Good day…didn’t have a chance to chime in as I was booked back to back with overnights on my Toronto tour…which has been absolutely amazing !
Firstly I want to start off with who complains about a sloppy bj? I mean a dry sandpaper one isn’t the greatest, am I right boys? I love giving oral and hope that it’s the best blowjob a man ever receives, the more wetness the better…
I am high maintenance, as I put 110% into each and every experience I provide to the client. Not just appearance, but making sure the client is taking care of, he/she is happy during our time together. I also go out of my way to do things just as outfit requests, including wigs. They are very tedious to put on and keep on during play. And this is extra time that I am not charging for. Sometimes a wig can take 30 minutes to get on and stay on properly after adjusting my own hair under a cap and pinning it all down.
As part of any intimacy I request that my date showers upon arrival. Hygiene is extremely important to me. I do the same and thoroughly wash myself to feel clean and sexy. I expect my date to do the same. It’s very frustrating and a bit of a turn off when I have to repeat myself. So I offer to shower together or a fun soapy sponge bath.
I put a lot into the session everything from makeup, my hair, my outfits, waxing, shaving, making sure the space is tidy, music, candles etc. And I find my self critiqued for eating zucchini? You know I love a nice juicy big zucchini in my mouth and on my pizza
Shoutout to seasons pizza!
The time and date this client wanted my usual west end space wasn’t available. I’m lucky that I do have access to a few different incalls around the city as I .don’t work from home. This location owned by another SP I put a ton of work into to jazz it up – my artwork, décor, pillows, candles, lighting. The SP also put lots of work into it as well. One of my last reviews took place in the same space and the client was thoroughly happy with the company. This incall didn’t have a living room. Sitting on couches doesn’t last very long…a nice queen sized bed is much better for play & talks and cuddles.
Oic is a wonderful collective to bring indy workers together sharing incall resources, keeping each other safe and comfortable. I am very grateful to be part of this group. Some really amazing, strong, beautiful individuals. Setting our boundaries is not being “full of ourselves” We also benefit clients as many of us are reputable, websites & social media platforms.
The kind of clients I enjoy being with are those regardless of body type, appearance, race, age are those who respect my time, my request for hygiene and my personal boundaries. These are the men and ladies that make being a provider a wonderful experience for me.
I had actually blacklisted this client and no longer see him due to many boundary crossings both physically and emotionally and harassment to my fellow indy collogues. I had repeatedly told him my comfort levels regarding PDA during socials & physical comforts. He contacted me a month ago and I told him it I would no longer see him. As an empath I enjoy providing a service of affection and care, especially to those suffering from mental health issues. Sometimes the client will cross these lines. I have to protect myself so I can continue providing excellent services to clients and sometimes that results in me ending services to a client.
Also regarding “generosity” you mean paying for our time and services? Generosity would be something like a tip, or a gift etc. The client did here and there bring me some gifts that I still cherish. One of them being a video game console as we both very much enjoyed video games as a hobby.
But it’s very degrading being told we have to bend over backwards or we will be homeless. Also for clients who on ODSP income only I provide a very generous discount. And I had everytime with this client. I would not be homeless – I have 2 other jobs. Many of us do. The desire for serviced time, affection and touch will never stop. I am not worried. Telling us otherwise is extremely manipulative.
As a final note for the client, it’s unfortunate that things had to end. I put much care into our client provider relationship over the last year – it was pretty upsetting to see hateful comments made about me to other SPs. And on top a review that was more intentionally degrading to put me & other providers down. I was happy to console you and be there for you & make you happy during our times together. I wish you all the best
-Katrinna