Lily Divine Tells ALL ~ My Parting Words Of Wisdom!
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Most of my clients are gems but there have been a few that left me with my head shaking. When I have to ask a man to lift up his belly in order to find his sunken cock it is not at all appealing. I do wash my clients before I service them which most appreciate but some have complained about. I use a disinfectant. Most of them get hard during the process. This process has been suggested to me by a doctor. I wouldn't suck a cock i had not washed. yuk.
A long stated and often forgotten sentiment!
P.S. Bush pussy nearly made me choke with laughter.
Same Marla!!!
OMG I'm grinning. That's why I frequently shower with people. Hands on detailing!!!
Firstly thank you for the well wishes.
Secondly it's interesting you say that... Those I spend time with would be mortified to do many of the above. Those who are likely to engage in these behaviours seem to steer clear of someone like myself, or be screened out.
While I can see your point that it is essentially a service industry position... indicating that the above is part of taking the bad with the good is akin to saying we should not anticipate that someone entering a fine dining establishment would have bathed, use utensils and refrain from loudly releasing the flatulence from their body throughout the course of their meal.
Not trying to be contrary here but this isn't a drive through and you're not within the confines of your own space. I'm quite sure that everyone is entitled to safe, sanitary employment conditions. Especially if it's such a personal experience.
Just some thoughts on the matter.
P. S. I forgot you're not familiar with me. I've got a 'real' job. This has been my 'fun' job. Perhaps shocking to you but not all providers are SP's 24/7.
Fun post LD.
For the other ladies, please take note and consider SF2. When the penis is hard, it is easier to clean than when it is flaccid with folds around the head. Give the man a hand, and it will come out cleaner... for YOU.
If it were easy to be an sp, and make sp money, then many more women would do it, thus driving down rates. So it's actually in the ladies favour (financially) that it is occasionally as unappealing a job as it is.
Lilly sounds very smart, I'm sure this fact has already occurred to her, but I'll point it out all the same.
Lilly sounds very smart, I'm sure this fact has already occurred to her, but I'll point it out all the same.
Dentistry is "barrier to entry" because they manage the number of dentists graduating each year.
Prostitution is unfettered capitalism. No barrier to entry (any man or woman can enter the profession, no degree or certification by a governing body needed) . Strictly supply and demand. Capitalism at its best.
So Lily, tell us what' really on your mind?? :applouse:
Had I known you were leaving, I would have wished you well in person when I last saw you recently. All the best babe!! You were one of the first SP's I met here and I wish you nothing but the best in your future endeavors.
Reaper
Had I known you were leaving, I would have wished you well in person when I last saw you recently. All the best babe!! You were one of the first SP's I met here and I wish you nothing but the best in your future endeavors.
Reaper
Lily, I just got back online today.
It was great to see you at that cruise last week.
You alluded to something, and it's obvious that it's been bugging you to the point that you had to let off some steam (which is good) with your rant here.
I hope we can re-connect in the time left, and take care of yourself in the meantime.
It was great to see you at that cruise last week.
You alluded to something, and it's obvious that it's been bugging you to the point that you had to let off some steam (which is good) with your rant here.
I hope we can re-connect in the time left, and take care of yourself in the meantime.
Marlas stories are awesome... she is crazy inventive with her writing.
This is absolutely accurate and why I skipped makeup and went for Jacuzzi suites, or showers for 2 for the past few years. Something I will maintain in my personal life starting 2017!
I have a visual of Marla working in a health club but it is a naughty one!
*chuckle* If it had been a matter of a break I wouldn't have given as much notice as I possibly could. Thank you for the well wishes... It's appreciated.
I think people actually feel it is hard or easy depending on their perspective... I have been incredibly fortunate during my time as a SP.
That said... 4 of the images were directly related to my own rants. I just have the ability to be in a position to voice things others wish they could voice. In some ways it has been an interesting circumstance which came out of these images. You see the gentlemen who heeded them the most, and have sent messages to me directly saying they were sorry if they ever did any of the things involved were the ones who had the least amount of need to worry. There were some men who were grievously offended and in many cases the ladies who have seen them have at times privately indicated there was an issue upon seeing the gentleman respond.
With regards to your reference to it being in our favour... I am going to say that in some ways I have recently come to feel that there is almost a 'chic' or 'trendy' concept around being a SP. That has actually been very positive with respect to variety, but has made some like myself very fearful for those who enter into being a SP for those reasons. Being an SP will take a very unique toll on your psyche... Before, during and after departure.
Before you have to really have your head on straight or things can get scary. Very, very quickly things can go downhill if you do not research, and enter this with your head on straight.
During you will be faced with the potential for a 'bad review', 'bad call' (not talking about unshowered men but violent experiences), navigating your life around those who party/drink/etc., getting caught up in the easy money mentality, getting put in the position of people relying on you financially because THEY feel it's easy money if they know you are a SP, struggling for financial legitimacy, struggling to keep your personal life private, struggling to maintain personal relationships, and the wear and tear on your body.
After you will have to live with the realities of civilian life... There are three things most successful SP's have told me they miss most:
1. Financial freedom with the awareness that they can potentially always make more.
2. The social life that they experience... It may be professional in nature but when you reach a certain point there are dinners, travel, and experiences more so than a romp in a hotel room.
3. The positive words, and touch. It astounds me how many men are so free with positive words, compliments and caresses for their SP, and yet in personal lives they forget that these would be wanted and welcome.
A book would be a heck of an idea. Perhaps some day one will be written but it would never have names, and would never be tied to a persona.Will TERB ever be the same without Lily Divine? Maybe she is retiring to write a book. Hopefully a "roman a clef" -- i.e. no real names!)
This made me laugh... Because my first naughty thought was:
No that's a dental dam.
*looks around innocently*
To a point this can be accurate, but there will always be the caveat that longevity requires skill and/or visual appeal. In other words you require a marketable product... I am a fortunate woman to hit both aspects.
Don't let us keep you up... clearly you need to be sent for a nap.
Mmmm double negatives make me twitch... Glad I know you are being bratty here.
Thanks hun! Perhaps we can grab a coffee before I vanish into the sunset?
Actually only 4 of these were mine, and mine alone. We will absolutely connect in the time I have left...
What are your thoughts on more screening for your clients? do you thing that would had "filtered" out some of the bad apples?
I mean, having to fill a form, giving references, etc before getting access to your phone # or email address can discourage some of these time wasters
I mean, having to fill a form, giving references, etc before getting access to your phone # or email address can discourage some of these time wasters
4... Count them... 4... were mine. Crazy thing is no one asked which ones were mine yet. LOL - Others had been something I might have feelings about based on actions of one or two but I am a fortunate one.
Guess I should lay the mystery to rest here:
It's completely disrespectful. I can't begin to explain how much this irks me.
It makes me want to heave... wretch... die a thousand deaths... and run to the shower.
This got me a bad review somewhere once... For the love of all that is good in the world... PLEASE do not do this.
He never did figure out why I didn't go further out of my way to see him that day... No!
The others I morphed a bit to include my own ranting even though the issues were brought forth by others... Reason being:
I can be pretty darn funny when I am in that kind of mood!
This one I elevated and merged 2 peoples issues for and morphed it into something to address an issue that drives me crazy everywhere (not just as a SP):
:yo: This is the response of most who know me...
Best of luck in future endeavours.
That original post should be a sticky for new members to read.
Some people it is time for lily to go if she feels that way but I disagree.
Many of those behaviours are just poor choices based on the clients I mean it's really quite simple if you are clean, courteous, don't ask for risky behavior things, and have realistic expectations things will go fine.
I mean if I am filthy, expect the girl to have a specific outfit, want a discount, want her in under 30 minutes, and want to do bare back greek with a facial finish. I really shouldn't be surprised when there are very few takers.
That original post should be a sticky for new members to read.
Some people it is time for lily to go if she feels that way but I disagree.
Many of those behaviours are just poor choices based on the clients I mean it's really quite simple if you are clean, courteous, don't ask for risky behavior things, and have realistic expectations things will go fine.
I mean if I am filthy, expect the girl to have a specific outfit, want a discount, want her in under 30 minutes, and want to do bare back greek with a facial finish. I really shouldn't be surprised when there are very few takers.
