Well I know some of you guys think my way of booking is unusual and that I'm overly cautious and yes I am. I meet new people away from my private location for my safety. I request lots of info as well. For spa girls its easier and safer because usually there is more then one girl. At a private location there is only one. I think I avoided a possible issue at 12 noon today. New client. Very very odd behavior. Infact the oddest in 15 years. Now he gave me his terb handle. So by 6PM tonight I told him to reply to me. This gives him some time and myself I can check at that time because from 6 to 7 I'm free. If he doesn't send me a private message then I will go back on and post just to give all girls heads up. Just because a client says he belongs to terb doesn't mean its true. I'm always overly cautious and this was a little uncomfortable. I tell all my girls do not give address and make sure you see who they are BEFORE you bring them. If they say they belong to terb I tell them to private message me. This is my 1st oddest experience from a possible terb member!
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Tina, you sound like you are way to much effort to even bother seeing. Are you outing a guy that jumped through all your hoops because he might be socially awkward?
Tina you are the one that seems like the nut job. No way would any reasonable person should have to jump through your nonsensical hoops to visit you. Business is business and lots of ladies work in this industry everyday with no problems whatsoever; what makes you so different ?
Ouch, the TERBites seem a little harsh on this one.
I think a big difference is, from what I believe Tina is saying, is that she works out of a private residence. I'm assuming that's a home, or apartment, or something where discretion is a little more important than say at a hotel or spa. I personally don't invite escorts to do outcalls at my home because I don't want any weirdos coming back and banging at my door when they need money for drugs, nor do I want their pimps knocking on my door threatening to do things to me if I don't give them money, let alone have them making a big scene where my neighbors are exposed to unseemly behavior. Not that every escort would do that, not at all. But we all know that some of the girls in this business have issues, and you don't know which ones are going to be trouble until you meet them. I value my safety, and I don't invite girls to my private residence. I would imagine any escort inviting clients to hers would want to perform some due diligence.
And what's more, I think I've recently read from respectable TERB members asserting that we, as hobbyists, should start walking out on bait and switch girls or girls who don't deliver what is advertised. It goes both ways. As hobbyists, we should be comfortable walking out on girls when the situation doesn't feel right. Similarly, girls should have the option to cut bait when they themselves are getting a bad vibe.
I know so many men and women who have told stories, many of which you can find as threads on TERB, about not following their instincts, only to get robbed by a girl or jumped by a pimp. Situations where if they followed their gut instinct and just turned and left, they could have avoided the harm to which they were exposed.
As far as hoops go, Tina no doubt has lost some customers over it. She has decided that the price of her safety might be missing out on clients who might not like her initial terms. That's her loss, and I doubt she loses that much sleep over it. She's decided her safety and peace of mind is worth the loss. We as hobbyists don't have a right to fuck whoever we want whenever we want under conditions we choose. In my opinion, the women who are willing to work in this profession at all are few and far between, and we should be thankful for the risks they take, and respect the fact that there are certain risks that they won't take.
Last year, an escort was stabbed repeatedly by a john in the Comfort Inn off Hurontario Rd, after which the john lit the body on fire and torched the hotel room. Keep that in mind the next time you want to criticize an escort for being careful about who she brings home to her condo.
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Stick to your guns, Tina. Stick to your guns.
I think a big difference is, from what I believe Tina is saying, is that she works out of a private residence. I'm assuming that's a home, or apartment, or something where discretion is a little more important than say at a hotel or spa. I personally don't invite escorts to do outcalls at my home because I don't want any weirdos coming back and banging at my door when they need money for drugs, nor do I want their pimps knocking on my door threatening to do things to me if I don't give them money, let alone have them making a big scene where my neighbors are exposed to unseemly behavior. Not that every escort would do that, not at all. But we all know that some of the girls in this business have issues, and you don't know which ones are going to be trouble until you meet them. I value my safety, and I don't invite girls to my private residence. I would imagine any escort inviting clients to hers would want to perform some due diligence.
And what's more, I think I've recently read from respectable TERB members asserting that we, as hobbyists, should start walking out on bait and switch girls or girls who don't deliver what is advertised. It goes both ways. As hobbyists, we should be comfortable walking out on girls when the situation doesn't feel right. Similarly, girls should have the option to cut bait when they themselves are getting a bad vibe.
I know so many men and women who have told stories, many of which you can find as threads on TERB, about not following their instincts, only to get robbed by a girl or jumped by a pimp. Situations where if they followed their gut instinct and just turned and left, they could have avoided the harm to which they were exposed.
As far as hoops go, Tina no doubt has lost some customers over it. She has decided that the price of her safety might be missing out on clients who might not like her initial terms. That's her loss, and I doubt she loses that much sleep over it. She's decided her safety and peace of mind is worth the loss. We as hobbyists don't have a right to fuck whoever we want whenever we want under conditions we choose. In my opinion, the women who are willing to work in this profession at all are few and far between, and we should be thankful for the risks they take, and respect the fact that there are certain risks that they won't take.
Last year, an escort was stabbed repeatedly by a john in the Comfort Inn off Hurontario Rd, after which the john lit the body on fire and torched the hotel room. Keep that in mind the next time you want to criticize an escort for being careful about who she brings home to her condo.
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Stick to your guns, Tina. Stick to your guns.
Every person is entitled to their own protocol for doing things. Nobody is going to agree on a set way to operate especially when involving intimacies.
If you've found a method that works for you, Tina, that's great. Warnings for other providers are posted in a specific section of this board. You can contact one of the mods if you require help. As for using a TERB handle as a means of verification, it is advisable to have the person send you a PM with their handle cuz there are plenty of circumstances where people have pretended to be someone else. All the best
If you've found a method that works for you, Tina, that's great. Warnings for other providers are posted in a specific section of this board. You can contact one of the mods if you require help. As for using a TERB handle as a means of verification, it is advisable to have the person send you a PM with their handle cuz there are plenty of circumstances where people have pretended to be someone else. All the best
WOW, It was me that was suppose to see Tina the day she was referring to. Now I understand safety and having to protect yourself all the time but I did not do anything wrong except I took new medication for my migraines and I got disoriented and confused with directions.
This is what happened. Tina told me to meet her a bathe park at a certain time and I phoned her to tell her I was running late. When I arrived at bathe park there was a lady in a GMC blazer who look at me ,nodded, smiled, then drove way. Now never meeting Tina or knowing if she drove or not I followed the lady in the blazer......It wasn't Tina. I then couldn't remember the way I came and got disoriented. Phoned Tina to tell her what had happened and she must of thought I was a idiot or something. When I finally got home and felt better I emailed Tina and explained everything, she ask me to send her a pm by 6 pm and I did. Tina felt a lot more comfortable and we made plans for another date, Unfortunately I had a accident in my home that will lay me up for about a month.
I understand the need for protection and the need to warn other sp about dangerous people or situation, but instead of jumping the gun, Tina, you should of given me a chance to explain as I did via email and perhaps gave a retraction explaining that your client (me) explained everything and it's all good.
SPs are not the only people that want good reputations...... clients do as well.
I would like to think that I have a good rep on Terb, I have always treated the people that I meet with respect.
I even wrote a thread, not to long ago, apologizing to you, Amy, because at the time of our meeting I was running way behind and I didn't have a cell at the time so I wrote a thread to apologize.
I hold no grudge towards Tina, she did what she thought she had to do to protect herself, It was a misunderstanding that I hope Tina and I can learn from.
No problems.
This is what happened. Tina told me to meet her a bathe park at a certain time and I phoned her to tell her I was running late. When I arrived at bathe park there was a lady in a GMC blazer who look at me ,nodded, smiled, then drove way. Now never meeting Tina or knowing if she drove or not I followed the lady in the blazer......It wasn't Tina. I then couldn't remember the way I came and got disoriented. Phoned Tina to tell her what had happened and she must of thought I was a idiot or something. When I finally got home and felt better I emailed Tina and explained everything, she ask me to send her a pm by 6 pm and I did. Tina felt a lot more comfortable and we made plans for another date, Unfortunately I had a accident in my home that will lay me up for about a month.
I understand the need for protection and the need to warn other sp about dangerous people or situation, but instead of jumping the gun, Tina, you should of given me a chance to explain as I did via email and perhaps gave a retraction explaining that your client (me) explained everything and it's all good.
SPs are not the only people that want good reputations...... clients do as well.
I would like to think that I have a good rep on Terb, I have always treated the people that I meet with respect.
I even wrote a thread, not to long ago, apologizing to you, Amy, because at the time of our meeting I was running way behind and I didn't have a cell at the time so I wrote a thread to apologize.
I hold no grudge towards Tina, she did what she thought she had to do to protect herself, It was a misunderstanding that I hope Tina and I can learn from.
No problems.
Aww! that sounds like a really messed up series of events. For what it's worth, you have a great reputation with me 2canchew. Hugs and hope your migraines are stemmed.
Thanks hun, your a classy lady Amy and I want to hug you to......over and over again lol
I think a RETRACTION is the least she should do. Talk about acting before you get all the facts. If Tina is that paranoid maybe she should go a different direction.
Thanks for the explanation 2can, to bad you had to give one.
So you gave him until 6 to pm you but according to your thread time you wrote this at 11:40 am, instead of giving him the time to pm you, you outed him, for what reason? You threaten to out him if he doesn't pm you and you out him anyways.
It might of been uncomfortable for you but how to you think it made 2can feel when he reads this or does that matter to you. You were going to this, you were going to do that, really, Holy smokes! You say it's for your own protection, don't you think you should of waited until the time you set before you got on your soap box and insulted 2cans reputation or again, doesn't that matter to you? :hand:Your name is Tina...well Tina thank you for showing this newbe who you truly are. That's one person I won't be calling...ever!!!!!!
Easy, Easy there hg3. Tina is in a profession that requires her to protect herself at all costs and I understand that.There are just to many weirdos ( Saskatchewan shooting comes to mind) out there to be flaky and trust worthy. It comes ( no pun intended) with the territory. It's not just weirdos the SPs have to worry about but it's also entrapment by law enforcement. I don't know about you but I make sure that who ever I see that it's safe for me and I have no worries of feeling uncomfortable or getting ripoff by a boyfriend hiding in a room.So you gave him until 6 to pm you but according to your thread time you wrote this at 11:40 am, instead of giving him the time to pm you, you outed him, for what reason? You threaten to out him if he doesn't pm you and you out him anyways.
Your name is Tina...well Tina thank you for showing this newbe who you truly are. That's one person I won't be calling...ever!!!!!!
Although I do agree that Tina should of given me the 6 pm deadline to pm her instead of going on Terb at 11:40 am to voice her concerns but it is what it is.
I don't think Tina did this to hurt me personally, she did it to protect her and her SP sisters, she just jump the gun.
Now let's forget about this and move on.......Anyone for a 3some, orgy, group, anything?
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