Why do YOU go to strip clubs?

[WillingtoSpend]

I'll share first, for me it's the variety of women that is usually in the club. While appearance is one thing, sometimes the personality, and the intangible "chemistry" trump what I had thought I would be attracted to.

Secondly, is the safety and "legality" aspect to the club. I have not ventured outside SCs because I see a lot of downside and risk involved with contacting an escort (I might be misinformed). A SC provides a safe place, albeit not the full sexual experience, to wet your appetite. And if you are resourceful enough, there are dancers who are fine with making additional arrangements if you are a good, respectful/paying customer.

I look forward to your posts.

WTS

 

[GoinDown91]

for the free lunch ! it's a no brainer

 

[HOLLYWOODG]

High density of naked women in one place! I like the feeling on so many women approaching me for a dance. After a long day at work it helps recharge me!

 

[ElCapitain]

Sometimes I just go because I feel like a beer after work before going home. Usually not intending to end up in the CR but always seem to.

The nice thing about SCs (compared to all the other adult options, MAs and SPs, etc.) is the lack of pressure, the variety, and the conversation. Maybe this girl is interesting, maybe she isn't, doesn't cost you all that much to find out. No appointments. Drop in when you like, leave when you feel like it. Conversation is a much bigger part of the whole experience than other services, and the girls are usually talkative and fun to talk to.

 

[r__d_ott]

All interesting responses full of excellent and understandable reasons for enjoying the SC experience.

One of things I enjoy the most in an SC is when I'm just slowly soaking in the atmosphere, enjoying the stage shows, glancing around and then, seemingly all of a sudden, out of the CR or dressing room emerges a dancer who just immediately takes my attention and one thinks "wow, so lovely, just gorgeous". It's a fun moment when it happens. Doesn't have to be an unfamiliar or new dancer, this feeling can happen with a fave or someone vaguely remembered but either way when your "type" walks out onto the floor or up on stage it's one of the best aspects of the SC experience.

 

[r__d_ott]

I've never seen or heard of a person joining an Escort Review Board only to continually condemn SPs for the very same reasons that are also found with Dancers while promoting SCs and Dancers, I find this hypocritical. The same points keep being brought up again and again on a weekly basis. Also, paying for someone to be naked, sit or grind on you while you kiss, hug and touch her is sexual. No one else here condemns any type of provider found on this forum. Seeing this person continually behave in this manner is starting to make me regret having aided this person in having terb create this SC section.

WIR

Referring to the comments in question as "condemnation" strikes this poster as somewhat exaggerated. While one may take the view (I don't share this outlook, but that is not really the issue here) that there is some mild "hypocrisy" involved with someone who enthuses about the SC experience but has concerns regarding the potential risks involved with SPs/MAs, it seems to me that the post that appears to have annoyed you is quite explicitly explanatory regarding the individual's personal reasons for avoiding SPs in the current legislative climate and does not "condemn" certain "type of provider found on this forum".

My take on the post would be that the individual is concerned about an inabilty to "screen" in an SP situation in order to avoid being involved in situations of concern to him and feels that the SC environment provides more comfort (although not 100% as he notes) in this regard.

 

[HUGS_KISSES]

First off I NEVER condemned SPs but rather have simply stated that seeing SPs is risky with given reasons under the current legislative environment. I see the comments accusing me so falsely of condemning SPs as a likely deliberate distortion of my comments and even a possible personal attack. I was myself an outcall-only hobbyist prior to 2013 when seeing SPs was legal in outcall situations so please don't accuse me of being against SPs. Second I simply responded to the OP who asked for (my) reasons for going to strip bars over other alternatives (I assume all other alternatives like seeing SP is one of them but also dance bars or having a girlfriend or wife....etc and I provided reasons for all of above).

The OP himself commented the safety and legality as one of his reasons and I stated same reasons with expanded comments. If you have concerns regarding the illegality of this hobby then please address them to those who brought in new laws on seeing SPs and not me for just stating the facts as they are. In other words please don't shoot the messenger. I think that however, you appear very sensitive to any comment which may even remotely appears to go against your personal choices (and they are your personal choices and NONE of my business) I clearly see your comments WIR as a total overreaction to my comments which was a simple response to the thread!!!!!!!!.

In my comments I stated MY reasons and there were 5 reasons. If you don't agree with my reasons (which btw are MY reasons) then you can debate and counter my comments as why you don't have those reasons or why it is safer or less risky or more legal to see SPs over dancers and strip bars but you should not try to censor my response (or anyone's comments) to a thread which was clearly asking for my reasons as why I go to strip bars or other comments I may have on the forum. It is a choice and what you or others choose is NONE of my business. To each their own. I did encourage in the past that gentlemen should come more often to strip bars and take dancers to CR (this is why we are here to promote dancers and SCs) but I NEVER said you or anyone else should or should not see SPs. Simply none of my business and to each their own.

At the end I do understand that being on an escort review board even with an independent strip bar section I should likely be more tactful about my comments as it appears clearly you have been offended (to my total surprise as I can't understand why!!!!) even though we were friends (and I hope we still are) on the board as we have exchanged a large number of friendly PMs. I therefore pledge to be more careful in all my future posting not to offend any individual or individuals. Also I do acknowledge and I am grateful to your past support for creating the strip bar section and thus another reason for my earlier pledge.

As a proof for how much I am grateful to your past support in creating Strip Bar section and value your friendship I deleted my post and my apology for offending you.

ps - Thank you so much r__d for your supporting comments. You are a true gentleman.

 

[GoinDown91]

@bobbiz you need to check out Trinity a daytime ebony girl at Pigale. Monstrous heavy naturals 38DD+ and verrrry
friendly in the CR.

 

[Jugo]

I go to stripclubs to get drunk AF and see as many sexy black girls with BIG TITS twerking their asses on stage. :dance:

Oh I don't mind the hot fit blondes with fake tits either lol.

I find there are usually a lot of black girls at the PM. I only tried one and her service was over the top; the rest seem very friendly to me and enthusiastic

 

[HUGS_KISSES]

Yes since you love ebony ladies so much then Taboo and Playmates are best fit for your liking bobbiz (more so Taboo than Playmates). I can't recommend one as I am into pale dancers and very rarely go to those two clubs but I am sure you will find plenty very much to your liking with higher than average mileage especially in Taboo. I may also add that Saturday daytime at Barefax there could be a good selection of ebony ladies after 5, likely more attractive (if you like taller and slim ebony ladies) than Taboo and PM before more dancers start showing up later after 8:00 pm.

 

[swizzlechest]

T&A everywhere i look. musics, girls pretending to want to dance for me, random people around, loud music so i can't hear other people and cold beer. probably more reasons i'm not thinking of now


I have always though SC sections on forums were filled with schills. i get wrestless reading them because of all the bs comments. hopefully enough people here lay out the good and bad as they see it

 

[Kilt Boy]

I have always though SC sections on forums were filled with shills. i get restless reading them because of all the bs comments. Hopefully enough people here lay out the good and bad as they see it.

This is not like stripclublist. No anonymous posters or owners shooting shit at each other. These are actual patrons giving actual reviews.

 

[HUGS_KISSES]

Why do I go to strip bars? because to me strip bars are the promised HEAVEN on EARTH that we all wish for. Where else on earth you and I can find so many nude (or semi nude) young and mostly beautiful ladies coming to us asking us to take them (upstairs) or chat for free and not to mention the combination of music and alcohol and nudity? And we don't have to die even to go there!!!. Honestly I don't think even heaven would be that good.

 

[GoinDown91]

I'm not a SC regular but when I do go its to blow a load between my favourite dancers' tits !

 

[TheRiddlerMan]

That might make the whole "hugs and kisses" thing less appealing for the next guy. That's one thing you have to keep in mind about strip clubs though, the sheer number of guys passing through the gates.

I'm not a SC regular but when I do go its to blow a load between my favourite dancers' tits !

 

[HUGS_KISSES]

Most dancers (especially true at Barefax where a change room is right in front of the CRs) clean up after each CR session and likely all after any load is unloaded on them. This should not be a deterrence to see dancers but if choosy (like I am) select the ones just started the day or the ones you know for a long time and who are dancers only or the ones you see them going to wash room (to wash out) after each session.

 

[jay1972]

It's simple, when I drink alone at the Dominion next I'm an alcoholic, but when i drink alone at the fax I'm just a perv

 

[Kilt Boy]

That might make the whole "hugs and kisses" thing less appealing for the next guy. That's one thing you have to keep in mind about strip clubs though, the sheer number of guys passing through the gates.

"That's why I never kiss 'em on the mouth."
- Adam Baldwin as Jayne Cobb, Firefly

 

[HUGS_KISSES]

The problem may be between the tits though (or elsewhere) not necessarily confined to mouth. Just saying.

 

[ElCapitain]

I'm not a SC regular but when I do go its to blow a load between my favourite dancers' tits !

I must be going to the wrong SCs... I've never had a girl even suggest I could do this in an SC.