Drunk Clients

[Hailey♥4U]

what a coincidence...the other morning a new client called at 9:30 to book a 10am appt.
He sounded cool on the phone no issues seemed sober.
He arrived and called at least 5 times for entry code. I assumed it was a bad connection but when he appeared at my door he was a wreck. He said he had a few drinks after he made the initial call because he was nervous. I told him I don't think this was a good idea but couldn't let him leave in his condition. I put him in my spare room to let him sleep for a bit. After an hour he got up and said he was okay. I suggested he go to the corner store and get some coffee. I watched him walk over to the store. His car remained at my building all day. I assumed he uber'd or cabbed out.
Saturday morning he called to thank me and to book another appointment. I was apprehensive at first.
I told him he can't show up in the same condition as before. He promised me he wouldn't.
He was such a nice guy. Very apologetic. And generous. Although not expected he paid me for the first appt too.
I was glad I gave him a second chance. He appeared to be grateful too.

 

[John Henry]

what a coincidence...the other morning a new client called at 9:30 to book a 10am appt.
He sounded cool on the phone no issues seemed sober.
He arrived and called at least 5 times for entry code. I assumed it was a bad connection but when he appeared at my door he was a wreck. He said he had a few drinks after he made the initial call because he was nervous. I told him I don't think this was a good idea but couldn't let him leave in his condition. I put him in my spare room to let him sleep for a bit. After an hour he got up and said he was okay. I suggested he go to the corner store and get some coffee. I watched him walk over to the store. His car remained at my building all day. I assumed he uber'd or cabbed out.
Saturday morning he called to thank me and to book another appointment. I was apprehensive at first.
I told him he can't show up in the same condition as before. He promised me he wouldn't.
He was such a nice guy. Very apologetic. And generous. Although not expected he paid me for the first appt too.
I was glad I gave him a second chance. He appeared to be grateful too.

What a nice way to handle that Hailey . So many times we read from ladies how bad clients are when this or that happens . It's never ending . You handled your situation in a mature manner and you didn't come complaining on the board about this guy that day . As it turned out he was very generous and you found out that he IS a nice guy . Things due happen in real life and at times one can have a few too many drinks . It doesn't make them a bad person or some kind of alcoholic drunk .

You are a very special lady .

 

[MadonnaLove]

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The ladies that I see don't consider this as a business . They are out to have a good time and make some extra money while doing so . Some of them will drink more then me , which is fine with me . They aren't driving when they leave .

Just because ladies drink with you doesn't mean its not business who do you think your fooling and yes my client is an alcoholic i turn him down many times a week when he's wasted he knows to only contact me when he's sober and yes some providers drink too much too

 

[MadonnaLove]

What a nice way to handle that Hailey . So many times we read from ladies how bad clients are when this or that happens . It's never ending . You handled your situation in a mature manner and you didn't come complaining on the board about this guy that day . As it turned out he was very generous and you found out that he IS a nice guy . Things due happen in real life and at times one can have a few too many drinks . It doesn't make them a bad person or some kind of alcoholic drunk .

You are a very special lady .

Yes she was very kind and I'm sure she was very uncomfortable about the whole situation too did you forget that the guy drove to see her that was wasted he's lucky he didn't kill somebody or get killed going to the call and most alcoholics are in denial anyways i grew up with alcoholics i know how manipulative they can be

 

[John Henry]

Just because ladies drink with you doesn't mean its not business who do you think your fooling and yes my client is an alcoholic i turn him down many times a week when he's wasted he knows to only contact me when he's sober and yes some providers drink too much too

Not fooling anyone here . They come to my place where they can relax and have a nice time . I don't put any pressure on them at all when they are here . The few that I see stay longer than the time paid . It's not a matter of OH OH time is up then out the door . Haven't you ever been with someone and just put your feet up and relax and not worry about what time is it or worry about your safety ? The 2 of these ladies tell me all about themselves . Their job , the kids names and where they live . No they are not drunk when they leave either .

They trust me . Just because you see guys that you can't trust doesn't mean all ladies are like that .

I have even been asked out for lunch , a walk at the local park and things like that . All for free !!!!!!!!

Your client is a alcoholic . You got to be kidding us . You're seeing a guy who you fully well know is an alcoholic yet you have the nerve to complain about a guy getting drunk while you are there . Really , why are you still seeing him . Can you not cut the bad guys from your life . Makes me wonder why you put up with a guy like that .

Only contact you when he is sober . The guy got drunk while you were there .Remember your first post .

Finely the truth comes out . You're seeing an alcoholic . You have no right to complain because you know exactly what you might be getting in for

 

[John Henry]

Yes she was very kind and I'm sure she was very uncomfortable about the whole situation too did you forget that the guy drove to see her that was wasted he's lucky he didn't kill somebody or get killed going to the call and most alcoholics are in denial anyways i grew up with alcoholics i know how manipulative they can be

First of all we don't know if the guy was drunk while driving to her place . You are assuming a lot here . Remember he was smart enough to find another way home and not attempt to drive his car . Second of all he could have had a few drinks once he got to her place and got wasted while he sat in his car .

I too have grown up with an alcoholic . Could be why I only have a few drinks when I see a lady . Never touch the stuff any other time .

I get the feeling that you really don't like men because you're always complaining about them one way or another . Not all of us are bad people . Some men really do respect the ladies that we see .

Your client is an alcoholic and you still see him . What is wrong with that picture .

 

[Titalian]

what a coincidence...the other morning a new client called at 9:30 to book a 10am appt.
He sounded cool on the phone no issues seemed sober.
He arrived and called at least 5 times for entry code. I assumed it was a bad connection but when he appeared at my door he was a wreck. He said he had a few drinks after he made the initial call because he was nervous. I told him I don't think this was a good idea but couldn't let him leave in his condition. I put him in my spare room to let him sleep for a bit. After an hour he got up and said he was okay. I suggested he go to the corner store and get some coffee. I watched him walk over to the store. His car remained at my building all day. I assumed he uber'd or cabbed out.
Saturday morning he called to thank me and to book another appointment. I was apprehensive at first.
I told him he can't show up in the same condition as before. He promised me he wouldn't.
He was such a nice guy. Very apologetic. And generous. Although not expected he paid me for the first appt too.
I was glad I gave him a second chance. He appeared to be grateful too.

Very Classy Hailey, I'm impressed. :thumb:

 

[lomotil]

Many Sps in these posts seem to be adept at the diffusion of potentially lethal situations. Kudos to them as they are able to employ a good deal of savy and psychology on a daily basis in their encounters with clients.