Would you marry an SP?

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Many reasons, the main one is that many, if not most industry women are programmed in the art of deception and lies. BUT, when you find the right one, whether industry or not, it is a beautiful thing. Does it last a lifetime, or is it a faze? It is not WHAT they are it is WHO they are.

People change all the time...the way you feel about someone can sometimes last forever if you believe we are just energy. Its like seeing your kid comit a crime and get put away, but you still love them, even though you disprove what they did.

Maybe, through the way they treat you, you realize that you love the person you want them to be vs. the one they truly are.

Wouldn't it suck if she felt the same?

Would probably be one of the worst truths to know.

Although, knowing this will not change your feelings especially if you think about her all the time.

It is never too late, life has a path, upon it there are forks.

Yeah, for sure I always believe things happen for a reason and we meet people for a reason.

However, this would not cause me to jump my marriage ship. I am just an old fashioned fella who thinks you don't just ship and stay till the end.

It sucks that fear of hurt sometimes comes in between good friendship and strange things happen after.

 

[DaleyDDD]

For the ladies, would you marry a client if you had a genuine connection?

As others have already pointed out this thread already exists, however I ignored it because too many responses angered me to bits.

Why not? It may come as a surprise to some but just as us ladies are actually human life forms...so are the guys on here. Maybe slightly more perverted humans that the average bear but humans none the less. The person I marry WILL know what I've done at this stage in my life, regardless of who they are, where/how/when we met whether it be on terb, in the bedroom or at the grocery store. This is who I am and the person I will marry is going to accept it or they're not worth my time.

Regarding marrying someone who - pardon my French - screws for a living, you need to consider it this way: she can go out and have poor, mediocre, and mind-blowing sex during the day but she's STILL welcoming you home eager to be with YOU then consider yourself both a great person and lucky to find someone who you have someone that loves you. Cherish the relationships you have made because these days they can sometimes be few and far between.

 

[stay]

be able to understand the difference between the fantasy and reality that is her life/job....

Is it fantasy if she is gushing like BP was in the gulf?

Are all her client just paid, or does she cross over sometimes.

 

[Eddie401]

Yes i almost got married once to a client.

And IIRC from our old chat days he would have been one happy man....his loss.

 

[stay]

As others have already pointed out this thread already exists, however I ignored it because too many responses angered me to bits.

Why not? It may come as a surprise to some but just as us ladies are actually human life forms...so are the guys on here. Maybe slightly more perverted humans that the average bear but humans none the less. The person I marry WILL know what I've done at this stage in my life, regardless of who they are, where/how/when we met whether it be on terb, in the bedroom or at the grocery store. This is who I am and the person I will marry is going to accept it or they're not worth my time.

Regarding marrying someone who - pardon my French - screws for a living, you need to consider it this way: she can go out and have poor, mediocre, and mind-blowing sex during the day but she's STILL welcoming you home eager to be with YOU then consider yourself both a great person and lucky to find someone who you have someone that loves you. Cherish the relationships you have made because these days they can sometimes be few and far between.

Good Luck, I don't mean it in a negative way. When you find that person, I am sure it will last.

 

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As others have already pointed out this thread already exists, however I ignored it because too many responses angered me to bits.

Why not? It may come as a surprise to some but just as us ladies are actually human life forms...so are the guys on here. Maybe slightly more perverted humans that the average bear but humans none the less. The person I marry WILL know what I've done at this stage in my life, regardless of who they are, where/how/when we met whether it be on terb, in the bedroom or at the grocery store. This is who I am and the person I will marry is going to accept it or they're not worth my time.

Regarding marrying someone who - pardon my French - screws for a living, you need to consider it this way: she can go out and have poor, mediocre, and mind-blowing sex during the day but she's STILL welcoming you home eager to be with YOU then consider yourself both a great person and lucky to find someone who you have someone that loves you. Cherish the relationships you have made because these days they can sometimes be few and far between.

This is why I keep coming back to terb and it is so addictive... It because there are really awesome people on here, with very strong personality, a great message and really really god life advice, and sometimes present really interesting POVs once we filter through the trolls and the weeds.

Well put and thank you for sharing your voice on this topic with us

Maybe OP brought it up to troll, it is still good discussion.

 

[Vermeer27]

This is totally anecdotal evidence, but the few sp's I count as friends are unanimous in not wanting to get married, to clients or otherwise. They've fucked too many married men to ever believe that a man can be faithful, and they question their own interest in monogamy too. That pretty much leaves polyamory and the swinging lifestyle which is generally full of older couples who've been together a long time. Honestly, the only sp/civilian relationship I personally know of that really works is a sub/cuckold relationship where the guy gets off on his girl being a sexworker. She makes more money than him and pretty much carries all the power in the relationship, and they're both happy with this. So, of-course it can work, but it seems to work only under very specific conditions.
If you're running for office, or happen to be a highly public person, then I would say forget about marrying an sp, for obvious reasons.

 

[kkelso]

Many reasons, the main one is that many, if not most industry women are programmed in the art of deception and lies. BUT, when you find the right one, whether industry or not, it is a beautiful thing. Does it last a lifetime, or is it a faze? It is not WHAT they are it is WHO they are.

I wouldn't argue this, but I fail to see how it applies solely to "industry women".

KK

 

[stay]

Years ago when are article was written about me in a newspaper, I was referred to as a career customer. Having neither good looks nor a big dick I was left with no option but to pay for it.... so I bought my company. ( married an industry girl )

 

[Titalian]

Many reasons, the main one is that many, if not most industry women are programmed in the art of deception and lies. BUT, when you find the right one, whether industry or not, it is a beautiful thing. Does it last a lifetime, or is it a faze? It is not WHAT they are it is WHO they are.


Wouldn't it suck if she felt the same?



It is never too late, life has a path, upon it there are forks.

I hope you realise, that your statements here are border line RACIST ! Not much thought involved here with your input, so I'll just call it Ignorance.

 

[Sal1979]

Why not? Cherish the relationships you have made because these days they can sometimes be few and far between.

I'm lucky enough to have meet a SP 8 years ago, she was my first time pooning back in the day when you had to find them in the yellow pages and hoped the agency sent over a sweet ass hottie. After a long weekend over partying she showed up and we spent the better part of 2 hours shooting the shit. At the end of the date she gave me her personal number and here we are 8 years later, she's currently sleeping on the couch next to me while I'm on terb. Yes some of you have probably meet her in the past before retiring as she has a few reviews on here from way back when.

Long story short, you never know who'll walk into your life and when, but they'll open your eyes to a lot and you may end up doing things like you never thought you would in the past, such as open a agency yourself and have a few girls working for you from time to time, build up a few condos, make a few investments etc etc.

8 years has gone by very quickly and she still looks 22, but sadly she's now 30, oh well we all get old!

When our expire date happens as everything good must come to a end, maybe just maybe Daley will still be around to help out this old man lol.

 

[stay]

I hope you realise, that your statements here are border line RACIST ! Not much thought involved here with your input, so I'll just call it Ignorance.

Call me ignorant, but what part do you think is racist. That most women ( the race of women ) that are in this business are well versed in the art of deceptiin and lies.

Sorry it is the straight up truth. It is neither complimentary nor defamitory.

 

[Titalian]

Call me ignorant, but what part do you think is racist. That most women ( the race of women ) that are in this business are well versed in the art of deceptiin and lies.

Sorry it is the straight up truth. It is neither complimentary nor defamitory.

Your generalising, I know many women in this industry some of which are friends. I believe that maybe you had hardships with a certain
provider and now you are clumping every provider into this category. WRONG ! I've dated civie women that would make providers look like saints.
Please be careful on how you classify these women.

 

[shack]

I hope you realise, that your statements here are border line RACIST !

What race is he demeaning?

 

[Titalian]

What race is he demeaning?

Providers !! Shit head

 

[Victoria~Catherina]

For the ladies, would you marry a client if you had a genuine connection?

In a heart beat , we're human !

 

[stay]

Your generalising, I know many women in this industry some of which are friends. I believe that maybe you had hardships with a certain
provider and now you are clumping every provider into this category. WRONG ! I've dated civie women that would make providers look like saints.
Please be careful on how you classify these women.

35+ years of experience. Yes I have had friends and enemies and a wife all worked within the industry. Maybe because I am currently suing an industry girls makes my output sound slanted but I assure you that unlike many members I look at the women straight on. They are no better, no worse than me or you for that matter. I merely point out and I certainly am not the first , that the definition of of job is lies and deception.
also the reply was a quoted reply, get it?

 

[Titalian]

35+ years of experience. Yes I have had friends and enemies and a wife all worked within the industry. Maybe because I am currently suing an industry girls makes my output sound slanted but I assure you that unlike many members I look at the women straight on. They are no better, no worse than me or you for that matter. I merely point out and I certainly am not the first , that the definition of of job is lies and deception.
also the reply was a quoted reply, get it?

Sounds to me that you have never been out with a civie's, what I said up above is the truth, one of them fuked at the time my best friend.
On that note, I just want to say, I don't classify all women including sps in this category.

 

[someguy77]

Got rid of me!!!, you are truly an idiot!!! And stupid!! Racist??? What, did you not graduate Grade 6. Obviously, with your self proclaimed knowledge of everything but in realty you know absolutely nothing. You just proved it again with your comment calling someone racist, lol.

Like I told you before, I received a message from an SP who just wishes you would shut up

OUCH! Hahahahahaaaaa this thread is gold

 

[GPIDEAL]

I say yes. Damm she's fucked all those dudes for cash, and wants nothing to do with them at the end of the day.

You on the other hand makes her smile and laugh genuinely and she feels good to be around, she's your best friend.

You on the other hand fucked some ugly ass bitchs back in the day while drunk on a dare with some buddies. Should she hold that against you?

Do it if it feels right and you make each other happy, but here's the catch really....................

IF YOU HAVE TO ASK EVERYONE HERE, THEN DONT DO IT - YOULL BE MISERABLE & SO WILL SHE

Excellent answer.