In all my years of enjoying this industry, I've always remained anonymous and both the provider and I enjoyed our time together be it financially or pleasureably. Personal information was never shared on both sides of the coin albeit I do have one or two regulars this rule does not apply too as over the years a certain level of trust has been established.
Screening - are you okay with providing real info to providers?
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In all my years of enjoying this industry, I've always remained anonymous and both the provider and I enjoyed our time together be it financially or pleasureably. Personal information was never shared on both sides of the coin albeit I do have one or two regulars this rule does not apply too as over the years a certain level of trust has been established.
This is not an anonymous industry. It is a discrete industry but not an anonymous one.
That is a misconception that people need to come to terms with. On both sides of the coin.
I agree. Impossible to remain totally anonymous unless all you do is sext from an encrypted text app. Many SPs (independent ones) host from home, so while the client may not know their real name, they do know WHERE THEY LIVE!
Clients are concerned about being “outed” or blackmailed, SPs about personal safety, bad dates and no-shows that hurt business. Different concerns, but each are important to each side. A bad outcome on either side is rare, but could be devastating for the individual.
If an SP decides to see clients from their home, that is their choice, most do not due to high risk and rent space. They don't deserve special privileges which could potentially endanger their clients because they are trying to eat where they sleep.I agree. Impossible to remain totally anonymous unless all you do is sext from an encrypted text app. Many SPs (independent ones) host from home, so while the client may not know their real name, they do know WHERE THEY LIVE!
Clients are concerned about being “outed” or blackmailed, SPs about personal safety, bad dates and no-shows that hurt business. Different concerns, but each are important to each side. A bad outcome on either side is rare, but could be devastating for the individual.
If an SP decides to see clients from their home, that is their choice, most do not due to high risk and rent space. They don't deserve special privileges which could potentially endanger their clients because they are trying to eat where they sleep.
I’m not sure why you think this is some special privilege. A girl has her rules / limits for booking an appt. you have yours. If they don’t meet up, you aren’t compatible and move on.
You’ve obviously got little experience, or a very narrow exposure to this industry. There are many Indy girls that entertain from their own place. I’ve visited dozens. From a financial point of view it makes good sense (not having to rent a second place or hotel). They are also in their own home environment, that they can set up how they like depending on the type of services they provide and the desires of the clients they attract. I personally like seeing an independent sp at their place. It’s comfortable, discreet, quiet and feels more intimate. For those girls, extra assurance that a client is not an asshole, violent, stalker goes a long way and is important to them.
You are new here. You make some points in this thread that many clients agree with, regarding our desire for personal privacy and discretion. Maybe try to express them in a little less antagonistic way.
You've obviously been brainwashed by your many years of escorting. Toronto sure has a lot of arrogance, lol, but all of Canada knows that. I'm not looking for your advice on how I deal with Jessica and her constant persuasion efforts.I’m not sure why you think this is some special privilege. A girl has her rules / limits for booking an appt. you have yours. If they don’t meet up, you aren’t compatible and move on.
You’ve obviously got little experience, or a very narrow exposure to this industry. There are many Indy girls that entertain from their own place. I’ve visited dozens. From a financial point of view it makes good sense (not having to rent a second place or hotel). They are also in their own home environment, that they can set up how they like depending on the type of services they provide and the desires of the clients they attract. I personally like seeing an independent sp at their place. It’s comfortable, discreet, quiet and feels more intimate. For those girls, extra assurance that a client is not an asshole, violent, stalker goes a long way and is important to them.
You are new here. You make some points in this thread that many clients agree with, regarding our desire for personal privacy and discretion. Maybe try to express them in a little less antagonistic way.
You and Jessica are free to stay in the Toronto forums where you both seem more happy (why are you even in the Ottawa forum?). No one here from Ottawa bothers to go and try to be terb police in the Toronto forums.
If we need your help, we'll ask. Thanks expert.
If I constantly posted here that SP's doing outcall to my home should also provide their real life confirmation beforehand, because it's "WHERE I LIVE", you don't think it would be constantly bashed? Could I just say then say "well, if you don't like it, fine, don't comment and move on"?
Hooker logic sometimes makes me SMH.
^ Hahahahhah. Tempted to respond exactly what I’m thinking, but common sense has got the better of me. I know I shouldn’t feed what is increasingly looking like trolling behaviour, but
Maybe I’ll reiterate
I did not have a personal beef with you. Please don’t make it so I do.
(For the record I don’t give out my private info. Ever. If a girl absolutely needs that, I move on)
Maybe I’ll reiterate
My friend I’ve been on this forum since it started. I’ve posted probably 4x more in this forum alone than you have at all, and actually contributed useful information to the group, including dozens actual reviews of my experiences that have assisted others in seeking out a good encounter, or avoiding bad ones. That’s why I’m on this Ott/ Kingston forum. In that time I’ve also learned that intentionally stirring up unnecessary shit in these threads is a fast track to getting banned. If you engage in discussion and debate in a respectful way, you will benefit from what you can learn here, even if you don’t agree with the opinions. I’m sorry if you were insulted by my advice, but you might want to listen a bit. When these forums started they were a mix of information and toxic flame wars that detracted from the purpose of the forum - to share information and thoughts that could lead to a better experience in this hobby. The TERB mods have done a reasonably good job at allowing free and honest discussion while eliminating troublemakers who wish to stir things up by attacking other members / SPs for little reason.You are new here. You make some points in this thread that many clients agree with, regarding our desire for personal privacy and discretion. Maybe try to express them in a little less antagonistic way.
I did not have a personal beef with you. Please don’t make it so I do.
(For the record I don’t give out my private info. Ever. If a girl absolutely needs that, I move on)
You slept with lots of escorts! Congratulations!! Trophy's in the mail along with with your lifetime achievement award from terb around the world!! You should be oh so proud as you are!
I will reiterate, I do not want your old man advice, ok? You're jaded gramps.
Are you a mod now? They not let you have the job or something? You can still put in the mall cop outfit and strut around all you'd like, it's your show... Show us all how FANTASTIC we all should be like you.
I'll only have a go at you, after you go at me. You did, so I did... I actually gave you a pretty nice you a compliment here earlier, but now I see you conflict your own messaging and never take a stand if an SP is involved. Keep sitting on the fence defending horrible practices with "ok, just move on, no need to comment" advice.
Why do the golden oldies (especially from Toronto) think we need them here anymore? We're looking for details on current availability, not what life was like escorting in the early 80's and theoretical words to live by. If you want to preach, become a Reverend.
Night night
PS - "I did not have a personal beef with you. Please don’t make it so I do. ". That might be the weakest threat I've seen in a while, please don't hit me with your walker.
I will reiterate, I do not want your old man advice, ok? You're jaded gramps.
Are you a mod now? They not let you have the job or something? You can still put in the mall cop outfit and strut around all you'd like, it's your show... Show us all how FANTASTIC we all should be like you.
I'll only have a go at you, after you go at me. You did, so I did... I actually gave you a pretty nice you a compliment here earlier, but now I see you conflict your own messaging and never take a stand if an SP is involved. Keep sitting on the fence defending horrible practices with "ok, just move on, no need to comment" advice.
Why do the golden oldies (especially from Toronto) think we need them here anymore? We're looking for details on current availability, not what life was like escorting in the early 80's and theoretical words to live by. If you want to preach, become a Reverend.
Night night
PS - "I did not have a personal beef with you. Please don’t make it so I do. ". That might be the weakest threat I've seen in a while, please don't hit me with your walker.
Private messaging was made for things like this so take it elsewhere gentlemen.
And GJG, insulting an entire generation is not wise.
And GJG, insulting an entire generation is not wise.
Truth is, there are those who have no problem with it and there are others that has problem with it.
To each their own, you can see someone else if you don't agree with the screening.
I am a proponent of having an in good standing Terb/twitter handle for both providers and hobbyist. It helps with the verification process.
I believe it is mutually beneficial and removes the need for more revealing personal ID.
If you don't have one yet? No worries you can create one and build on it. It takes time but it's worth it in the grand scheme of things in this hobby.
To each their own, you can see someone else if you don't agree with the screening.
I am a proponent of having an in good standing Terb/twitter handle for both providers and hobbyist. It helps with the verification process.
I believe it is mutually beneficial and removes the need for more revealing personal ID.
If you don't have one yet? No worries you can create one and build on it. It takes time but it's worth it in the grand scheme of things in this hobby.
Must be a lot of ladies calling clients "Daddy" these days... So many old stock members like to pass on their wisdom and try to act like the father figures of terb. I wonder if this is how they operate in real life? If someone wants to label new members as inexperienced and in dire need of coaching, you're probably just going to be told that you're just old and no longer useful for much. Such is life.
If someone wants advice, they'll ask. Start handing it out when unsolicited, it just comes off as Old Spice arrogance.
If someone wants advice, they'll ask. Start handing it out when unsolicited, it just comes off as Old Spice arrogance.
Who are you talking to?Must be a lot of ladies calling clients "Daddy" these days... So many old stock members like to pass on their wisdom and try to act like the father figures of terb. I wonder if this is how they operate in real life? If someone wants to label new members as inexperienced and in dire need of coaching, you're probably just going to be told that you're just old and no longer useful for much. Such is life.
If someone wants advice, they'll ask. Start handing it out when unsolicited, it just comes off as Old Spice arrogance.
Probably about 7-9 remaining active members left in Ottawa section because of all the grandstanding and preaching providing unsolicited advice about how others should act.Who are you talking to?
And my dog.
Just ignore the advice you are getting. No need to respond to everything members are saying. Have fun, go hobby and enjoy. Have a great week. Best of luck.
Agreed. Apologies for encouraging the further deterioration of the thread. Initially I simply suggested that points be made a little less antagonistically. Clearly that has only encouraged escalation of the behaviour.Private messaging was made for things like this so take it elsewhere gentlemen.
And GJG, insulting an entire generation is not wise.
Sorry for the complete thread hijack.
I’d suggest a lock on this one.
SMH :yield:Just ignore the advice you are getting. No need to respond to everything members are saying. Have fun, go hobby and enjoy. Have a great week. Best of luck.
He's one of those walking downtown, with an open bottle and talks angrily as he walks down the street talking to whoever he passes by.Who are you talking to?
