Reading this thread has made me curious. Do clients like it when a SP offers to shower together AFTER? I shower before and after each client, but I wait until the client has left, because most guys seem to want to be left alone after they cum.
Hygiene double standard
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I definitely enjoy it and the truth is that showering together to get things started is a major bonus.
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I like a little sexy shower but I don't want to be washing you and I don't want someone who thinks they have to wash me. I don't know if that is making sense. I don't want to HAVe to share a shower to ensure the man is clean. If that is the type of person he is, I just don't want to see him then.
S42 should be, IMHO, a type of sensual service shared between clients and SPs on occasion to spice it up. If I had to do it over and over, I would lose interest.
Funny, I don't lose interest in giving a blow job though. I wonder why I have this opinion about showers. Something to pounder over my coffee I guess.
Let us know what you come back with Jessica. BTW are you pondering while you pound down your coffee?
I've been with plenty of SP's that insist I shower before the fun begins. I guess I'm OCD about hygiene and want to make sure my partner of the day is super clean as well. Bottom line is I'm paying the big bucks for the service and want to be totally comfortable in knowing that hygiene isn't an issue at all.
BTW I can easily tell who showered moments before I arrive and who doesn't simply by touch.
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If most SP's I've seen lacked proper hygiene I would have given up. Kudos to you for your persistence.
I absolutely love this, I have had two ladies that have showered with me after the session and in both case I extended the appointment because junior got hard in the shower again.
Hahahaha. Coffee was good but still pondering. LOL.Let us know what you come back with Jessica. BTW are you pondering while you pound down your coffee?
I've been with plenty of SP's that insist I shower before the fun begins. I guess I'm OCD about hygiene and want to make sure my partner of the day is super clean as well. Bottom line is I'm paying the big bucks for the service and want to be totally comfortable in knowing that hygiene isn't an issue at all.
BTW I can easily tell who showered moments before I arrive and who doesn't simply by touch.
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As for showering before a client. You will always be able to tell with me. My hair is usually still partially wet.
Damp hair is sexy. Seriously! AND you know the lady is freshly clean (bonus)!
Reading threads like these sure sucks a lot of the unrealistic fantasy aspects of it. Lol
My wife and I have only met one SP so far. She was very hygienic and really I never thought beforehand it would be anything less. My wife and I are extreeeemely anal (lol) about cleanliness and we spent a good deal of time prepping before she got there.
Both of us would have been really turned off it had been different.
A question I've had before is how realistic is it to want to be the only clients of a provider in the day you meet? Hearing about those that see numerous men in a day, is a bit of a turnoff. Am I being naive?
My wife and I have only met one SP so far. She was very hygienic and really I never thought beforehand it would be anything less. My wife and I are extreeeemely anal (lol) about cleanliness and we spent a good deal of time prepping before she got there.
Both of us would have been really turned off it had been different.
A question I've had before is how realistic is it to want to be the only clients of a provider in the day you meet? Hearing about those that see numerous men in a day, is a bit of a turnoff. Am I being naive?
I'm sure most ladies would be happy to accommodate you if you book her for four or five hours at least.
I know what you mean. Freaks me out when my accountant does tax returns for more then just me in a day! Lol.
Seriously naive question. And this is coming from someone who works part time so I don't see more then one client in a day. Maybe one to two a week.
This is their job. Do you expected that type of treatment from any other profession???
First of all.. I'm in my fifties, and no prude whatsoever.. I'm long past the 18 year old ewwwwwww stage.
I'm curious what other men think. I've read the stories about guys showing up and having to wait for another guy to clear out.. or guys getting into a warm bed. I realize that these women do it for a living, I don't feel I'm being naive.. it's certainly a consideration when deciding to take the plunge.
A big difference with other professions is I'm not putting my face in the girl checking me out at the grocer.. Lol
I don't think less of you ladies that do this for a living.. if I did I'd never consider it. I'm not trying to be condescending or mean or anything.. just curious, is all.
I'm curious what other men think. I've read the stories about guys showing up and having to wait for another guy to clear out.. or guys getting into a warm bed. I realize that these women do it for a living, I don't feel I'm being naive.. it's certainly a consideration when deciding to take the plunge.
A big difference with other professions is I'm not putting my face in the girl checking me out at the grocer.. Lol
I don't think less of you ladies that do this for a living.. if I did I'd never consider it. I'm not trying to be condescending or mean or anything.. just curious, is all.
If you want a girl who only fucks you on that given day, maybe find a wife. But even then you are not assured anything. She could be cheating for all you know.First of all.. I'm in my fifties, and no prude whatsoever.. I'm long past the 18 year old ewwwwwww stage.
I'm curious what other men think. I've read the stories about guys showing up and having to wait for another guy to clear out.. or guys getting into a warm bed. I realize that these women do it for a living, I don't feel I'm being naive.. it's certainly a consideration when deciding to take the plunge.
A big difference with other professions is I'm not putting my face in the girl checking me out at the grocer.. Lol
I don't think less of you ladies that do this for a living.. if I did I'd never consider it. I'm not trying to be condescending or mean or anything.. just curious, is all.
It is slightly condescending when you think about it. Let's see how we can have more talks of limitations on the local SW. We already discuss limited rates, limited screening, limited choice in clientele, let's add limited clientele per day as well.
Don't get me wrong. I get it. It is your fantasy, but this is their job. Would you like people always talking about what you should be doing at your job? How much you should work, should not work, how much you should make, etc. Can we not have one topic that is not changed into some new limit on the sex worker? Don't we have enough with the usual threads and posts we already have about rates, screening, etc.?
As for guys showing up and the bed is still warm, or the other guy is leaving, then fine. Leave as well. Hold the girl accountable for not putting enough time between the calls to ensure your discretion, privacy and cleanliness because that you can expect or should be able to expect from a professional but other then your 30, 60 mins, let her fuck 15 a day if she can do you and can make sure you successfully don't know any different. That is the key to the fantasy. How she handles these things for you.
Reading threads like this may ruin that fantasy for you, so stop reading them if that is the case.
I'm sure every guy here would love to be the only client of the day. But no it is not at all Realistic in general terms. And number 2, yeah, it's pretty naïve to even question it. IMHO
I don't mind being number 3 of the day provided the lady showered, brushed and used mouth washed after number 2.
I have a wife, and like the last time, bring her with me. I have no interest in playing outside of our marriage.
I'm not trying to limit what you do, I'm curious as to what the common expectation is. I'm sure we all have our ideas on what is acceptable to us, just like you have that for you. I'm looking to see where we fit into that and have it help decide how we proceed. I've chatted with a few Sps regarding this issue and they assured me we would be their only clients of the day. That is most optimum for me. I want the very best experience possible for my wife and I, and being the only during a given day brings me that...IMO.
I'm not looking to judge, argue or to make anyone feel bad for what they want. I'm merely curious.. I'm more curious as to what the guys think and how they handle this particular subject.
I'm not trying to limit what you do, I'm curious as to what the common expectation is. I'm sure we all have our ideas on what is acceptable to us, just like you have that for you. I'm looking to see where we fit into that and have it help decide how we proceed. I've chatted with a few Sps regarding this issue and they assured me we would be their only clients of the day. That is most optimum for me. I want the very best experience possible for my wife and I, and being the only during a given day brings me that...IMO.
I'm not looking to judge, argue or to make anyone feel bad for what they want. I'm merely curious.. I'm more curious as to what the guys think and how they handle this particular subject.
I really enjoyed my time with you and Mrs. cowslinger!
Like you two I'm impeccable when it comes to hygiene. You also booked me for a multiple hour outcall so I'm not going to see anyone else that day, but that's me. The problem with SM is that things get misinterpreted or taken too much to heart. I can vouch for the fact that you both were nothing short of respectful towards me and very communicative leading up to our rendezvous and during it. If you need a reference please don't hesitate to ask.
Cheers,
Sophia
I am going to throw in my two cents:
As a SERVICE PROVIDER in the nature of the services that you provide, IT IS PART OF YOUR JOB to make sure that you are regularly tested for STD's, STI's, BV, and yeast infections. It is ALSO part of your job to shave, do your hair and makeup, properly bathe, and brush your teeth and tongue and mouthwash PRIOR to EVERY appt. DUH!
it is not uncommon to get Bacterial Vaginosis (one cause of the fishy smell, Trichamonis is the other) or UTI's or yeast infections due to a multitude of reasons.
IT IS YOUR JOB TO MAKE SURE YOUR HYGIENE AND SEXUAL HEALTH IS IN ORDER AS AN SP!
Now, Gentleman:
I will gently remind you, that it is summer, and "just rinsing" waist down does NOT make your B.O. disappear.
In the last week and a half, more than half of my clients didn't realize this. I even leave a note in the bathroom that suggests using the mouthwash will make me a better kisser, and using the Axe deodorant spray under arms and down below will get you a much better service during the session. I even TELL each client to use the mouthwash and spray, and nearly no one listens.
Please. for the love of BBBJ, MSOG and DFK, PLEASE wash under your armpits thoroughly and use the toiletries provided. I'm tired of stripping all my bedding to remove the onion scent.
Thanks!
As a SERVICE PROVIDER in the nature of the services that you provide, IT IS PART OF YOUR JOB to make sure that you are regularly tested for STD's, STI's, BV, and yeast infections. It is ALSO part of your job to shave, do your hair and makeup, properly bathe, and brush your teeth and tongue and mouthwash PRIOR to EVERY appt. DUH!
it is not uncommon to get Bacterial Vaginosis (one cause of the fishy smell, Trichamonis is the other) or UTI's or yeast infections due to a multitude of reasons.
IT IS YOUR JOB TO MAKE SURE YOUR HYGIENE AND SEXUAL HEALTH IS IN ORDER AS AN SP!
Now, Gentleman:
I will gently remind you, that it is summer, and "just rinsing" waist down does NOT make your B.O. disappear.
In the last week and a half, more than half of my clients didn't realize this. I even leave a note in the bathroom that suggests using the mouthwash will make me a better kisser, and using the Axe deodorant spray under arms and down below will get you a much better service during the session. I even TELL each client to use the mouthwash and spray, and nearly no one listens.
Please. for the love of BBBJ, MSOG and DFK, PLEASE wash under your armpits thoroughly and use the toiletries provided. I'm tired of stripping all my bedding to remove the onion scent.
Thanks!
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