I'm sticking to established ladies for the most part, too. TOFTT is not my thing. It seems like maybe the two of them, together, were a toxic mix? Still wouldn't want to risk encounters with fly-by-night girls.
At times like this I really miss Pink Kitty and all the reviews of the Kitties we could provide on TERB for each other and sorta be more comfortable with what we'd get as a result.
But then those threads would get hijacked by people, like currently, who just cannot let things go, and feel the need to justify, re-justify, "clarify", and re-justify their positions. Many feel they have to "win" here. And, fuck, now you all have the Frozen lyrics in my damn head!!!!