No I wouldn't say 4.9" is small, you guys have to stop comparing average dicks to porn and thinking anything compared to a 10" dick is small. SMALL would probably be in the 3.5" erect range, it's a little hard to have sex if it's that small, or if someone has most of their shaft inside under a big belly for instance. The average penis is 5-5.1", this is average so 4.9" is not small, it's only slightly below average, and baring having a big gut getting in the way from either party can still work well for many people. Myself I know I have a sensitive cervix so even more than 6" is too big, I'm plenty fine with slightly below, average, to slightly above average size. I've seen a few guys who were largish, but everyone is different, sometimes it's really really thick, others it's long and thin, some are really big but only get half hard and that's not the greatest to deal with either. Talking to girls I know it's only a small few who really like large penises but they generally experiment more with larger toys or even fisting, I just can't handle it.