Do ladies look forward to reviews?

[sempel]

SP's, you just had an encounter with a gentleman. On the surface it all went well. Or maybe it didn't. Or maybe you don't know. Or maybe the reviewer is William Shakespeare reborn with a wicked tongue (I don't just mean in the bedroom).

Do you look forward to reviews from clients? Do you even care?

I know some reviewers are cold and just list services. Others are harsh or exaggerate. But there's a few reviewers who are good. Their reviews are good for marketing as they are detailed, descriptive, funny, or whatever floats your boat. Do you feel excited and wait in anticipation to see what they write?

In a different scenario, you had an awkward experience or you can't get a read on a client. He says he's happy but it may be a line. Do you watch out for that review to get the "truth".

In the last scenario, the appointment went bad but in general it wasn't your fault. The guy didn't like your look, was in a bad mood, was a douche, etc. Do you look out for that review to see how harsh he was? Do you look to see if he's going to lie through his teeth and blame you?

Do some ladies keep track? I know some put links on their sites or ads so imagine some look for reviews they want to use.

 

[Alison_xox]

Reviews are good for new providers that are building their reputation.. A lot of people do look at reviews before booking ( Most of them are not even Terb Members , They only come here to read about the girl they want to book with)... It is also good to get reviews to post on your advertisement so you have proof that you are a real provider (Not a scam)..
Once you are a well established provider , reviews are more like a dozen of roses to let her know that you appreciated your date and to say thanks..

Keep posting reviews guys ...

Kisses
Ali

 

[kherg007]

Reviews are good for new providers that are building their reputation.. A lot of people do look at reviews before booking ( Most of them are not even Terb Members , They only come here to read about the girl they want to book with)... It is also good to get reviews to post on your advertisement so you have proof that you are a real provider (Not a scam)..
Once you are a well established provider , reviews are more like a dozen of roses to let her know that you appreciated your date and to say thanks..

Keep posting reviews guys ...

Kisses
Ali

Review: Alison_xox comments:

I read Alisons comments on posting reviews. I opened the thread, and was relieved that her comments were in line with her previously demonstrated sharp intellect. There was no upcharge for flawless logic and empathy for other providers in the industry. All in all her comments were great to read and impeccably clean. She started with addressing a new pro from a variety of angles, including acknowledgements of reviews as proof of professionalism. From there moved to the noncontributors who feast off the work of others. She concluded with the appreciation exhibited by a review, and then we readers all slumped back, smiles on our faces. All in a great read, and great value as it was $0 for 1 minute. Special for terb members. Definitely repeat read anything she writes. Treat her well lads!

 

[sempel]

Reviews are good for new providers that are building their reputation.. A lot of people do look at reviews before booking ( Most of them are not even Terb Members , They only come here to read about the girl they want to book with)... It is also good to get reviews to post on your advertisement so you have proof that you are a real provider (Not a scam)..
Once you are a well established provider , reviews are more like a dozen of roses to let her know that you appreciated your date and to say thanks..

Keep posting reviews guys ...

Kisses
Ali

Fair enough. But how about when you had a bad/weird experience? I saw a girl a couple of weeks ago where I reassured her I had a great time but I wasn't sure she believed me. My review confirms she was fantastic in case she ever comes on here. I find some reviews, good or bad, are a truthful glimpse into what a client thinks. No doubt there's some guys on here who come across as terrible when you see their reviews and their opinions about the lady.

And yes, you are correct about it being a thank you. I sometimes write these over-the-top reviews because it's just that. It's different and there's usually plenty of reviews out there so I'm not adding much if I just put in a few lines.

Review: Alison_xox comments:

I read Alisons comments on posting reviews. I opened the thread, and was relieved that her comments were in line with her previously demonstrated sharp intellect. There was no upcharge for flawless logic and empathy for other providers in the industry. All in all her comments were great to read and impeccably clean. She started with addressing a new pro from a variety of angles, including acknowledgements of reviews as proof of professionalism. From there moved to the noncontributors who feast off the work of others. She concluded with the appreciation exhibited by a review, and then we readers all slumped back, smiles on our faces. All in a great read, and great value as it was $0 for 1 minute. Special for terb members. Definitely repeat read anything she writes. Treat her well lads!

lol

 

[Catherine St.Claire]

It depends on the provider. If she likes the boards, participates on them and enjoys being on the board, reviews will surely be welcome. That is not the majority of the providers out there tho imo. I don't personally know a single provider who enjoys review boards as a positive factor in their business tho I do know a few who tolerate it as a necessary evil. I remember my first "good" review, it left me physically ill for weeks. Every time I thought about it, I threw up and after processing it I decided to never put stock in reviews, encouraged my guests not to write them and generally avoid having anything "out there online". I really enjoyed the gentleman who wrote that review but after that, I wasn't comfortable seeing him. Something had changed which is a shame because he is a really good guy and I would have loved to have kept him as a guest. I simply couldn't trust him anymore. Without trust, I'm out.

I know providers tho who deeply struggle with even good reviews, feel violated that intimacies are being published or their address/area or other private information is being exchanged via PMs. It feels like an invasion of privacy to many. It can be incredibly disregulating for someone to read what is written. I wish more guests would direct their concerns directly to the provider before they post something to allow an opportunity to correct or clarify the situation. There seems to be a lack of adult in clients that think providers are mind readers and should know every nuance of what is desired without being willing to share those details either before the appointment or during to ensure an excellent outcome.

I also believe that reviewers should have a code of conduct concerning content in reviews. For example, writing a negative review saying that a provider who blurs her eyes was a disappointment because she didn't look like the porn star you imagined her to look like and then bashing her for it even tho you liked her service, her body and her space is ridiculous. Then the pile on of board members who have never met her but thinks her prices are too high. And the entire thread finally showed it was her price he was unhappy with but knew that wouldn't fly with a review so he made up a reason to not give her a good review. With Google the way it is, a nonsense thread like this can make things difficult emotionally for a provider. Even tho it doesn't genuinely impact her bottom $ line, it can impact a providers inner security and stability. When a providers established client base isn't on the boards, there is no one to step in and let people know that she's a reputable, ethical provider. And if a client joins the board to make a comment, he is flamed into nonexisitence.

For low key providers who just want to do their job well and have a life outside of being a provider, reviews complicate that existence. It adds mental labour with very little ROI, adds stress and negativity. Boards are an innately negative space to visit on a mental level. Reviews cause unnecessary ill will, enforcing the "us vs them" attitude that simply continues to undermine our community and industry. I've only ever met a handful of providers who appreciate reviews but I've noticed they are all younger providers who seem to tolerate a lot of boundary pushing and inevitably I have to watch the burnout that follows. I know board members want details shared publically but they often go too far and do more harm than good to the very providers they think they are supporting.

smiles, cat

 

[thumper18474]

It depends on the provider. If she likes the boards, participates on them and enjoys being on the board, reviews will surely be welcome. That is not the majority of the providers out there tho imo. I don't personally know a single provider who enjoys review boards as a positive factor in their business tho I do know a few who tolerate it as a necessary evil. I remember my first "good" review, it left me physically ill for weeks. Every time I thought about it, I threw up and after processing it I decided to never put stock in reviews, encouraged my guests not to write them and generally avoid having anything "out there online". I really enjoyed the gentleman who wrote that review but after that, I wasn't comfortable seeing him. Something had changed which is a shame because he is a really good guy and I would have loved to have kept him as a guest. I simply couldn't trust him anymore. Without trust, I'm out.

I know providers tho who deeply struggle with even good reviews, feel violated that intimacies are being published or their address/area or other private information is being exchanged via PMs. It feels like an invasion of privacy to many. It can be incredibly disregulating for someone to read what is written. I wish more guests would direct their concerns directly to the provider before they post something to allow an opportunity to correct or clarify the situation. There seems to be a lack of adult in clients that think providers are mind readers and should know every nuance of what is desired without being willing to share those details either before the appointment or during to ensure an excellent outcome.

I also believe that reviewers should have a code of conduct concerning content in reviews. For example, writing a negative review saying that a provider who blurs her eyes was a disappointment because she didn't look like the porn star you imagined her to look like and then bashing her for it even tho you liked her service, her body and her space is ridiculous. Then the pile on of board members who have never met her but thinks her prices are too high. And the entire thread finally showed it was her price he was unhappy with but knew that wouldn't fly with a review so he made up a reason to not give her a good review. With Google the way it is, a nonsense thread like this can make things difficult emotionally for a provider. Even tho it doesn't genuinely impact her bottom $ line, it can impact a providers inner security and stability. When a providers established client base isn't on the boards, there is no one to step in and let people know that she's a reputable, ethical provider. And if a client joins the board to make a comment, he is flamed into nonexisitence.

For low key providers who just want to do their job well and have a life outside of being a provider, reviews complicate that existence. It adds mental labour with very little ROI, adds stress and negativity. Boards are an innately negative space to visit on a mental level. Reviews cause unnecessary ill will, enforcing the "us vs them" attitude that simply continues to undermine our community and industry. I've only ever met a handful of providers who appreciate reviews but I've noticed they are all younger providers who seem to tolerate a lot of boundary pushing and inevitably I have to watch the burnout that follows. I know board members want details shared publically but they often go too far and do more harm than good to the very providers they think they are supporting.

smiles, cat

Stop beating around the bush and tell us how you really feel.....

 

[Catherine St.Claire]

Stop beating around the bush and tell us how you really feel.....

I was going to but time was short so I had to Coles Note it... :biggrin-new:

 

[happydog]

Ok, interesting so far I didn't realize the effect of positive reviews as well. Since this is a review board.
What if instead basically tell a story to give the general mood/feeling of session without specifics just GND or GND+, pretty lady.(pictures accurate)
Provided good service GFE or PSE(most ladies advertise what they offer anyways)
Maybe mention good location easy to deal with agency or provider. Would repeat went well good attitude and personality or just not my cupoftea but, others will like if and qualify. I think generally the guys are trying to be respectful and want to help the lady and share that they were happy with their time together.
Then only PM to clarify.

 

[HEYHEY]

I find it fascinating how people review escorts the same way as s restaurant

 

[kherg007]

I find it fascinating how people review escorts the same way as s restaurant

That is exactly the conundrum. These ladies are human beings. Yet, they are offering their most intimate selves as a service. Plumbers get reviewed, so do landscapers, and other service providers. However, no one reviews the plumber's ass. But the plumber is not offering that as part of their service.

And, from a reviewers POV...it is difficult because, in civilian life, it is the epitome of classlessness to expound upon the personal habits of your intimate partners, particularly if you are fond of them, which is usually the case. Yet, in this life here, if you like the lady, and she makes you feel good, expounding upon her personal habits is the best thing you can do for her.

I have rarely had a bad experience or even 'meh' experiences, most often because of the reviews of others (done a handful of TOFTTs so have given back too). Thus those ladies who treat us royally need to be acknowledged, and those who scam us need to be identified.

The best solution is a reviewer code of ethics. Stick to facts. Identify what are your opinions, identify your own biases so the reader can judge him or herself (what you don't like someone else might). Do try to remember the lady is human being with feelings too. I will usually show the review to the lady privately first so she can raise any objections privately, as you all know you can't un-ring a bell once it is out. I may or may not edit based on her feedback ...if she wants me to "punch up" how great her bj is, I likely won't honour that. If she asks me to not cite her previous reviews under a different name because she got outed under that name, I will honour that.

Sensitivity to her appearance is often a sticking point. None of us want to have someone describe our asses lol. But what is essential? First, are the pics her or not? How do they differ from seeing her face to face? But be factual...e.g., "her pics were misleading" is more pejorative than "she's darker than her pics suggest" (which to some of us is a point in her favour lol, but at least the reader can make his own judgment, for good or ill). I also can't call ladies 7's or 8's or 9's etc...if I'm punching above my weight on beauty I'm thrilled lol. But my '8' may be someone else's 7 or 9 or 10.

Then her efforts are important. Is she trying to make you happy? Describe factually. 'She asked if i wanted a bbbj" or "she kept pausing to answer her phone" . Again, remember you are referring to a human being here so describe with sensitivity.

I'm sure the entire 'code' for reviewers has been articulated in many other posts, but always good to remind ourselves of those principles.

 

[bluebro69]

actually if i do get a negative review one day, i will probably look forward to that one too because i always love a little conflict.

Yeah, we've noticed. Lol!

 

[Jasmine Raine]

I love getting feedback. Always love that but I am on the fence regarding reviews.

I think if I was more active in seeing clients, maybe I would look forward to it. It is a form of free advertising when it is a good review. Call volume goes up and you can gain a lot of attention. Some women love that. Some women ask for reviews because of it.

Personally, if you want to review - I like to know ahead of time. I want a chance to remind you to not talk about my incall location. Beyond the basics of the place was clean but I have seen men post addresses or make enough reference for others to know exactly where the call happened.

I like certain details kept private as well. I don't have script I play through with a client. Every session is different. I enjoy Greek but I would not consider myself a Greek provider who will do it all the time on command for every client. It is a "when I am in the mood" type thing. I don't upcharge for it, But I am also not prepping myself for it for every session so if I started getting reviews about Greek, I would start to attracte those who are more of menu check list type of Client where No Greek would be a deal breaker. I don't want it falsely advertised to them that Greek is a regular "menu" item. It is unfair to them.

So Ya, I am on the fence. However I do love reading reviews to get a sense of what clients likes so when I see them personally I can be prepared to give them what they like.

 

[tribunus]

Of course they do. Who doesn't enjoying reading about how loose they are and that facially they're a 5.

 

[rachel2016]

Catherine hit the nail on the head. Also, I find that reviews are very rarely truthful - I've read reviews of myself that make me wonder if the client and I were even in the same room.

Reviews only benefit the clients, and even then, they don't create any real benefit other than online camaraderie with other people that also frequent sex workers, and then on top of all that, it pits the clients against the workers. Crucify me for saying that, I don't care.

Example of how reviews can directly negatively impact a sex worker:

When interviewing with an agency, I made it known that I didn't want to perform BBBJ at work. They said, that's fine, but you can't work for us - BBBJ is a "standard service" and you need to provide it. Why? Because a small group of clients on review boards were vocal about their desires for unsafe services and that hive mind spread to other review board users.
Direct impact - feeling forced to provide a service that I didn't want to perform for personal health. Also, many providers at agencies that don't offer or don't want to offer BBBJ live in fear of clients "reporting" their avoidance of the service - that can cause the agency owner/staff to become upset with them and/or send them less work.

 

[sempel]

It depends on the provider. If she likes the boards, participates on them and enjoys being on the board, reviews will surely be welcome. That is not the majority of the providers out there tho imo. I don't personally know a single provider who enjoys review boards as a positive factor in their business tho I do know a few who tolerate it as a necessary evil. I remember my first "good" review, it left me physically ill for weeks. Every time I thought about it, I threw up and after processing it I decided to never put stock in reviews, encouraged my guests not to write them and generally avoid having anything "out there online". I really enjoyed the gentleman who wrote that review but after that, I wasn't comfortable seeing him. Something had changed which is a shame because he is a really good guy and I would have loved to have kept him as a guest. I simply couldn't trust him anymore. Without trust, I'm out.

I know providers tho who deeply struggle with even good reviews, feel violated that intimacies are being published or their address/area or other private information is being exchanged via PMs. It feels like an invasion of privacy to many. It can be incredibly disregulating for someone to read what is written. I wish more guests would direct their concerns directly to the provider before they post something to allow an opportunity to correct or clarify the situation. There seems to be a lack of adult in clients that think providers are mind readers and should know every nuance of what is desired without being willing to share those details either before the appointment or during to ensure an excellent outcome.

I also believe that reviewers should have a code of conduct concerning content in reviews. For example, writing a negative review saying that a provider who blurs her eyes was a disappointment because she didn't look like the porn star you imagined her to look like and then bashing her for it even tho you liked her service, her body and her space is ridiculous. Then the pile on of board members who have never met her but thinks her prices are too high. And the entire thread finally showed it was her price he was unhappy with but knew that wouldn't fly with a review so he made up a reason to not give her a good review. With Google the way it is, a nonsense thread like this can make things difficult emotionally for a provider. Even tho it doesn't genuinely impact her bottom $ line, it can impact a providers inner security and stability. When a providers established client base isn't on the boards, there is no one to step in and let people know that she's a reputable, ethical provider. And if a client joins the board to make a comment, he is flamed into nonexisitence.

For low key providers who just want to do their job well and have a life outside of being a provider, reviews complicate that existence. It adds mental labour with very little ROI, adds stress and negativity. Boards are an innately negative space to visit on a mental level. Reviews cause unnecessary ill will, enforcing the "us vs them" attitude that simply continues to undermine our community and industry. I've only ever met a handful of providers who appreciate reviews but I've noticed they are all younger providers who seem to tolerate a lot of boundary pushing and inevitably I have to watch the burnout that follows. I know board members want details shared publically but they often go too far and do more harm than good to the very providers they think they are supporting.

smiles, cat

Thanks for this reply. A ton of great info that needs to be said and re-iterated from time to time. Shame of it is I would have thought certain things didn't need to be spelled out (such as revealing address info) but apparently some people are just thick.

There are also other obvious no-no's such as telling lies, exaggerating, or any slanted opinion. Sometimes it's clear that a person didn't have a good time because it was either (1) their own fault or (2) they just didn't connect or (3) the lady's look wasn't their cup of tea. If you don't have a good time because of (1), don't blame the lady. Because of (2), realize sometimes there's no connection (please note this assumes attempts to connect was made not a lady being disconnected and going through the motions). Because of (3), I always say there are other things you can consider that make a person attractive, especially positive attitude and personality. The other thing I say is if you are really not attracted, leave. Be polite, pay a tip, and cut your loss (so to speak). I always wonder what ladies think about guys who don't appreciate their look but stay and have what is reviewed as a bad time because they were not attracted. Wouldn't it be better if the guy politely excused himself?

Perhaps a thread though outlining what is ok, what isn't, etc. when writing a review for those who don't know or those with little common sense.

i basically know all my reviews are going to be awesome so i always look forward to them

actually if i do get a negative review one day, i will probably look forward to that one too because i always love a little conflict.

I can always TOFTT with the sole purpose of writing a negative review, just so you don't have a perfect record...lol. Always love the Dawn Lee stuff.

That is exactly the conundrum. These ladies are human beings. Yet, they are offering their most intimate selves as a service. Plumbers get reviewed, so do landscapers, and other service providers. However, no one reviews the plumber's ass. But the plumber is not offering that as part of their service.

And, from a reviewers POV...it is difficult because, in civilian life, it is the epitome of classlessness to expound upon the personal habits of your intimate partners, particularly if you are fond of them, which is usually the case. Yet, in this life here, if you like the lady, and she makes you feel good, expounding upon her personal habits is the best thing you can do for her.

I have rarely had a bad experience or even 'meh' experiences, most often because of the reviews of others (done a handful of TOFTTs so have given back too). Thus those ladies who treat us royally need to be acknowledged, and those who scam us need to be identified.

The best solution is a reviewer code of ethics. Stick to facts. Identify what are your opinions, identify your own biases so the reader can judge him or herself (what you don't like someone else might). Do try to remember the lady is human being with feelings too. I will usually show the review to the lady privately first so she can raise any objections privately, as you all know you can't un-ring a bell once it is out. I may or may not edit based on her feedback ...if she wants me to "punch up" how great her bj is, I likely won't honour that. If she asks me to not cite her previous reviews under a different name because she got outed under that name, I will honour that.

Sensitivity to her appearance is often a sticking point. None of us want to have someone describe our asses lol. But what is essential? First, are the pics her or not? How do they differ from seeing her face to face? But be factual...e.g., "her pics were misleading" is more pejorative than "she's darker than her pics suggest" (which to some of us is a point in her favour lol, but at least the reader can make his own judgment, for good or ill). I also can't call ladies 7's or 8's or 9's etc...if I'm punching above my weight on beauty I'm thrilled lol. But my '8' may be someone else's 7 or 9 or 10.

Then her efforts are important. Is she trying to make you happy? Describe factually. 'She asked if i wanted a bbbj" or "she kept pausing to answer her phone" . Again, remember you are referring to a human being here so describe with sensitivity.

I'm sure the entire 'code' for reviewers has been articulated in many other posts, but always good to remind ourselves of those principles.

Agreed. I've said many of the same things previously so nice when others say the same.

i'm actually surprised at how gentlemanly all my reviewers have been. i don't think it should be that much different than reviewing your plumber or lawyer though. those are human beings too. and all your points here are equally as applicable to reviewing other types of services - e.g. identifying your biases.

i really don't see the act of sex that different from like, performing legal services or something. with any kind of job, the human connection underlying the service is what makes it interesting.

To me it's a mix. Some reviews are classy, some are factual, some are downright rude/disrespectful. It's a contradiction for me as I definitely prefer to know what services are available, info not necessarily available in ads or when asked. But sometimes the reviews are so cold about it, it doesn't come across well, and intimacy and privacy of the encounter is lost.

Yes, part of the package is the provider's looks. Nothing wrong with politely and briefly commenting if the comment is positive. If negative, don't bash the person - a simple not MCOT suffices. Don't lead others - simply present facts. Everything else though is exactly how you'd review other service people - you'd not only focus on the service and the good job they did (or didn't do), you'd also discuss their customer service/attitude.

Of course they do. Who doesn't enjoying reading about how loose they are and that facially they're a 5.

LOL. Point taken

 

[doggystyle99]

Catherine hit the nail on the head. Also, I find that reviews are very rarely truthful - I've read reviews of myself that make me wonder if the client and I were even in the same room.

Reviews only benefit the clients, and even then, they don't create any real benefit other than online camaraderie with other people that also frequent sex workers, and then on top of all that, it pits the clients against the workers. Crucify me for saying that, I don't care.

Example of how reviews can directly negatively impact a sex worker:

When interviewing with an agency, I made it known that I didn't want to perform BBBJ at work. They said, that's fine, but you can't work for us - BBBJ is a "standard service" and you need to provide it. Why? Because a small group of clients on review boards were vocal about their desires for unsafe services and that hive mind spread to other review board users.
Direct impact - feeling forced to provide a service that I didn't want to perform for personal health. Also, many providers at agencies that don't offer or don't want to offer BBBJ live in fear of clients "reporting" their avoidance of the service - that can cause the agency owner/staff to become upset with them and/or send them less work.

Majority of guys I know prefer BBBJ rather than CBJ so it's not a small group of clients.
But with saying that you should as an SP never feel that you have to provide services that you feel uncomfortable doing to upease the agency or anyone else.

Reviews are a great way for hobbyists to keep track of girls that are horrible SP that jump from agency to agency or indies that continuously change their name and phone numbers. As well as being good for clients reviews are great way to highlight SP's who provide great services, are attractive in appearance or have great personalitiess.
I for one prefer TERB ads & reviews rather than sifting through now magazine or backpage ads to find a SP and not knowing what she will look like, what her services will be or if there are any bad elements working with the SP (pimps, thieves)
So as you claim it only benefits clients well that's just not true, it provides great SP's with a free form of advertising (word of mouth advertising) which is the best and cheapest form of advertising in any business. It also keep clients away from SP's who are not as they advertise.

So if there any SP who are great in what they do they should welcome reviews.

 

[dbiz2]

I can see both sides: for the SP a review can be TMI especially if what occurs with one client might not happen for another, i.e., YMMV. But for clients, I can definitely see where consistent reviews regarding an SP, good or bad, can assist in making an informed choice.

 

[squeezer]

Catherine hit the nail on the head. Also, I find that reviews are very rarely truthful - I've read reviews of myself that make me wonder if the client and I were even in the same room.

Reviews only benefit the clients, and even then, they don't create any real benefit other than online camaraderie with other people that also frequent sex workers, and then on top of all that, it pits the clients against the workers. Crucify me for saying that, I don't care.

Example of how reviews can directly negatively impact a sex worker:

When interviewing with an agency, I made it known that I didn't want to perform BBBJ at work. They said, that's fine, but you can't work for us - BBBJ is a "standard service" and you need to provide it. Why? Because a small group of clients on review boards were vocal about their desires for unsafe services and that hive mind spread to other review board users.
Direct impact - feeling forced to provide a service that I didn't want to perform for personal health. Also, many providers at agencies that don't offer or don't want to offer BBBJ live in fear of clients "reporting" their avoidance of the service - that can cause the agency owner/staff to become upset with them and/or send them less work.

This is exactly why reviews are important. If I'm going to spend $250 and more importantly an hour of my time I want a provider who if I'm clean provides a bbbj, if not I want to know about it so I can book and be with someone else. You have a choice but so should we.

 

[sempel]

Catherine hit the nail on the head. Also, I find that reviews are very rarely truthful - I've read reviews of myself that make me wonder if the client and I were even in the same room.

Reviews only benefit the clients, and even then, they don't create any real benefit other than online camaraderie with other people that also frequent sex workers, and then on top of all that, it pits the clients against the workers. Crucify me for saying that, I don't care.

Example of how reviews can directly negatively impact a sex worker:

When interviewing with an agency, I made it known that I didn't want to perform BBBJ at work. They said, that's fine, but you can't work for us - BBBJ is a "standard service" and you need to provide it. Why? Because a small group of clients on review boards were vocal about their desires for unsafe services and that hive mind spread to other review board users.
Direct impact - feeling forced to provide a service that I didn't want to perform for personal health. Also, many providers at agencies that don't offer or don't want to offer BBBJ live in fear of clients "reporting" their avoidance of the service - that can cause the agency owner/staff to become upset with them and/or send them less work.

Won't crucify you but will say you've missed a few things or are mistaken in some cases.

Let's start off though by saying no lady should ever perform any service she is uncomfortable with. As a client, I honestly don't see how guys get off doing something if it's clear the other person is either going through the motions or worse, actually dislikes something. My pleasure/satisfaction is derived from the ladies and I only enjoy doing things she enjoys too.

Now, if you work for an agency that requires BBBJ, that's your choice - plenty of other agencies, some of which don't "force" the ladies to do anything. The excuse given for requiring a BJ doesn't make sense. Does anyone believe that everyone is going to be influenced by a few reviewers demands? Tons of guys on here want/demand CIM. Doesn't make a difference to me and I don't buy that it should be included always as others have suggested. So that comes across as a lame excuse from whomever gave it. Chances are though that many clients, myself included, won't go for CBJ. And if a review indicates CBJ and a lady sees a drop in business, that's because clients don't want CBJ not because a lady isn't following suit or something like that.

And while clients do benefit, so do ladies, assuming the review was good and YMMV is clearly understood. I'm sure many ladies, particularly unknowns, have seen upticks in clients based on one or more positive reviews. You can also frame the information provided as a way to keep away clients who want something that isn't provided. For instance if a guy wants PSE and a review indicates GFE only, he's not going to book. I think that's fair and on some level better that clients don't show up expecting something they won't receive because the lady doesn't provide it. One could argue most ladies will say what they do and don't do but quite a few won't provide info and I don't trust the responses of bookers/agencies/3rd parties. So when a client sees "Girl provides X, Y, and Z" he knows what to expect and what not to expect. To me that's a benefit for both client and provider. When both parties are clear on expectations, less issues for sure.

I can see both sides: for the SP a review can be TMI especially if what occurs with one client might not happen for another, i.e., YMMV. But for clients, I can definitely see where consistent reviews regarding an SP, good or bad, can assist in making an informed choice.

The key for clients is understanding YMMV. I see a review, I see lady offers X, Y, and Z, so I only know what's potentially available. Clients need to realize this.

This is exactly why reviews are important. If I'm going to spend $250 and more importantly an hour of my time I want a provider who if I'm clean provides a bbbj, if not I want to know about it so I can book and be with someone else. You have a choice but so should we.

I agree. Both parties should have all the info needed to make an informed decision. I love Daty and if I get told in a review or by the lady that she doesn't enjoy it, I see no point in wasting time/money for what will likely be a disappointing session.

To me it's very simple. Clients should know what to expect (YMMV of course). They will choose based on that information. They shouldn't expect anything more than that and pressuring any lady to do something because (1) the clients want it and (2) they saw it in a review is BS and wrong. I will also say I make sure the lady confirms services as reviews might be out of date or be incorrect/misleading.