Need Advice - Christmas Gift for SP?

[User 123]

Hey guys, I need a little bit of advice on how to get the right Christmas / Holiday season gift for a few SPs. I don't know a lot about her interests / likes so it's hard to choose something specific. I was thinking of going the generic route and getting chocolates / wine / cash / gift cards but it's a little boring and unimaginative. Plus, I get those things from time to time on regular visits so I was thinking something a little more significant.

So how do you gift a girl you don't know much about?

Here are some of my questions and thoughts:
- I'm guessing I shouldn't ask her directly what exactly she wants as she might be passive / tell me it doesn't matter. Plus, I rather it be a surprise.
- If I buy lingerie, what if it doesn't fit or not her style? Will she be able to return it for cash / gift card? Or is that stuff not returnable?
- I rather it be an object she might use frequently and like, opposed to something that will be quickly consumed.
- Budget is about $300 per SP

Just a few things I've been considering:
-good earphones / Bluetooth speakers
-lingerie set
-luxury leather phone case
-cashmere scarf
-some kind of Swavorski necklace

Any tips of how to pick the right gift or any gift ideas would be much appreciated. Thanks.

 

[Jasmina]

Lingerie would probably be more of a gift to you than her lol. And no, it is often not refundable. I'd go with the necklace.

 

[TFZL1]

If you know her well enough to warrant buying a gift, you might know what she likes.
I know one who needs a good winter coat, another who likes shoes and another who might like a necklace.
Then there’s the one who said she’d rather have cash. Or a massage gift certificate.
I think it’s better to ask her for suggestions if your not sure.
Or, might be fun to take her out shopping with a session to follow

 

[sempel]

Don't know if the particular SP has a wishlist posted on her site so that's a start. If she doesn't, check out other wishlists for other SP's to get some ideas. Gift cards are your best bet.

Of course, having a wishlist is pretty messed up IMO. No offense, but you are getting paid and you also want gifts? I consider that stuck up/arrogant. I think it's nice for a guy to get a frequent regular a gift if he chooses and I'm sure there's some humble ladies who probably deserve it. And I'm not naïve to the concept of generosity or the potential rewards/pleasure of giving one. But the moment you publish a list, you drop a notch in my book. Just my $3.

 

[Mr Bret]

Hey guys, I need a little bit of advice on how to get the right Christmas / Holiday season gift for a few SPs. I don't know a lot about her interests / likes so it's hard to choose something specific. Thanks.

If you don't know a lot about her interests, you don't know her well enough to be buying her gifts.

 

[Samranchoi]

A gift card that can be used at a mall like Yorkdale as there are hundreds of stores that it can be used at as well with a nice bottle of wine or chocolates (Godiva).

 

[godfazha]

Don't know if the particular SP has a wishlist posted on her site so that's a start. If she doesn't, check out other wishlists for other SP's to get some ideas. Gift cards are your best bet.

Of course, having a wishlist is pretty messed up IMO. No offense, but you are getting paid and you also want gifts? I consider that stuck up/arrogant. I think it's nice for a guy to get a frequent regular a gift if he chooses and I'm sure there's some humble ladies who probably deserve it. And I'm not naïve to the concept of generosity or the potential rewards/pleasure of giving one. But the moment you publish a list, you drop a notch in my book. Just my $3.

I agree with you sempel. For me it's a turn off, and seems entitled. A wedding registry has a practical purpose but the wishlist is too much, for me anyways.

 

[MrPrezident]

Do not get them a book. Not a comment on anybody's literary pursuits. Just don't get them a book for Christmas.

 

[DelicateFlow]

I agree with you sempel. For me it's a turn off, and seems entitled. A wedding registry has a practical purpose but the wishlist is too much, for me anyways.

Agreed - the soliciting of gifts seems tacky. Honestly, I would have to know the SP pretty well to provide a gift. It's an industry with self-established rates.....it's not a waitress where you're working for someone else. I don't know. Just seems odd. Employees I tip well - business owners, not as much.

 

[User 123]

Don't know if the particular SP has a wishlist posted on her site so that's a start. If she doesn't, check out other wishlists for other SP's to get some ideas. Gift cards are your best bet.

Of course, having a wishlist is pretty messed up IMO. No offense, but you are getting paid and you also want gifts? I consider that stuck up/arrogant. I think it's nice for a guy to get a frequent regular a gift if he chooses and I'm sure there's some humble ladies who probably deserve it. And I'm not naïve to the concept of generosity or the potential rewards/pleasure of giving one. But the moment you publish a list, you drop a notch in my book. Just my $3.

Only one has a published wishlist so she's not a problem. I've also looked at a few other SPs wishlists, the stuff is usually pretty random except for they all want lingerie.

I love it when they have a published wishlist. They can help you know her better. It's not like they expect clients to bring gifts, it's just there if you want to.

 

[User 123]

A gift card that can be used at a mall like Yorkdale as there are hundreds of stores that it can be used at as well with a nice bottle of wine or chocolates (Godiva).

Yeah but I occasionally get these generic things on regular visits so I was thinking of something more significant other then just a larger gift card value or a bigger box of chocolates.

Seems like a lot of SPs are into wine but it's hard to pick the right one given there are so many different types. And just because a lot of SPs like it some might not care for it

Godiva is for plebs, Teuscher is where it's at.... jk

 

[Samranchoi]

Yeah but I occasionally get these generic things on regular visits so I was thinking of something more significant other then just a larger gift card value or a bigger box of chocolates.

Seems like a lot of SPs are into wine but it's hard to pick the right one given there are so many different types. And just because a lot of SPs like it some might not care for it

Godiva is for plebs, Teuscher is where it's at.... jk

A larger gift card at Yorkdale is oretty nice with the high end stores that they have. I went shopping their once with an SP and she spent over $5,000 on a pair of shoes and a purse with no difficulty. Nothing ordinary about that.

 

[Annalise Lane]

A larger gift card at Yorkdale is oretty nice with the high end stores that they have. I went shopping their once with an SP and she spent over $5,000 on a pair of shoes and a purse with no difficulty. Nothing ordinary about that.

You're a great man to do this for a gal, I'm sure you got a return gift.:rockon::rockon::cheer2:

Let me take a stab at this.
- dollar store basket, now fill it. Don't forget the clear wrap and bow with ribbon.
- cookies/crackers
- wine
- cheese
- bath bombs , lush product testers many of them
- mac little travel bottles
- lovely hand lotion
------------ sub total, 100
One large gift.
- scarf
- sunglasses ( gift receipt included)
- channel purfume
---------------sub total 200
---------------budget achieved 300

Do you need my mailing address or will you bring these when we get naked soon ?
-

 

[sempel]

Agreed - the soliciting of gifts seems tacky. Honestly, I would have to know the SP pretty well to provide a gift. It's an industry with self-established rates.....it's not a waitress where you're working for someone else. I don't know. Just seems odd. Employees I tip well - business owners, not as much.

Then there's the ones that post the info on twitter/social media ("Oh, look at this lovely outfit a client purchased") - really? The flaunting is also messed up.

I like lady's who are humble and down to earth. When I see a girl, I'm focused on her and expect the same. If her head's in the clouds thinking about all the shit she wants to purchase or the gifts she wishes for, she's not very engaged and not my idea of a good time. Nothing wrong with a person who earns money spending it. But flaunting it is something else. Not too many like this but there are a few MPA's I've seen like this.

 

[mclarkez1980]

I agree with you sempel. For me it's a turn off, and seems entitled. A wedding registry has a practical purpose but the wishlist is too much, for me anyways.

This
No faster way to unfollow a lady on twitter than seeing a post about "being in need of a spa day real bad" or how "these shoes would look amazing on me". This and wishlists are ridiculous and are an absolute show stopper. If you can't figure out her likes/interests from regular conversation I don't know what to say.

A few outside-the-box ideas that I've done in the past; most ladies these days have pets so some treats or toys are an idea. Also, perhaps there is a cause that is near-and-dear to her and a donation to that effort can be made.

 

[PrufrockCumming]

I've done the diamond necklace and earrings in the past and the reaction has been been incredible. No regrets so far.

 

[The "Bone" Ranger]

jewellery

 

[malata]

nice wooden picture frame, with your picture in it

 

[Samranchoi]

nice wooden picture frame, with your picture in it

That would make the perfect re-gift, minus the picture which would go in the garbage, lol.

 

[legmann]

I love it when they have a published wishlist. They can help you know her better.

But that's hardly 'knowing' someone, is it? I can do the same with a literal stranger.