How to filter out high girls?

[justplainbob]

A question for you all.

I have no interest in meeting with an SP who's high. I don't care a whole lot if she parties occasionally, but I want clean and sober when I get there.

How to put that into the initial contact without either writing a book or playing 20 questions?

 

[|2 /-\ | /|/]

Just say that you are looking for a GFE or PSE etc. and that your preference is a sober session do you offer that type of session. If they ignore that or can’t comprehend just move on to the next. I know some of them expect the same from us. Just be direct and straight up. Even not answering that or acknowledging it says a lot. The good ones will understand what you are after.

As for how to tell, well the best way is to be high yourself and smoke some weed so you can sense it out when you are sober if she is high or not when you first meet. People who get high or have gotten high have a sense and they can just tell when other people are high especially when they are sober.

I am the same way, even though I smoke weed sometimes, I hate it when the girl is high during the session plus I don’t like to do it during a session. With an actual GF I trust its actually an awesome experience.

 

[justplainbob]

Just say that you are looking for a GFE or PSE etc. and that your preference is a sober session do you offer that type of session. If they ignore that or can’t comprehend just move on to the next. I know some of them expect the same from us. Just be direct and straight up. Even not answering that or acknowledging it says a lot. The good ones will understand what you are after.

As for how to tell, well the best way is to be high yourself and smoke some weed so you can sense it out when you are sober if she is high or not when you first meet. People who get high or have gotten high have a sense and they can just tell when other people are high especially when they are sober.

I am the same way, even though I smoke weed sometimes, I hate it when the girl is high during the session plus I don’t like to do it during a session. With an actual GF I trust its actually an awesome experience.

Thanks for the advice. It's the nose candy that I want to avoid though. And that I'm not willing to try. :flypig:

 

[malata]

dilated pupils. watch for nose bleeds or runny nose if snorting. Track marks if injecting, burned lips or fingers if smoking.

their mental state can also tell you a lot

 

[|2 /-\ | /|/]

Thanks for the advice. It's the nose candy that I want to avoid though. And that I'm not willing to try. :flypig:

Yeah same I have no experience with harder drugs.

Drug labs has great videos of good looking girls getting high on these type of drugs...maybe it might help assess and sense out their behaviour.

 

[justplainbob]

I appreciate your input. I don't think I was really clear. I've trying to learn if there is a polite way of saying (when booking) "if your high when I get there I'm turning around, so tell me now instead of wasting my time." Like how "party" is code, we need one of our own.

Of course, if the party's already started, they'll lie anyway...

Anyway, just thinking out loud I guess.

 

[autumn96]

It's tough. I recently had a session with an SP, who shall remain nameless, who seemed VERY high and distant. It was one of the weirdest sessions I've ever had.

I'd done all my research and she was a well reviewed lady. I had no reason to expect she would be like that.

However I knew something was off within two minutes of walking in and should have walked out with my money at that point.

So more than anything, I'd say to stick to your guns and leave if something seems off, either in the way she's texting you or the way she's behaving once actually in the room.

I was telling a trusted friend about the incident above and they mentioned, "you know, if she says she was intoxicated and claims you did something without her consent, you could get in a lot of trouble."

That's probably the thing to be most worried about, beyond just having a bad session. Play smart!

 

[justplainbob]

I was telling a trusted friend about the incident above and they mentioned, "you know, if she says she was intoxicated and claims you did something without her consent, you could get in a lot of trouble."

Yikes! Never even thought about that - but it's actually a way to make it about ensuring her consent rather than being about your own preferences.

 

[Born2Star]

I’m always concerned about this. I travel a lot and imagine I have some fun right before my flight around the airport area and got some trace of powder on me or my stuff and then going thru custom and got checked...

 

[TFZL1]

I’ve also had problems finding girls who are are clean and sober. The ones I see regularly know I expect them to be relatively sober.
I’ve even had girls tell me they don’t use drugs, only to find out the previous client bright wine and smoked joints wih her and she was wasted. There were a few times I should have left, but instead, I just never went back.

I also wish I knew how to ask for clean and sober when prebooking. So I guess I’ll say so next time and see what happens.

 

[justplainbob]

Well, I just had a chat with a girl who has party in her ad. I said "I don't party, can you do it straight?".

She said she fucks straight and parties after.

Then she ruined it by offering that which shall not be named.

 

[RZG]

Well, I just had a chat with a girl who has party in her ad. I said "I don't party, can you do it straight?".

She said she fucks straight and parties after.

Then she ruined it by offering that which shall not be named.

Yikes! Glad I`ve found my regular go to..no drink/drugs. So far sane and smart girl. Actually justplainbob PM`d me and I liked what I saw, Thanks.

 

[The "Bone" Ranger]

I don't think asking the girl is going to be very helpful at screening, probably seeing well reviewed girls is the best way to be sure.

 

[Igorm]

Heh...I thought this topic is about - how to filter these too expensive frills women

 

[Davious]

It's tough. I recently had a session with an SP, who shall remain nameless, who seemed VERY high and distant. It was one of the weirdest sessions I've ever had.

I'd done all my research and she was a well reviewed lady. I had no reason to expect she would be like that.

However I knew something was off within two minutes of walking in and should have walked out with my money at that point.

So more than anything, I'd say to stick to your guns and leave if something seems off, either in the way she's texting you or the way she's behaving once actually in the room.

I was telling a trusted friend about the incident above and they mentioned, "you know, if she says she was intoxicated and claims you did something without her consent, you could get in a lot of trouble."

That's probably the thing to be most worried about, beyond just having a bad session. Play smart!

I highly recommend you post the review so others may know. We tell you the good and the bad so you can make an informed decision. I hope you can show us the same.

 

[autumn96]

I highly recommend you post the review so others may know. We tell you the good and the bad so you can make an informed decision. I hope you can show us the same.

I've posted plenty of reviews and hobbying tips here and would have no objection to doing the same in this instance were it not for some mental health issues the SP expressed to me that I am all too familiar with.

We all have our bad days and based on my conversation with her and her agency afterwards, I decided to wish her the best and give her some sympathy for what appeared to be a traumatic day.

I apologize for bringing it up in this thread as I realize that was a tease.