Relationship with SP?

[DaleyDDD]

Guy your story sounds weird to me at so many levels. It sounds all deep and personal, you've met her family but you are still paying for sex which makes you a client. And now she's giving it to you for free? ...There must be a catch, what is it?

Not true. I have clients I've met their family and they've met mine. The understanding of who WE are is false but none the less we met. And we still have a client/sp relationship. Now mind you, regardless of how close we get...never do bbfs unless you're getting married. No question.
I wish you luck wickedone.

 

[someguy77]

Not true. I have clients I've met their family and they've met mine. The understanding of who WE are is false.

Awkward if in the future you need to correct that understanding. And I think that as an SP, you are taking a risk in letting your clients get so close to you.

 

[DaleyDDD]

Awkward if in the future you need to correct that understanding. And I think that as an SP, you are taking a risk in letting your clients get so close to you.

No need to ever correct that. We have a valid reason for how we met. The few people on here that know me that well know how we met. No one needs to know more.
And I completely agree it's a risk, but it takes time to get to that level.

 

[wickedone]

So we had a completely open conversation last night, told her my apprehension and she told me hers. We came to the conclusion we'll take the plunge. We are both ok with me seeing other sp's and she clients, but complete and utter honestly has to be shared (i.e.condom failure, etc...). I really appreciate everyones input and have considered each point. Thanks again.

 

[jazzbox]

Had a similar thing happen to me. After many years of seeing an SP she offered no protection. I know all about her family, real name etc and I care and think about her all the time. Dearly wanted to but thought this isn't right for me and probably not for her. Everyone has to make their own choice. I second guess myself all the time on this.

 

[Sal1979]

Smooth Sal1979.....smooth.:eyebrows:

Still hasn't answered my question?

Link?

 

[peter4025]

Still hasn't answered my question?

Link?

Do you really expect him to answer you? This type of relationship between a man and a sp is special and are build on trust and good friendship.you don't mention names. If he would divulged her name then he just used her and everything he did and say to her to gain that trust was a lie.

 

[Titalian]

No need to ever correct that. We have a valid reason for how we met. The few people on here that know me that well know how we met. No one needs to know more.
And I completely agree it's a risk, but it takes time to get to that level.

Do you really expect him to answer you? This type of relationship between a man and a sp is special and are build on trust and good friendship.you don't mention names. If he would divulged her name then he just used her and everything he did and say to her to gain that trust was a lie.

Both very sound answers. yes the most important thing is the trust in one another and gained friendship that is built from this.

 

[Frankunderwood]

Had a similar thing happen to me. After many years of seeing an SP she offered no protection. I know all about her family, real name etc and I care and think about her all the time. Dearly wanted to but thought this isn't right for me and probably not for her. Everyone has to make their own choice. I second guess myself all the time on this.

No need to second guess yourself. It's way too risky.

 

[chongqing]

Some of these clowns on this board that think marrying SPs is disgusting.
I've got news for you, marrying a lawyer or politician is worse. They are way dirtier than SPs, worse than pond scum.
Give me a SP to marry any day, at least they screw people honestly!
Don't forget to vote next week.
Peace out

 

[DaleyDDD]

Ya we aren't all gross and believe it or not we are human. Most of us will all be married eventually. Just takes the right guy (or many will lie to their hubby...or some ARE married.)

Some of these clowns on this board that think marrying SPs is disgusting.
I've got news for you, marrying a lawyer or politician is worse. They are way dirtier than SPs, worse than pond scum.
Give me a SP to marry any day, at least they screw people honestly!
Don't forget to vote next week.
Peace out

 

[Titalian]

Some of these clowns on this board that think marrying SPs is disgusting.
I've got news for you, marrying a lawyer or politician is worse. They are way dirtier than SPs, worse than pond scum.
Give me a SP to marry any day, at least they screw people honestly!
Don't forget to vote next week.
Peace out

Lol isn t this the truth, my brother and his wife who are both lawyers. Tell me this constantly. the scheming is incredible.
Luckily they were both brought up in close and loving families. Thats where the education starts.

 

[legmann]

Had a similar thing happen to me. After many years of seeing an SP she offered no protection. Dearly wanted to but thought this isn't right for me and probably not for her.

Same happened to me with a (then) recently-retired and well-reviewed SP; she might well have abstained from seeing anyone else and had been tested upon leaving the 'industry', but I could only decline.

 

[JackBurton]

So we had a completely open conversation last night, told her my apprehension and she told me hers. We came to the conclusion we'll take the plunge. We are both ok with me seeing other sp's and she clients, but complete and utter honestly has to be shared (i.e.condom failure, etc...). I really appreciate everyones input and have considered each point. Thanks again.

Oh buddy....

You are about to learn the hard way that "truth" is subjective when someone wants to get everything they want. It might seem like a great idea in theory but the first time she cancels dinner on you to go be with a client, because "it's for work" or "I have a client that wants to fly me to NYC for the weekend" will not turn out well.

My sincerest wishes is that it won't eat at you and you don't get hurt.

Please be careful with your heart, it's the only one you've got.

 

[fuji]

Oh buddy....

You are about to learn the hard way that "truth" is subjective when someone wants to get everything they want. It might seem like a great idea in theory but the first time she cancels dinner on you to go be with a client, because "it's for work" or "I have a client that wants to fly me to NYC for the weekend" will not turn out well.

My sincerest wishes is that it won't eat at you and you don't get hurt.

Please be careful with your heart, it's the only one you've got.

Meh. So if that happens he will have a bad day. So what?

He hasn't made any really serious commitment yet, let him try.

 

[Mr. Piggy]

So we had a completely open conversation last night, told her my apprehension and she told me hers. We came to the conclusion we'll take the plunge. We are both ok with me seeing other sp's and she clients, but complete and utter honestly has to be shared (i.e.condom failure, etc...). I really appreciate everyones input and have considered each point. Thanks again.

Hope all works out for you both.

 

[kxf170]

I have a close sp friend who when we get together we do it uncovered and I don't pull out. She says I am the only one. We are both taking a risk. IDK, she's planning an exit soon and we might date, but who knows, we might be FWB. I tell her I still see other girls so I won't have any issues with her past or my past and how we met if we go further, she was the one who asked me to hang out after seeing her twice and it went from there. These girls are just like any other girl you meet except they can read men and sense bs better than average because of their line of work. It's just a job and there are many SPs out there whose SOs know they fuck other guys for money....

 

[DaleyDDD]

Hmm uncovered, be careful. I would never recommend f-ing one of us uncovered. I mean I know I'm safe but at the same time, mistakes happen. Cover breaks, cover slips off. Unless you're dating the girl and she doesn't have a SO then I would say don't. Cause she for sure is doing it uncovered with her SO if she's willing to do it with you.

No one wants a mystery baby...or worse. "Who's kid is this?" You have no way of knowing. It's scary but it's fact.

I have a close sp friend who when we get together we do it uncovered and I don't pull out. She says I am the only one. We are both taking a risk. IDK, she's planning an exit soon and we might date, but who knows, we might be FWB. I tell her I still see other girls so I won't have any issues with her past or my past and how we met if we go further, she was the one who asked me to hang out after seeing her twice and it went from there. These girls are just like any other girl you meet except they can read men and sense bs better than average because of their line of work. It's just a job and there are many SPs out there whose SOs know they fuck other guys for money....

 

[surferboy]

Some of these clowns on this board that think marrying SPs is disgusting.
I've got news for you, marrying a lawyer or politician is worse. They are way dirtier than SPs, worse than pond scum.
Give me a SP to marry any day, at least they screw people honestly!
Don't forget to vote next week.
Peace out

Lol, dated a lawyer years back & she looked like the most prim & proper women at work but turned out to be one of the dirtiest & kinkiest girls I've ever had between the sheets. Ruthless & vindictive c**t at her job though. Oh Carol where are you now!

 

[oil&gas]

Some of you better see to it that your daughter would
not grow up to go to law school to become a lawyer or
politician. There is a more honourable career awaiting her.