Pretty soon I am going to have apologize for being attracted to one particular gender...
Repost: I’ve never been with a black girl
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You already have to defend your position to the point of apologizing if you do not want to have sex with a person born one gender and decides to opt out and change sides.
As adults it is respectful to engage in conversations that are mutual stimulating. Enthusiastic consent should not only be practiced between the sheets but in every aspect of our lives. Knowing that a certain topic might negatively affect your encounter with an sp is all the reason a good suitor should need to avoid it. Personally I like to keep the mood light, friendly and stimulating, I lesson more than I speak and let my body and skills do all the talking.
However if my suitor wishes to engage in fetishes, such as race play, humiliation or others then it is indeed respectful that we both have an opportunity to consent.
Kayla, I don't think your comments where clumsy, but I would recommend being mindful of negatively critiquing other Sp's; especially when engaging in topics that are sensitive and require lots of nuance.
Hope this helps, but if you'd like to discuss it more slide into my DMs
- Alexia
However if my suitor wishes to engage in fetishes, such as race play, humiliation or others then it is indeed respectful that we both have an opportunity to consent.
Kayla, I don't think your comments where clumsy, but I would recommend being mindful of negatively critiquing other Sp's; especially when engaging in topics that are sensitive and require lots of nuance.
Hope this helps, but if you'd like to discuss it more slide into my DMs
- Alexia
As adults it is respectful to engage in conversations that are mutual stimulating. Enthusiastic consent should not only be practiced between the sheets but in every aspect of our lives. Knowing that a certain topic might negatively affect your encounter with an sp is all the reason a good suitor should need to avoid it. Personally I like to keep the mood light, friendly and stimulating, I lesson more than I speak and let my body and skills do all the talking.
However if my suitor wishes to engage in fetishes, such as race play, humiliation or others then it is indeed respectful that we both have an opportunity to consent.
Kayla, I don't think your comments where clumsy, but I would recommend being mindful of negatively critiquing other Sp's; especially when engaging in topics that are sensitive and require lots of nuance.
Hope this helps, but if you'd like to discuss it more slide into my DMs
- Alexia
To be honest, I'm not sure why I'm still giving feedback or participating in this thread as the OP seems to have abandoned the thread after she started it, but anyway....
I wouldn't even consider this "race play" if that's what your insinuating. This is just race preference. I can totally understand if an SP is not comfortable participating in race play as it can be a bit touchy for some people, but being offended because someone wants to book you because they have a preference for you skin colour is absurd to me. Same goes for if they have need been intimate and want to explore it. Not sure what difference it makes is they tell you why this is the reason for booking or keep it to themselves. Either way, they're seeing you for the same reason.
I mean, are there black SP's on here that find my handle offensive ??? Cause it's kind of the same thing. I would think black SP's with a big ass would be flattered knowing that there are men out there that love that body type.
Like others have stated, I think political correctness has gone a bit to far in this day and age where you can barley put together a sentence without pissing someone off or offending them....lol.
Oh well, I love big black booty and proud of it!!!!! lol
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I've said this dozens of times but BBL is the only bloke whose handle gives me a boner lol...
For those thst don't click the link says your dating preferences are discriminitory. Me ...i guess i hate myself, as the more a lady looks like me the less attracted i am. I suppose the societal signal that black ladies are the pinnacle of beauty and white ladies sort of a second-string and lesser affects us whether we like it or not.
I'm not sure if you Canadians are as irony- deficient as the Yanks but the above passage was ironic.
We always discriminate. The question is about its rationality for society. If we believe everyone is created equal, then discrimination by race or gender is wrong. But discrimination by ability is acceptable (which is why they won't let me pitch for the Jays....the bastards). When one uses race or gender as a shorthand for ability then that too is wrong. That's where a shit ton of social problems originate.
This kind of statement reveals a lot of truth in the person saying it and in the receiver how they take it and what they do with the information. Sometimes it can be just innocent statement however other times may signal deep rooted issues.
Its what you get with labels, tribing and segregation. Joe Rogan covered this well in his episode about the coding of the American mind” https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=FG6HbWw2RF4#
Its hard not to label, segregate and tribe because its been coded into us since we were born and is in our genes due to the need to survive before.
However, with almost limitless access to knowledge tribing, segregating and labeling limits us and takes away our potential. It does the opposite of empowering people.
People don’t have a choice where they are born and into what toxic religion and environment. A body is just the vessel for the spirit. People have a choice how they act, think and what action they take. I personally feel it is better now to truly Be free, be empowered and reach for your potential and NOT allow anyone to limit you based on their personal limitations.
To answer this directly I have never had sex with a white woman even though I am white. I dated a black girl for 2 years and married an Indian woman. I normally search for Asian, latin, brown, Indian, black, exotic and mixed in no particular order when looking for MPA and stay away from white ladies unless I know I like their personality. I still try it with a white MPA from time to time and sometimes I get lucky and we click and the session goes well. I think the reason is where I grew up and how I was treated I clicked better with non white girls. Also I found EU women very arrogant and controlling based on my experiences with my direct and distant family that I wanted no part of it in the girls I see.
On Twitter I am seeing this a lot from the adult industry ladies and is being echoed. They say statements with double standards like #blackpornmatters and the same ladies echo the concerns highlighted in OPs post about ebony labels and other points previously addressed. Hello you are doing the same then. But whatever they have a choice, I just stay away from hypocrites and people who get offended with these issues but also due their part to contribute to the deep rooted issues.
At the end of the day attitude matters most for me, but in this business they need to also be attractive and arouse the clients whatever that may be personally. For me personally attitude and appearance go hand in hand, and I try to stay away from toxic girls no matter how hot they appear on the surface. Some people search for the complete opposite of what they are attracted to in real life. They also use these labels to narrow down the search and help with the desired fantasy and/fetishizes. At the end of the day we all have a choice how we want to judge people and who we want to associate with. I choose to judge based on observations, actions and statements but I need these double edge labels in this industry to help narrow down my search and improve my chances of a good session.
Its what you get with labels, tribing and segregation. Joe Rogan covered this well in his episode about the coding of the American mind” https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=FG6HbWw2RF4#
Its hard not to label, segregate and tribe because its been coded into us since we were born and is in our genes due to the need to survive before.
However, with almost limitless access to knowledge tribing, segregating and labeling limits us and takes away our potential. It does the opposite of empowering people.
People don’t have a choice where they are born and into what toxic religion and environment. A body is just the vessel for the spirit. People have a choice how they act, think and what action they take. I personally feel it is better now to truly Be free, be empowered and reach for your potential and NOT allow anyone to limit you based on their personal limitations.
To answer this directly I have never had sex with a white woman even though I am white. I dated a black girl for 2 years and married an Indian woman. I normally search for Asian, latin, brown, Indian, black, exotic and mixed in no particular order when looking for MPA and stay away from white ladies unless I know I like their personality. I still try it with a white MPA from time to time and sometimes I get lucky and we click and the session goes well. I think the reason is where I grew up and how I was treated I clicked better with non white girls. Also I found EU women very arrogant and controlling based on my experiences with my direct and distant family that I wanted no part of it in the girls I see.
On Twitter I am seeing this a lot from the adult industry ladies and is being echoed. They say statements with double standards like #blackpornmatters and the same ladies echo the concerns highlighted in OPs post about ebony labels and other points previously addressed. Hello you are doing the same then. But whatever they have a choice, I just stay away from hypocrites and people who get offended with these issues but also due their part to contribute to the deep rooted issues.
At the end of the day attitude matters most for me, but in this business they need to also be attractive and arouse the clients whatever that may be personally. For me personally attitude and appearance go hand in hand, and I try to stay away from toxic girls no matter how hot they appear on the surface. Some people search for the complete opposite of what they are attracted to in real life. They also use these labels to narrow down the search and help with the desired fantasy and/fetishizes. At the end of the day we all have a choice how we want to judge people and who we want to associate with. I choose to judge based on observations, actions and statements but I need these double edge labels in this industry to help narrow down my search and improve my chances of a good session.
