There is no room for logic in this situation.So this was a first encounter? If so I'd wait a bit see how the second and third session go. You don't want to freak her out of your life first time up.
OK Terbies - I've got one for you ?
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I've been tit drunk a few times, I'm happier and better to those around me for days on end, flush with the after glow. An experience like that makes me a better person for awhile at least.
this is actually a bad thing, ever since i found the one and only girl that i want to see forever...when i go see another girl, i always feel like it is a waste of money (not that the other girls r bad), i always feel like my money can be spent better with the one and only...now she is gone and i am fucked...actually not a bad thing, bank goes up fast as i no hv any urge to see another girl
+1 I love this response.
This exact same thing happened to me after the first time this MPA last year (now retired). I could not stop smiling especially after leaving that room and to my car, and usually I am good at keeping a straight face. I remember saying to myself you fucking fool and get your fucking act together, you dont want to make it this obvious what you just did, I was go glad the receptionist did not see my face. Then getting the meal at my favorite place, I had a smile from ear to ear and could not stop that thing for doing that. I was so amazed that my face could do that and I had very little control to make it stop. I remember driving and knowing what every single car was about to do, and I could see the entire highway 360 like moving at the speed of light. It was like I was on a higher state of thinking for a bit, and every little task I did that day was with such sharpness and precision. 2nd time was good but not the same like this. You also forgot to mention in addition to the variability in the SP, the variability in us.
This one is only one part, however it faded after a while. The out of body experience that I had once 5 years ago stays with me, and like you said I was chasing it for so long like a junkie, only to realize that it might never happen again because of all the variables. Like how many times do all the planets align like this. I think every unique experience is unique in its own way and probably will never get repeated, even if its with the same person. This hobby is full of surprises and unique experiences.
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There are so many stereotypes and stigmas associated to this biz and I’m talking client as well as provider.
I guess what I’m getting to is what is the truth? This may sound little insecure. Which is unlike me,
as I walk out of an extraordinary first encounter, which has only happened a few times,
I ask myself, What did she really think about me?
Yeah, right on! fuck stigmas and stereotypes as they only bother the weak. Yes I think of this as well, what they think of me. I always think this as well. I think through their actions you will know. Its easy just to fit into the stereotype and say, yes they see us as the same as loser guys paying for sex or losers cheating on our SOs. I got to know a few over time, and this can not be further from truth for some. I think just like we look at their actions, they look at our actions and form their opinion based on how we treat them, what we say, do, how they feel etc...it is so easy to let stigma or fear of the taboos take away from a unique connection. Back in 2009, I posted a thread on this site called my_terb(now gone) MPA keeps a good man good. I got criticize from the majority it was all nonesense and insecure mofos throwing stones, I got into heated discussions and pages and pages of posts, and told them the same that I would be doing the same thing 10 years from now. Luckily I did not let their stones fuck with me, and have met some amazing ladies in the process and shared some memorable experiences and have learned so much. YOLO, and why let others insecurities take this away from you, especially in such a beautifully taboo place as this.
Don't worry, there is a medical explanation for your condition...http://goaskalice.columbia.edu/answered-questions/nervous-or-excited-bowel-movements
...you're welcome
LOL :rofl:Don't worry, there is a medical explanation for your condition...http://goaskalice.columbia.edu/answered-questions/nervous-or-excited-bowel-movements
...you're welcome
Great classic song with true meaning, but after an amazing session with an awesome, younger gal that just made you feel like a king or in your 20s, I'd be in the dance club mood or funk or heavy metal.
I've a had a good connection with some first time encounters where you know they want you back. Could be that I made them laugh more than anything else. Or it was physical chemistry. Other times, it happens towards the end of the session (evolves) and from the way you pleasure them, or compliment them as they pleasure you. In one case, I simply tipped even though the session was a little awkward and maybe she wasn't expecting it. She loved seeing me after that, and the sessions were more exciting.
On the flip side, you can have a mind-blowing session with a gal that goes through the motions, but it's just a performance. You will leave satisfied but you don't care how she thought about you or wonder about it (eg. In Havana, ended up with 2 ladies one night, one who I already knew and who was kindhearted. Her friend was business-like and she was the one who finished me off on her knees with CIM. Mind-blowing, but I didn't care if she particularly liked me or if I amused her.)
I will answer for her, after the session while you were showering, she was checking her phone for another appointment, and probably set it. Then when you emerged she treated you like a king until the door closed, then you never crossed her mind again. Then in your blissful state of staggering to your car you passed the next dude on the schedule.
This is probably true 99% of the time. When I first started hobbying I though it's true 100% of the time....
I think what Titalian's getting at is exactly what I feel too, being completely honest here.
"what does she think about me?"
"why did the session happened the way it happened? It's so mind blowing it's hard to believe she can do this at this level day in and day out for this many years"
"meh, it's probably the same for every guy she sees. We're just Johns"
and no matter how extreme the mileage was... "Meh, she probably...."
You got the idea. Sorry if I turn the mood of this thread into more sadistic or the loser type. But I've been around the corner in both extremes, meaning misunderstood nothing special as something special (rookie mistake).. and also lose out on thinking there's nothing special on something actually special (veteran mistake)..
This is more typical for guys who merely want a quickie or just get off, and aren't concerned about repeating or being a regular. Also true for guys who are chauvinistic, lack class, cheap, impatient, rough, narcissistic, etc.
Providers DO appreciate their regulars. Sometimes regulars can be work, but are good financial supporters. Some are not the richest, but are the ones that SPs look forward to seeing because they have a good time, and not necessarily at a sexual level, or both.
