What advice would you give a new sp?

[frankcastle]

So I was trying to book this girl and I ended a text with "hope you have a busy day"

She replied "well it's my second day."

So I gave her some advice which she was appreciative of I told her

1) be firm on your prices regardless of good reviews etc

2) keep your money safe, hidden, ideally in a second room (she uses hotels)

3) don't text back clients..... her room was not ready so she tried to text back clients to reschedule.

4) in the even of a delay rather than push back all customers give the one customer the choice of a shorter session, later session or cancel.

5) don't leave valuables or personal information lying around the room

6) don't accept drinks or food

7) give a cushion of time in case room is not ready

The first time I tried to book her was a fail. The second time I booked again it was a fail. She was getting discouraged and overwhelmed (to which I gave her the advice on scheduling)

Anyways, not sure why I took the time to give her these tips I think most guys after two failed attempts to make a date would move on. I was just genuinely trying to be helpful and I think she appreciated it. She asked me if we could meet and talk. But I was busy so we chatted over the phone regarding safety and booking.

So any other advice you guys or girls would give her?

I told her no shows were common as she was upset with that. I suggested that she have people text to confirm an hour before if they book an appointment far in advance.

 

[mrcheeks]

In terms of service, treat the customer like they are the only guy that matters to her for the booked time they have with her. With this mindset then providing good service usually becomes easier.

 

[stinkynuts]

1)Treat the customer well. Focus on quality, not quantity. Many sps are only about the money and rush the sessions, or are not into them. Enjoy your work (and it is work). Put the effort into making the customer happy and you will find yourself with happy customers who will repeat and you will be happy too.

2)See only customers when you are able to provide good service. Cancel otherwise. The client will understand and he would rather not have a session at all than a lousy one.

3)Greet the client warmly with a hug and kiss. First impressions are important.

4)Be yourself. Be friendly, polite, and professional.

5)Ask for the money first, if not offered, and hide it in a safe place.

6)Ask the customer what they would like. Get feedback throughout the session. Explain what the restrictions are, and hold them to it. Never let them go over the boundaries.

7)Ask them to take a shower first, and offer fresh towels. Also offer mouthwash.

8)Have proper security measures in place.

9)Never accept a client if your gut tells you something is wrong. Trust your instincts.

10)Always thank the client and ask them to see you again if you want to.

11)Save your hard-earned money and invest it. Don't spend it all on friviolous things. If you are escorting, it is usually a last resort, and you don't have access to better opportunities. Escorting is not something many people do for many years.

12)Never get emotionally involved with a client. It will not work out, and you will end up hurt.

 

[Chloë.]

I'm going to have to slightly disagree with number 11. I'd remove the part about this usually being a last resort. For MANY it isn't, in fact many of us are in school and/or have careers and are doing this as a way to fast track our financial goals...

 

[ChadBen]

I don't know if this was mentioned maybe its too obvious but: safe sex & stay healthy. Proper condom use, get tested often and keep yourself clean after every session. I noticed many SPs don't even shower after sessions, I can tell because they smelled really bad and they already put their clothes on ready for the next client. You don't want body fluids to stay on your body; plus for respect of the client paying. But I do understand taking 20 showers a day could be a pain

 

[Caelus]

* The guys are paying for your time, don t text or play on your phone while in session and don't rush them out until the time is up.
* Never use fake pics... you will lose clients
* Connect with other SPs and befriend them...they can show you the ropes
* Use social media for marketing: Twitter is quite good for that
* Have a website: a basic and simple website is better than none
* Read the review boards, you will learn a lot about people's expectations
* Being SP is frustrating, be cool, be organized and you will do fine

 

[frankcastle]

* The guys are paying for your time, don t text or play on your phone while in session and don't rush them out until the time is up.
* Never use fake pics... you will lose clients
* Connect with other SPs and befriend them...they can show you the ropes
* Use social media for marketing: Twitter is quite good for that
* Have a website: a basic and simple website is better than none
* Read the review boards, you will learn a lot about people's expectations
* Being SP is frustrating, be cool, be organized and you will do fine

Tough to befriend other girls in the business. Of course I don't have experience in that.

I've heard of girls making fake appointments on other girls.

I've also heard of girls saying why share my moves with another girl (in massage parlours).

Like anything else I'm sure there are good and bad people out there.

 

[maniac1911]

My advice is try to build building a loyal client base. As in real life sometimes the best customers are current customers. Try to find a niche that you are good at. I think the top girls that I have been with are not about purely looks but around service and making there client feel like they matter.

 

[explorerzip]

I'm going to have to slightly disagree with number 11. I'd remove the part about this usually being a last resort. For MANY it isn't, in fact many of us are in school and/or have careers and are doing this as a way to fast track our financial goals...

I think most ladies are being careful with their money and have a career outside of escorting. But there are also people out there (and this is not isolated to escorts) that love to spend their money on trinkets, trips, etc.

 

[DELETDrileydaniels]

since clearly this needs the touches of SPs.

11 and 12 I slightly disagree

11)Save your hard-earned money and invest it. Don't spend it all on friviolous things. If you are escorting, it is usually a last resort, and you don't have access to better opportunities. Escorting is not something many people do for many years.

12)Never get emotionally involved with a client. It will not work out, and you will end up hurt.

[/QUOTE]

Having savings is always a good thing. spending money on frivolous things well that really depends on your definition on it. Becoming a SP we come in for many different reasons which is something not everyone gets to figure out right away or they figure it out while they go through the process of working. Whatever the reasons of getting in just make sure its for your own reasons and not someone else's

As for 12 - we are human - if you fall for a client you need to set those boundaries right away whatever happens in that situation being honest and boundaries is the only way you will get out of it.

 

[stinkynuts]

I'm going to have to slightly disagree with number 11. I'd remove the part about this usually being a last resort. For MANY it isn't, in fact many of us are in school and/or have careers and are doing this as a way to fast track our financial goals...

Yes, that is true. Many escorts are doing it because of the freedom it gives them, and enjoy the work. For them it is an easy way to make money. Others are in a tight situation and need to escort to make ends meet.

 

[mackdaddyo]

1. Steal pics off the internet that kinda look like you and use in ad.
2. Offer services over text and quickly declare "I didn't say that" when the client arrives.
3. Book as many clients at once and make them all wait in their cars and string them along for as long as you can
4. When the client arrives act like you are "all that and a bag of chips"
5. Demand money upon arrival. Count in front of client like you think he is trying to rip you off
6. Refuse to make eye contact the entire appointment and act like the client is a disgusting piece of shit.
7. Look at your phone the entire time the guy is trying to fuck you (they love that)
8. 10 mins in start continually asking "are you gonna cum?"... or say "cum for me " over and over then at 15 mins say his hh appointment is up
9. Hold the condom on the entire coitus acting like every stroke is absolute hell.
10. Throw used condom wrappers around the bed and just leave there.
11. Fill the trash in the bath with spent condoms as a display.
12. Have no fresh towels and act pissed off when asked for one or better yet... fold up an old one with a slight shit stain and present as new.
13. Don't shower between appointments and use a wet nap MAX every 3rd dude.

Repeat these instructions for at least 8-10 clients a day.

 

[Ref]

* Get out now while you are young and have a life ahead of you.
* All it takes is one stalker to fuck your life over.
* Dick cheese with a side of swamp ass is not worth $250 an hour.

 

[IRIS]

* Dick cheese with a side of swamp ass .

Hoohoohoo! What a menu!!

 

[DaleyDDD]

Tough to befriend other girls in the business. Of course I don't have experience in that.

I've heard of girls making fake appointments on other girls.

I've also heard of girls saying why share my moves with another girl (in massage parlours).

Like anything else I'm sure there are good and bad people out there.

I agree with most of your initial post, have a different take on the second...

While there is some truth in what you say here, it's not the be all and end all. Yes, sadly some girls will make fake appointments, and many girls are competitive, we're not all inherently backstabing meanies. At the end of the day, it's to everyone's benefit to give other girls a hand because let's face it, this isn't the easiest industry to be involved in. And further more, NOT being a total b**** is much more attractive to most potential clients. I've had clients visit me strictly based on what I've said about other girls on here and Twitter, or for other girls recommending me which I return the favour. Life isn't all butterflies and unicorns but why not do our part and try a little?

Social events. Go to them. Bother SP only and group parties with the clients. Just be careful about the ones you attend. *cough cough* don't get ties up in poopfest socials *cough cough* :croc:

 

[MissCroft]

And further more, NOT being a total b**** is much more attractive to most potential clients. I've had clients visit me strictly based on what I've said about other girls on here and Twitter

This. In the past, I have recommended other ladies when I was not available. It's good karma.

 

[kherg007]

This. In the past, I have recommended other ladies when I was not available. It's good karma.

I will admit that ladies who do recommend other ladies rise in my estimation, and quite a lot too. In fact went out of the way to book a 2 hr visit (vs the normal 1 hr) once with a lady who recommended someone else when the first lady was not available just to reward such a kind and classy move.

 

[Brill]

Do be kind to other escorts, even if they are nasty.
Do bank your money or pay down debts.
Do collect receipts for everything if you're declaring income.

Don't let people know you're new and unsure of yourself.
Don't engage with texters you don't like.
Don't go beyond your boundaries.
Don't post face pics.

 

[nottyboi]

I'm going to have to slightly disagree with number 11. I'd remove the part about this usually being a last resort. For MANY it isn't, in fact many of us are in school and/or have careers and are doing this as a way to fast track our financial goals...

For some its a last resort, people in that catagory should find another way. If people can deal with the profession and keep their wits, its a great way to make a lot of money quickly.

 

[oil&gas]

5)Ask for the money first, if not offered, and hide it in a safe place.

Exercise extra caution if the client has to be asked. It is
pretty much an unwritten rule in the business that the sp
is to be paid first before session begins.