Tipping and services at top massage places

[fall]

I know that this topic has been discussed in the past, but I want to get some general idea of what is expected and customary. For the topic of this discussion, let us stick to the top massage salons and clubs with a standard $180/h all inclusive rate and a house rule of no BJ and FS. Also, just to make sure the topic will not be deleted, let's not name any names.

First, a question about tipping on top of standard $180 rate. Do you do it, how much, and why? Also, a basic description of how repulsive you are would be nice. To start the discussion, on the "attractiveness" scale where "10" is a fit nice-looking 30 year old guy and "1" is a fat bold 70 years old fart with lots of body hair and skin pigmentation, I rate myself as a 2 or a 3. So, I feel I just need to tip the girls who are nice to me . I do not care much for a massage (although always a nice bonus) but a sucker for GFE (kissing, cuddling, DATY). So, I basically tip at least $20 when the girl kisses, $40 is my usual tip, and, sometime, go up to $60. Do you guys think it is a right behaviour? Too much or too little? I do want to show my appreciation to the girls who treat me well despite my physical appearance, but, on the other hand, I do not want tipping to become a status quo and definitely do not want to play any part in the possible price increase . I know some of you have a strong beliefs that return visits is the best "tip", but, IMHO, it may depend on how attractive the guy is.

And a separate topic of breaking the house rules. I am very shy guy and I am very uncomfortable asking for extras, but about a month ago I did ask for a BJ at on of these "strict house rules" places, have offered extra $100 for it, and my offer got accepted . Again, a question for guys who did the same: what should be a normal offer for a BJ or FS? And what should be such an offer from a guy who is between 2 and 3 out of 10 on the "attractiveness" scale? I understand that many girls may reject it anyway, but fro those who accept. And what is the usual acceptance rate for you (again, this may depend on your attractiveness)?

 

[Sqfoster]

You think they do this to play around with attractive guys? I don't think attractiveness plays a role...

 

[Wilson Lawrence]

The older you are the fatter your wallet.

That's what they are about, and if you are decent. That's all.

Kinda conflating standard tipping with extras here, but I catch your drift. It's a delicate conversation that can possibly ruin your session. Look for the word "friendly" associated with her reviews if you're hoping to hedge your bets, or DM a past reviewer here who you feel is into that type of additional services.

I'm an 11/10 (that's what my mom tells me) lol. Ranking yourself here to correspond to tipping seems really, weak (no offense). Who cares? I'm not putting you down here fall, I see where you are coming from, but own it and a repeat visit should be easier. We're all a bit old with stinky old parts, I don't think it really matters as much to them as you feel it does. Why not ask her next time which type of guest turns them off? It's usually deal hagglers and repetitive limit crossers.

You're the one paying, not the other way around, they've seen much worse I'm sure. Most love kind gents, or they say that at least

Tipping is not standard practice. Most bring the exact amount. Some tip, some bring wine, some bring treats, but most do nothing. It's not expected and if it was it would be baked into the prices.

 

[Alison_xox]

I don’t thing the look has anything to do with the tip or the quality of the services or session ..
To me it has absolutely nothing to do with what a client look like.. My favorite clients are not the hottest , they’re are the ones that I share the best time with .. If a gentleman makes me feel like a princess, I will definitely adore him .. You don’t need to do much to make a girl feel like a princess .. Good behaviour, ask before assuming, stay polite , don’t try to bargain or push the limits , great hygiene and respectful..
Super easy ..
If you are giving me the choice between a young guy that look incredible and tip , but have a bad attitude and no respect.
Or
An older gentleman, hairy (I like hairy btw) , big and bold that doesn’t tip , but make me feel good the entire session ..
I’ll take the older one without hesitation..

Welcome old folks , I’ll make you feel young
Welcome gig boy , my table is big enough for the both of us
Welcome hairy , fluffy bear , I’ll be pleased to play in your shag
Haha !

Kisses
Ali

 

[fall]

Welcome old folks , I’ll make you feel young
Welcome gig boy , my table is big enough for the both of us
Welcome hairy , fluffy bear , I’ll be pleased to play in your shag
Haha !

Kisses
Ali

And this is the warmest post I've ever seen on TERB. Thank you!

 

[kingpin1]

I think what you tipped is bang on and if you want to push your boundries further...double your tip

 

[Wilson Lawrence]

And this is the warmest post I've ever seen on TERB. Thank you!

Do it.

Alison_xox is one of the best of Terb.

Fall: Do it.

 

[CuddleBuddy2]

Don't be too hard on yourself fall. Being a gentleman and having good hygiene should be good enough.

I generally don't tip for regular service but sometimes do on repeat session and if she's having a slow day. Might tip $50 for bbbj and $100 for FS but I never requested it at well established Spas.

 

[kingpin1]

I generally don't tip for regular service but sometimes do on repeat session and if she's having a slow day. Might tip $50 for bbbj and $100 for FS but I never requested it at well established Spas.

Try doubling your tip, most won't bother for that

 

[CuddleBuddy2]

Try doubling your tip, most won't bother for that

No way I'm paying $280 for a bj or $480 for FS.

 

[Master Cuddles]

Yeah I have a very hard time justifying any tip for an MA happy ending. When you can get FS for $20 to $40 more than an MA 1hr session, tipping an extra $100 just for a BJ simply makes no sense. My opinion, and that's all that it is, is MA's will charge very high to dissuade all but the most desperate men for a BBBJ.

If you want a sensual encounter, go see an MA.
If you want a good romp, go see an SP.

That's my 2 dollars (inflation).

 

[kingpin1]

No way I'm paying $280 for a bj or $480 for FS.

$480??? Why would you pay $280 for a door fee? You must be booking for an awfully long time.

 

[CuddleBuddy2]

$480??? Why would you pay $280 for a door fee? You must be booking for an awfully long time.

No amount of time is ever awful. The longer the better .
Yeah I got my math wrong. I meant $380 for an hr. Still high for me. $300hr is my max limit unless it's someone I really fancy

 

[kingpin1]

You're not even trying! You think money takes care of everything, and it probably does for you, but those same girls would've done it for free with you, if you tried being a bit nicer to them.

Excuse me??? Where do you get off saying that I am not nice to the girls? You don't know me!

 

[Wilson Lawrence]

But they don't ask me for a tip either, because I pay them back in other ways, which I'll explain later

So your logic on tipping MA's overall here is they'd rather get all generously felt up by your veteran client skillz as part of your "BFE" client services; rather than a cash tip? You're too generous Whitey! Wow.

...and it's because they don't ask you for a tip? You definitely aren't obligated and don't have to tip if you don't want to, but that's just hilarious reasoning. Amazing.

 

[fall]

If you want a sensual encounter, go see an MA.
If you want a good romp, go see an SP.

The problem is: I want a sensual sex and lots of 2-way foreplay with cute young girl, not a good romp. No fast movements . Unfortunately, most SPs are not as cute, do not look as young, do not behave so sensual GFE, and do not feel so real as the girls at top Ottawa massage places. And finding SP is not as convenient as just a walk-in or 1-hour notice. This is why I am OK paying premium and I am not looking for a hard bang - just for a natural GFE continuation . And of cause I will not start with the question up front - I'll do it sometime in the second part of the hour if it seems the session is on the right track . Offering $200 on top of $180 fee seems a bit excessive. It is withing my budget, but on the edge of it. Anyone had an experience with this process? No names, no specifics, just let everybody know how much you've offered in the past. It may help everybody who want to do it as well as help to establish some standards. And just to be clear: this fee is not what the girl asks: girls almost never ask for a tip (it happened only once when the girl asked extra for DATY - which I immoderately declined) and never offered BJ/FS by themselves. I usually hate to see a negotiation process: I just want to offer a reasonable amount so the girl will be willing to accept it if she is willing to offer BJ/FS. Negotiation is a mood killer.

 

[fall]

Girls do standard massage with release for $180 and YMMV but $240 for the works and somewhere in-between for in between! LOL It's not rocket science, fellahs. Never been more than $240 and often everything just shy of the full works, for $180-$200. The difference is peanuts. lane:

Yes, outside of the top two massage clubs, $200 on top of $60-$70 door fee gives you everything guaranteed (provided that girls offer such services and most of them do). What I am talking about are the girls at top two massage clubs with $180/hour all inclusive (minus BJ/FS) fees and, I believe, enforced house rules of no BJ/FS. I've being to other places (like AT/PS or ALO) - the girls are not the same. They do not have this "non-professional" feeling as in the top two clubs.

 

[Wilson Lawrence]

It's entirely up to you if you choose to use the advice or not. Many of the girls enjoy the guys' company, as much as the guys enjoy theirs.


Trust me, if a girl wants an extra tip, she'll ask for it. They aren't shy at all. Girls charge some guys extra for various services, while the same girls charge no extra for the same services with another guy. Go find out why that is.

You're funny... an oblivious and cocksure silver fox perhaps, but still kinda funny. You do you whitey.

Your presence is all the tip they could ever dream of, makes sense.

It's not that you don't tip, you graciously tip them throughout, lucky ladies. Blessed.

 

[asuran]

It's entirely up to you if you choose to use the advice or not. Many of the girls enjoy the guys' company, as much as the guys enjoy theirs.


Trust me, if a girl wants an extra tip, she'll ask for it. They aren't shy at all. Girls charge some guys extra for various services, while the same girls charge no extra for the same services with another guy. Go find out why that is.

This is very true.

Rapport, connection, chemistry.
How you behave, act or react.
You can read them, they can also read you at the same time.

Also one very important rule: they will let each other know whether you are a good dude or a douche bag.
---> Don't be a bobbiz and you'll be good. <---

edit: I meant ---> don't be a douchebag and you'll be good <--- Was still on a Raptors high for winning the Eastern finals!! It was a late 4am post after a couple of beers/alcohol but it was a great night tho!! #WeTheEasternNBAchamps
Pardon me.

 

[Wilson Lawrence]

Also one very important rule: they will let each other know whether you are a good dude or a douche bag.

You mean like, I dunno, maybe gloating about getting unpaid extras all the time and rarely offering a cash tip, on a public review board JUST because he's got that magic touch and "pays them back in other ways" ?

:yo:

Agreed.