that! It's so hard to tell if you will have chemistry with someone just based on photos... someone can def be my favourite physical type and then in person its like... meh. Then again I've met lots of people I wouldn't have batted an eye at just from a photo who I found myself intensely attracted to based on personality and then their looks become so much sexier as I get to know them!

Agreed with this.

Best sessions are when there is a connection that forms and both partners are into it to enhance the experience and pleasure for the other feeding off each others cues and feedbacks. It becomes like an entangled dance of energies where our body disappears and both of you completely become present in the experience. This experience is more pleasurable than any art form I experienced because you are now a participant. Luckily you can still find this connection in this industry. Ironically I have only experienced this through this industry and have never experienced this type of connection with any of my SO because of our Egos. In this industry you are anonymous and have nothing to lose and everything to gain by completely letting go and being fully present. In my late 30s I am way too old to be wasting time chasing looks. I chase experiences now and connections and regret I wasted time being blinded by looks.

 

[harwell1690]

I think we are saying similar things, but I'll say it this way....

With more experience, I have learned that I enjoy being with a wide variety of people. (And specifically, in this conversation for me, women.)

So, for example, I do not have one body type that I like. But there are still some body types that... do not do much for me. So, photos (partly and I think about 70% correctly) help me NOT choose ladies where the odds are low for me.

BUT... a gorgeous girl with no chemistry or an "ordinary" girl where we have chemistry together? No contest. (One theory: The ordinary girl tries harder. That explains a small part of it.) To me, this choice is easy. Although I would pay just to see a gorgeous body sometimes.

But my usual choices are a range of pretty to more pretty to (to me) very very pretty. And the real "decider" is something else. Personality, mystery, "it's in her kiss", how hungry she is, how hungry she makes me, grace, allure, laughter, fun .... I don't know anymore, but looks per se is not the key factor.

Womanliness...if you can define that...is very important. A certain "attitude" also has some impact.

Anyway. One thing: Looks vs personality is too simple.

Lastly: Wow, there are a bunch of wonderful women in Toronto (and some of them I know and love), and I am very grateful. Thank you for making our day!

And I think there is a someone for everyone, and I hope you find yours. Soon.
"And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make...."

Or "the law of conservation of energy".... energy can neither be created nor destroyed, but only transformed. So, keep transforming!

 

[jcpro]

We all have a personal preference when it comes to physical attraction. Using your own barometer, would you prefer physical attributions over attitude?

I myself prefer attitude and personality. It makes the experience much more enjoyable. To reference in a business sense, there is more bang for the buck...pun intended. I have met some Sp's who met my fantasy or preferred image but had the worst encounters. Dont get me wrong, some were amazing. I have also been with some Sp's who didn't meet my "Taste" and have blown me out of the water and had me coming back.

I would rather visit a woman who might not meet my poster image of sexy but make my mind switch and make me want to treat her as a queen than meet that poster girl and have a star fish to content with.

Thoughts?

Personality can turn a 7 into 10, no doubt about that. Or 10 into a 5 or even 0.

 

[Tashki]

I like women that look like pornstars/strippers; Boob job, lip fillers, nails done long Brazilian buttlift, heavy make up and etc. I could care less about an SP’s personality as long as she looks good. I especially love the ones who lets me pick the outfit i want them to wear. I’m a visual person above everything else.

 

[anon1]

I like women that look like pornstars/strippers; Boob job, lip fillers, nails done long Brazilian buttlift, heavy make up and etc. I could care less about an SP’s personality as long as she looks good. I especially love the ones who lets me pick the outfit i want them to wear. I’m a visual person above everything else.

+1
I love the artifical pleasure unit look.

 

[Smallcock]

I don't think anyone likes an SP with a bad attitude. A great attitude can make a 7 into a really amazing 7 that you want to see regularly. Doesn't change the physical so remains a 7. Don't think I've ever been with a 10 in life. How often do you guys have sex with these unicorns?

 

[rhuarc29]

I've had great sessions with ladies I wasn't all that attracted to, and shit sessions with ladies I really found attractive. That clearly shows me that although appearance plays a role, service and attitude play a much bigger one.

 

[Desire Evaline]

So true. It is so disheartening when you are giving a BJ and they just lay there not making a sound and not moving. Had one of those yesterday.

It kills me a little inside when this happens. I'm all... "should I end it now if they are having an awful time?" and then they shock me by telling me how much fun they had.

Mind. Blown. Never thought of boy star fish experiences. How could a bloke sit there with all those curves in your face and not go all kid in a candy store on it?

That my dear is one heck of a question. It takes all kinds of experiences I suppose... I cannot pull off being complacent and lackadaisical.

 

[calculous]

Looks and personality are not mutually exclusive. If I’m paying I make sure I get both.

I don’t know how some of you guys see some escorts but hey, different strokes for different folks.