What is GFE from an MPA?

[Christiangus]

Within the "strict confines of an MPA allowables", what is to be expected from an MPA who advertises as a GFE? I was recently asked this by a new to the biz MPA who was on terb. I have to say I couldn't answer with any degree of certainty as I'm not sure I've experienced a GFE MPA. I pose this question hoping to open up a general discussion.

I'm pretty familiar with the term as it applies to an independent or agency escort. When seeing an escort for the first time there should be a to and fro effort to establish a personal connection and a sense of familiarity. When repeating there should be an effort at "So glad you to see you again!", a quick catch up, etc. I expect a GFE escort experience to include a decent array of foreplay, clothes on/and or off, getting one another undressed and enjoying half way points (this is the sexiest), kissing (not pecking) with progress to DFK. A sense of mutual respect and enjoyment, which implies an escort is enjoying what you do and allows you to explore her erotically within her comfort zone, and a friendly hello and goodbye with an invitation to return as you are the best lover ever! Given most girlfriends I've experienced have not really delved into the art of blow jobs, and are not as experienced as many of our SPs, an escort BJ, and hopefully always BBBJ, is a definite bonus, and to me expected as I am always clean. I guess YMMV would be the wild card of PMS, headache, too full, too tired, you pissed her off by ogling the waitress etc. You just don't know sometimes https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DHzjgNoRmjg

Clearly MPA's are not technically allowed to do all of this so what the heck does it mean? If it's just they act friendly, happy , and interested, than almost all I've seen are GFE.

 

[Mr Bret]

This has been discussed many times and there has never been a clear consensus as to what exactly it describes.
It's a subjective term and almost everyone has their own definition or understanding.
When it comes to MPAs, from a clarity POV, it's about the same as when someone says "all within MPA limits". Again, a very grey area. A sliding scale, if you will.

 

[oldjones]

As a wise but humble TERBian once said: "A sense of mutual respect and enjoyment, which implies a MPA is enjoying what you do and allows you to explore her erotically within her comfort zone".

Even if you chose to spend your entire time prone and supine, receiving her massage attentions, a GF would be enjoying the mutual E she was providing, as would you.

And as a Hollywood wise guy once said, "the key is sincerity; once you can fake that, you're there."

 

[IM469]

It's a more complete service ... very similar to your experience with a girlfriend. Typically when you finish you take out her trash and then run out and buy her a box of feminine pads from the neighbourhood grocery store.

 

[moustache mike]

It's a more complete service ... very similar to your experience with a girlfriend. Typically when you finish you take out her trash and then run out and buy her a box of feminine pads from the neighbourhood grocery store.

..... ive done the take out the trash and deliver pads to an mpa......still didnt feel like a GFE experience. .. more like a WIFEX...

 

[ElCapitain]

For a serious answer, you can read Tolleman's/Urban Cowboy's definition of GFE for massage here: https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?556895-The-big-list-of-Ottawa-MAs-who-provide-GFE

That's kind of a low bar. My own personal definition of GFE for massage includes those things plus at least one of DATY or digits. Doesn't necessarily include anything else. Ideally the intangibles should be there too though, like a sense of passion/appreciation that you're there. Some MPAs are extraordinarily good at this aspect of it, which is understandable because they don't have as many tools to work with to keep you coming back as SPs.

 

[Christiangus]

Thanks guys this is kind of what I thought. Subject to interpretation but hopefully broader than the low bar definition above (thread above). Something intangible and maybe extra that makes you want to come back works for me.

 

[Conil]

I think no BJ or FS.