Every guy knows when you hit the cum launch sequence...Every time you jerk off you know exactly when. About 2 seconds prior to initial blast you get that feeling that the engine has lit and nothing will forestall leaving the earth lol. So cut the crap. That warning is enough time for her to bail out if that is her desire. Making women do shit they don't want to do is the fastest way to rocket to the top of the complete asshole power rankings.
How would an SP react if a client...
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me thinks some people took this thread waaaaaay to seriously
Kherg is right we all know when its blast off time
Wholly fuck people
lighten up
Kherg is right we all know when its blast off time
Wholly fuck people
lighten up
Exactly right. It's an unwritten rule of BBBJ etiquette with SP's and SO's. Just as either party tries not to fart during 69, at least without giving some warning.
The best is when you give a warning and they just keep going per their own choice (talking about BBBJ, not farting during 69).
I have to admit this is a hot button topic for me. I know this is just a thread but when thinking about the reality of it, which happens a lot, it does get my blood boiling.
this is no different than when a lady feels an orgasm coming on and holds my head tight to her pussy forcing me to keep going
hang on a tic..... I like that
Nevermind:behindsofa:
I can't speak for others but I know when there's liftoff it's usually because the intensity/pressure has been notched up. I HAVE to warn the lady in order for her to either stop or lower the intensity or it's actually pretty painful. I don't like to be rude about it and yell STOP so I just indicate it's happening. Similar with an HJ, I just reach down and touch her arm lightly because some ladies will jackhammer away and it hurts!
It's always about communication. You want CIM, make sure the lady is good with it before meeting her or see someone else. If she says no, respect it. I highly doubt that there's ever an "accidental" release where the guy knew but couldn't stop in time.
It's always about communication. You want CIM, make sure the lady is good with it before meeting her or see someone else. If she says no, respect it. I highly doubt that there's ever an "accidental" release where the guy knew but couldn't stop in time.
lol. Wish more ladies would do this...
You know where the button is.... not like I didn't show you were a couple of times. So by all means, have at it. LOL
You are right to call me out Vivienne, as I suppose it is possible that someone might take my suggestion seriously.
In fact, as I am a CBJ guy, (at least in a "professional" context) I really have no business even joking about it.
I knew it was a joke. Most people know it's a joke. The shame is when writing, it's hard to capture that so it's good practice to somehow indicate it in case people take it the wrong way (which some did).
I had it happen once where the lady didn’t expect it. It was a bit awkward after because I thought she wanted, expected me to cim.
At no point did she say no cim. And this was after mpos, she took he condom off and went back to bbbj. So, making lots of noises, I didn’t actually say I was about to cum, I let go in her mouth.
She made some noise and ran to spit and mouth wash, then came back and told me she doesn’t do that. She actually said, I guess I should have told you. I said sorry, I didn’t know.
Got cleaned up and dressed quietly.
Sent her a text after and she said thank you, enjoyed our time. I saw her again and everything was fine.
It was just a mis-communication.
At no point did she say no cim. And this was after mpos, she took he condom off and went back to bbbj. So, making lots of noises, I didn’t actually say I was about to cum, I let go in her mouth.
She made some noise and ran to spit and mouth wash, then came back and told me she doesn’t do that. She actually said, I guess I should have told you. I said sorry, I didn’t know.
Got cleaned up and dressed quietly.
Sent her a text after and she said thank you, enjoyed our time. I saw her again and everything was fine.
It was just a mis-communication.
So I guess the lesson to be learned here is
CUMMUNICATION IS KEY
Yeah...i said that:biggrin-new:
I think the reaction of a guy who gets an unwanted fireball would be the same as the lady who gets unwanted CIM - won't be all smiles/giggles.
Thinking back, quite a few ladies would say something to the effect of "Let me know when you are about to blow" - those that didn't were ok with CIM/CIMWS
I once did accidently CIM with a provider who wasn't expecting it. To be polite I pulled her up to kiss her and share but she had already swallowed. She still wasn't pleased but I apologized profusely and was forgiven. Didn't make that mistake again.
I warned another provider but she just doubled her efforts and took the load.
I warned another provider but she just doubled her efforts and took the load.
Happened once to me, lady had previously told me not to cim, but during one session, it got away from me, but she took it without any fuss. Of course I apologized.
She mentioned afterwards it didn’t taste too bad, and since then (about 20 sessions since), always accepted cim and sometimes even swallowed.
Talking about it later she just stated she made it general policy cause some guys cum is really nasty, and some guys save up too big of a load, way above the average tablespoon a normal active guy shoots off.
She mentioned afterwards it didn’t taste too bad, and since then (about 20 sessions since), always accepted cim and sometimes even swallowed.
Talking about it later she just stated she made it general policy cause some guys cum is really nasty, and some guys save up too big of a load, way above the average tablespoon a normal active guy shoots off.
I am so surprised that this would even happen to a provider. When I am with a lady I always, always, inquire first before going forward. I always ask because with me sometimes it can rush on me fast so I tell her that we have to be careful and I'll certainly let her know. People are people, i'm always polite and respectful to everyone. I'm a people person and when I am with someone be it an SP or friend/etc. I want that other person I am with to at least somewhat enjoy our time together. Being an asshole pretty much guarantees they will not enjoy their time with me. Does everyone like me, probably not, but I definitely try to be a gentleman in all aspects of my life.
I would never do this to any provider. Its definitely rude and I can see why a lady would be extremely upset. Use common sense and don't do it.
I would never do this to any provider. Its definitely rude and I can see why a lady would be extremely upset. Use common sense and don't do it.
