Would you marry an SP?

[andysing]

I would if we click even if she wants to continue working

 

[MissCroft]

For the ladies, would you marry a client if you had a genuine connection?

Yes.

 

[GPIDEAL]

Are you 14 or 15?

Do you need to date her before marrying? Wtf? Would you marry any woman before getting to know her?

Why would you need to explain anything to anyone? If you are both in love then love will find a way

Ditto!

 

[Muddy]

Well, since the idiot asked, I've been there and done that. Didn't marry her, but we lived together for three great years, until I messed around with another SP and she kicked my sorry ass out on the street!

 

[MadonnaLove]

For the ladies, would you marry a client if you had a genuine connection?

Yes i almost got married once to a client.

 

[Sal1979]

I say yes. Damm she's fucked all those dudes for cash, and wants nothing to do with them at the end of the day.

You on the other hand makes her smile and laugh genuinely and she feels good to be around, she's your best friend.

You on the other hand fucked some ugly ass bitchs back in the day while drunk on a dare with some buddies. Should she hold that against you?

Do it if it feels right and you make each other happy, but here's the catch really....................

IF YOU HAVE TO ASK EVERYONE HERE, THEN DONT DO IT - YOULL BE MISERABLE & SO WILL SHE

 

[canada-man]

i will only marry an SP if I am a SP for female clients and she is a SP for male clients.

 

[Titalian]

I say yes. Damm she's fucked all those dudes for cash, and wants nothing to do with them at the end of the day.

You on the other hand makes her smile and laugh genuinely and she feels good to be around, she's your best friend.

You on the other hand fucked some ugly ass bitchs back in the day while drunk on a dare with some buddies. Should she hold that against you?

Do it if it feels right and you make each other happy, but here's the catch really....................

IF YOU HAVE TO ASK EVERYONE HERE, THEN DONT DO IT - YOULL BE MISERABLE & SO WILL SHE

I always enjoy your inputs. :thumb:

 

[IM469]

How would you explain it to your friends and family when they ask you how both of you met? How about to your kids?

Do you think you need to date her first before marrying her?

Hey kids ... gather around the fire place as I tell you a romantic story about your mom and dad. Your mom was getting paid to have sex and your dad was a spending his paycheck on a variety of women for sex when unexpectedly at a VD clinic our eyes met .......

If you don't date her before marrying her .. do you propose before the session or as you are getting dressed ? .... do you pick her up at the escort agency dressed in her wedding dress ?

I agree these sound like questions from a 15 year old.

 

[legmann]

20 is a big #? According to who's standards??

When you consider years ago that some women used to marry having had zero partners! Lol

I've been with girls that have had less than half-dozen, and only two that admitted to double-digits.

 

[Titalian]

When you consider years ago that some women used to marry having had zero partners! Lol

I've been with girls that have had less than half-dozen, and only two that admitted to double-digits.

Well legmann, I believe times have changed. Turns out they are allowed fucking as many men as we are allowed fucking women.
Why I would bring this up when courting a women is beyond me, but in retrospect, women don't normally ask this question of men.
Especially when they are comfortable with you.

 

[red]

When you consider years ago that some women used to marry having had zero partners! Lol

I've been with girls that have had less than half-dozen, and only two that admitted to double-digits.

Key word is "admitted" obviously they thought you couldn't handle the truth

 

[zefroggy]

Based on some ladies I've met. Below is my input.

SOME MEN
MARRY
SEXWORKERS.
GET OVER IT!

Would I do it? Possibly.

 

[|2 /-\ | /|/]

Why not? Why would you not marry an SP if it felt right or if she loved you back.,lol?

....although I often wonder what it does to them, when we treat them possibly the best we can treat a woman through our experience of a 1000 SO rejections, because we know our wives/SOs are too fucking jaded, taking us for granted and worn out to notice when we do make real love to them, that sometimes we strive to give the best treatment to industry girl to perceive their receptiveness and reaction thus to know that our efforts have some effects and are not just wasted attempts... I wonder what it does...I am starting to realized that treating them the best we can does more damage vs. just treating it as a financial transaction....but then unexpectedly you run across that rare unicorn that makes you question your existence, your marriage and your purpose, and then it hits you, but there is nothing you can do but go back to your mundae existence.

So yeah, if I wasn't already married I would like so marry an industry girl...the ultimate hunt/reward...at least I think I would

 

[Spa addict]

Not a chance in hell

 

[jcpro]

Some of the ladies I met were interesting and actually nice. I spent a few appointments just shooting shit instead of doing the deed. I would not go as far as marriage (to any woman), but I could see myself dating one of those ladies. Regardless if she fucked other clients or not. I have zero interest in long term relationships.

 

[stay]

Why not? Why would you not marry an SP if it felt right or if she loved you back.,lol?

Many reasons, the main one is that many, if not most industry women are programmed in the art of deception and lies. BUT, when you find the right one, whether industry or not, it is a beautiful thing. Does it last a lifetime, or is it a faze? It is not WHAT they are it is WHO they are.

question your existence, your marriage and your purpose, and then it hits you, but there is nothing you can do but go back to your mundae existence.

Wouldn't it suck if she felt the same?

So yeah, if I wasn't already married I would like so marry an industry girl...the ultimate hunt/reward...at least I think I would

It is never too late, life has a path, upon it there are forks.

 

[Eddie401]

If you had the chance, would you want to marry a SP and havre kids with her? How would you explain it to your friends and family when they ask you how both of you met? How about to your kids?

Do you think you need to date her first before marrying her?

You started another thread on the same exact topic? Perhaps you should have this discussion with someone that has an office, a couch, and a degree.

 

[james t kirk]

Key word is "admitted" obviously they thought you couldn't handle the truth

Exactly.

Women aren't stupid and they can sense if a man is intimidated by female sexuality (and especially, "the number"). They (his female partners) probably figured, "why get the poor guy all worked up over nothing?".

 

[thumper18474]

I almost did. She used to be a very popular Indy on here. I visited her twice as a client and continued visiting as a friend who didn't get asked for payment and then we got into a whirl wind romance. I paid for a lot of things for her and she paid for a lot of things for me. She was very independent. I did affect her business because I had requested she not participate in any high risk services because we were having unprotected sex. She abided by it but admitted that some of her regulars were upset with the change in service. It prolly didn't help that I was monitoring the boards to see what was going on. Then she finally gave up the business for me. I proposed and she accepted and we were about to get married. Two of my friends persuaded me that I was moving too fast and I didn't go through with it. (They didn't know she was an escort). We got into a big fight and broke up. She resumed being an escort for a short stint and then just quit all together. We kept in touch for a bit and we both got into other relationships and moved on. She was one of the hottest women I ever had the pleasure of being in a relationship with and the sex was so unfucking believable . Literally like making love to a penthouse pet but without the condom. Without the restrictions . And nothing like coming home and she's waiting for me ready to fuck the shit out of me. If I died tomorrow it would be ok because my experience with her fulfilled all my fantasies so my pot is full. She raised the bar for me in terms of girls I date now as well as SP's I would pay money for.

That statement right there is a sign of mistrust so your relationship was due to fail...
Its her job..thats it...not your typical 9-5'er but a job none the less.....
If you're not gonna trust her to honour your request then ...............

But to the original Question...Marry?..no
but have a relationship that can be considered common law?..sure
It all hinges on how you get along..off the clock
If you can laugh ...and cry together,
be there for eachother in the good times and bad
be able to understand the difference between the fantasy and reality that is her life/job....
go for it..
sometimes you gotta go thru hell....before you reach heaven