There are too many personal preferences, and emotions at play for an objective review. Not to mention we're talking about people not cars.
Terb handle: Yes or No?
- Thread starter essguy_
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Some clients like to be able to write anonymous reviews without the SP knowing his Terb handle. I don't know why that is hard for some people to understand.
Sometimes they fear that if they say anything even remotely negative about the SP, she will refuse to see him again.
Sometimes they fear that if they say anything even remotely negative about the SP, she will refuse to see him again.
I usually wait a few weeks before posting unless I'm not coming back.
I didn't realise that dancers are reading these even if they aren't participating. One dancer sat down beside me saying that based on past posts on dick size and dating habits I posted on Terb a few girls thought they knew who I was. I feigned ignorance as I don't think Terb membership is necessarily looked at in a positive light.
Considering some of the posts I've seen some of the members on this board make, I really don't blame them for viewing being a TERB member in a negative light.
Hell, I had one girl beg me not to review her on another board because she didn't want any members as clients.
On, another board, there was a discussion about whether some ladies avoid TERB members:
This quote started the thread: "Frankly, I try to avoid men off terb"..."I gave up on terb long ago. I only use it now to help me determine who I will NOT see."
Sex workers are far more likely to be victims of sexual violence.
When you have a board whose membership will make threads and posts denouncing rape victims, I can't say I blame them.
By that same token, there are a few SPs I would consider to be a solid avoid based on their behavior on this and other boards.
I'm fairly certain some members make initial contact with each other via Terb private messaging to arrange dates Whatever works for individuals
Still no post to this thread by the guy(s) (cough cough) who without shame, mention that they bring up TERB as part of sessions pretty regularly.
Or those that seem to use messaging here to develop or foster provider/client relationships.
That is because he very rarely ventures into the Lounge area of the site. I assume he is afraid to get into it with the other members who rarely venture out beyond the Lounge area.
I have discussed issues from one or two review boards with lady's I've seen... In fact I have shown them the reviews I write as a courtesy to the lady. (for one lady, I also sent her the text of a review that she could not access without "VIP" status -- I had VIP status for a couple months, lol, but it expired).
Violet got a big laugh out of what I wrote about her on TERB.
I did part 2 as well... I have fostered a relationship -- with initial contact on review boards... (not necessarily TERB, which I used less often then other boards). However of note, my only "friend" on Terb is a lady who I was trying to arrange a meeting with, but our schedules never messed and she left the business before we had a chance to hook up (I have three friends on another boards who I've actually seen).
Exactly... it makes sense to see what kind of character the guy has... and avoid nasty ones or ones with dangerous ideas. In that respect, I have no fear of any Lady reading my posts and I will tell the lady if I post a review.
Haha, nothing too crazy I don't think. But I was much younger when I joined this board. Who knows what crazy shit I said!Oooh.. what have you got lurking around in your profile?
Again, by that same token, I know ladies to avoid based on their posting history.
I had been to see one lady a couple times and will never do so again after she made a few pretty openly racist posts. Most people here are probably well aware of my feelings about another frequent poster. She's too far away from me but on principle, I would never go to see her based on her behavior on another board.
For me knowing a clients terb handle isn't necessary. Half the time the clients I get from terb are either not even members of the board or they rarely ever post at all. Neither circumstances indicates to me whether or not a gent will be a good client or not. If my client is an active board member and wants me to know who he is then I don't mind that. I'll check out his posts, topics and reviews. If he doesn't want to share it or doesn't have it then it's not a big deal to me. There are other ways for me to screen so that I can feel safe.
yep... though in my case it was more about enjoying her sense of humor in the lady's post that attracted me to see her...
when you have fun just exchanging messages it bodes well for the session.
Oh, I've totally enjoyed the flip side of the coin too. I got to know a couple ladies exchanging messages here and when we finally met, that sense of familiarity was already there.
Even though I met some awesome and wonderful ladies because we connected on terb just because of a topic that was being discussed I donÂ’t think itÂ’s a good idea at all despite being good or bad or whatever else your ego wants to label you on here. ItÂ’s a form of manipulation, and takes away from forming that real connection that happens during a good to awesome session between a client and provider. Although if they figure it out on their own without any of your nonsense then itÂ’s all good. I think just respect them and leave your ego and all this other manipulation bullshit on the other side of the door and who knows even the rain in the sky won’t get in way.
nothing fucks up your will and ability to post an honest review as remembering that you have stupidly disclosed your handle
