But back to the original question. When the Russians bombed Grozny, did they "avoid civilian casualties"? No.
When the Serbs ethnically cleansed Bosnian Muslims, did they "avoid civilian casualties"? No.
When Assad barrel bombed his own people with Russian support, did he "avoid civilian casualties"? No.
When the US cleaned out Fallujah, did they "avoid civilian casualties"? They may have tried, but they killed WAY more people than AQ killed in 9/11, just because that's the nature of modern war in an urban area. And if I'm Iraqi, I'm pretty hard to sell on the proposition that a few of those US Marines weren't shooting to kill just because they enjoyed shooting unarmed brown women and kids. There's even a war crimes case that the USMC tried to bury that's like My Lai II set in Fallujah. That sort of thing tends to piss Muslims off, just like having our kids killed pisses us off.
Same in Afghanistan. The USAF even bombed the Canadian army and took out a company of the PPCLI. Oooops!
Now, I'm prepared to accept the West are the good guys. That's because I'm Canadian, not Arab. If I was Iraqi or Afghani, I'd feel a lot differently. Your big moment in this thread was telling us about "all the Muslim wars". Point I'm trying to make is that Muslims see it completely differently. They see it as Christian wars against Muslims to wipe out Islam. That's their big trigger for recruiting Islamic extremist terrorists. So what do you say back to them? "Fuck you, we've got bigger bombs and can kill your children, but you can't kill ours"?
So try to answer my question again and think about it a little longer