Do you tell anyone that you hobby?

[Conway_Stewart]

Some guys seem to talk pretty openly with friends, co-workers, etc about their hobbying activities. Personally, I can't imagine talking to anyone in my "real life" about the fact that I visit escorts.

Just wondering what other guys here do?

 

[Frosty]

I haven't kept it a secret. I don't think I really care what others think about my activities. There are some who accept it and some of these people even participated once or a few times themselves. To each other's comfort zone.

 

[GPIDEAL]

I tell only my male friends, I think women would be more judgmental about it and would think I'm creepy guy

Only certain guys. I'm also single. The office sorta knows I play around but I don't brag or advertise.

 

[oil&gas]

My life is an open book. I've told some friends about
my need of regular therapeutic treatment for a stiff
neck and to get the kinks out.

 

[janus]

I've told my partner and a couple of good friends who can keep their mouths shut, but nobody else. Also, I don't think of this as a hobby.

 

[Conway_Stewart]

I've told my partner and a couple of good friends who can keep their mouths shut, but nobody else. Also, I don't think of this as a hobby.

What would you consider this to be?

Just wondering how you'd define or label it?

 

[GPIDEAL]

My life is an open book. I've told some friends about
my need of regular therapeutic treatment for a stiff
neck and to get the kinks out.

Seriously, for single guys or those in a sexless relationship, it is a sort of therapy. Keeps the plumbing working, the mind clear, and the body de-stressed.

 

[happydog]

I am single as well. With guy friends I have hinted/joked about it
Also I already know that 3 out of 4 of them have cheated in various ways and times.
They are not judging me for sure and they know I am a big strip club guy anyways.

 

[Born2Star]

Seriously with all the prides and whatever matters activities shouldn't we all come out of closet on this too?!? I'm getting s & t of worrying being judged !

 

[Worf]

Only those ladies I hobby with...

 

[kstanb]

not something I will say to everybody, specially ladies. but not a secret.
the beauty of being single

 

[Celticman]

My secret

 

[xmontrealer]

If you're in a relationship and don't think it would be too great if your "significant other" found out about your "hobbying", I say don't tell a soul.

"Loose lips sink ships!"

 

[M4F]

Ahhh....the benefits of being happily NOT married.:thumb:

 

[Born2Star]

Do you talk about your hobby to your female friends ? I find canadian women are more judgmental about paid sex compared for example to German women. I hosted german travelers here and some german women even started this topic without knowing my hobby and were very open to talk about red light districts in Germany as if it was something very socially acceptable for men in Germany to go to those places.
canadian women would just think you're a creepy guy

I feel the same re ladies from Europe vs North America.

 

[corrie fan]

I feel the same re ladies from Europe vs North America.

A few years ago I saw a TV show about the difference between sexual attitudes of Europeans and Americans. An interviewer asked 4 young European women if they carried condoms with them. They all said yes. The interviewer asked them to prove it. They opened their purses and provided the proof. Some young American women were asked if they would date a man who carried condoms with him. They were horrified with the idea! They said they wanted nothing to do with a guy who was that ready to have sex. This difference in attitude probably is a reason why the abortion rate in Europe is much less than in North America.

 

[Amarcord]

Some guys seem to talk pretty openly with friends, co-workers, etc about their hobbying activities. Personally, I can't imagine talking to anyone in my "real life" about the fact that I visit escorts.

Just wondering what other guys here do?

I don't hide it, guys now ask me for the best SPA's to go to.

 

[Mr. Piggy]

Seeing sp's and being on terb is a skeleton in my closet. No one knows.

 

[GEMSHINER]

Told a "Buddy" a few years back ,kinda swapped stories..He recently went through a split and in the heat of an argument with his then SO ,what do you think came up?I was able to convince my SO ,he was desperate and slinging shit any way he could to hurt .She bought it after several other "Buddies" he brought up got together and collectively called him a liar...Whewww...
Now it's just me and my dog that know

 

[FTWWTF]

My closest friends know. My wife knows my past, and we have an agreement I can only see providers for BBBJs only . And we have hobbied a few times together, always a good time. None of my family knows tho.