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Why are women ALWAYS the victim??

wazup

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'Any man who hits a woman...'

But what about a man who suggests that in order to make a point?
You don't post here much so you may not know, you're dealing with a complete imbecile with titty. There's some messed up people on here, he's a good example.

You can report the post, not sure I can since I started the thread.
 

Titalian

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Coming from a man who's never hit a woman in my life, I still call bullshit on this regressive thinking. I can't stand this "no real man would hit a woman" crap from people who have probably never been in such a situation where a woman just shouted racial slurs at them, kicked them, then punched them in the face, no matter how light. How much punishment must a man endure before you'd still think he's a man for defending himself?

But then, maybe my POV is because I see women as equal. That includes equally responsible for getting themselves in shit. Throughout the confrontation, she was clearly the aggressor. Until the end. His level of response was clearly over the top. But she bears a lot of responsibility for what happened. Just apparently not legally.
You ever think of turning your head and walking away ???? Whats the point, when it gets to that level of violence. Really ?
 

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why do you view women as children and that needed to be coddled?
I don't treat women as children ! I treat them as women, But we are for the most part physically stronger than they are. And judging
from that video he sure proved that. If a woman can get you to the point of wanting to hit her in anyway, I suggest before you do so, leave the situation
or things will happen, such as what happened to this young man in the video. I also realize that it takes a certain amount of maturity to do so !!!!
I'm surprised at your statement.
 

wazup

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Maybe you two should get together. See who comes out the winner.
Yet you make this comment, your idiocy has no limits.

Only our titty can white knight in one post and suggest hitting a female in another and not see the imbecile that is he
 

Titalian

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Yet you make this comment, your idiocy has no limits.
Sarcasm ? but you have no clue of this, Your post was obviously a search for attention, I'm not sure how old you are, but you do come across as a 16 year old.
Or probably the youngest member as siblings in your immediate family.
 

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I'm not sure if this has been mentioned in the thread (so much being said) but at 0:22 seconds you can see her facing what appears to be him and juts out quickly to block him from getting to the bar.
Then she thrusts her hip out like a good low post play in basketball to keep him out from the bar. lol

Who knows what transpired prior to all this, so many variables, it happens all the damn time at clubs, dirty looks, he hit on her friends, she flirted with him got ignored, they bumped into each other before - words exchanged, etc, etc.
There's a reason why they have bouncers and security at clubs, people + booze = trouble, almost any night.

It sucks for him that he didn't hold back, but everyone has a threshold with and without alcohol. For her, she got to feel what a 50 yard pass would be like. :Eek:
Hopefully it doesn't end for him, because he'll carry this for the rest of his life and like someone else said, everyone deserves a second chance.
I'm not condoning what he did, but the environment is ripe for trouble. It's definitely hard not to talk away, but like Whoopi said you also have to teach women "do not put your hands on anybody/you hit somebody, they hit you back, don't be surprised" the "chivalry thing" isn't alive.
 

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I guess I am more old school but you definitely do not punch a female in any situation; I do not think that even a slap on the face was warranted and we can only surmise what was said between the two, but you just do not hit a woman, especially with a punch. You are the man, generally bigger and stronger and you suck it up and walk away, rather than punching a female and proving what a Neanderthal, looser asshole you are. And yes that it the same for any race.
 

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I guess I am more old school but you definitely do not punch a female in any situation; I do not think that even a slap on the face was warranted and we can only surmise what was said between the two, but you just do not hit a woman, especially with a punch. You are the man, generally bigger and stronger and you suck it up and walk away, rather than punching a female and proving what a Neanderthal, looser asshole you are. And yes that it the same for any race.
another one saying men have no right to defend themselves against women. a man in the U.S who was taught not to hit women by his parents was killed by his girlfriend who was abusing him for months/weeks(i can't find the link to the story). women are not children
 

nature1

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another one saying men have no right to defend themselves against women. a man in the U.S who was taught not to hit women by his parents was killed by his girlfriend who was abusing him for months/weeks(i can't find the link to the story). women are not children
You can defend yourself against women, one way is to just walk away. For every one male victim in spousal abuse there are probably thousands of females that are victims of spousal abuse. In that case though the male has the same opportunity as the female would have; report the complaint or leave the attacker or both. You cannot use an instance like that to defend a male from punching a female.
 

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You can defend yourself against women, one way is to just walk away. For every one male victim in spousal abuse there are probably thousands of females that are victims of spousal abuse. In that case though the male has the same opportunity as the female would have; report the complaint or leave the attacker or both. You cannot use an instance like that to defend a male from punching a female.
if somebody attacks you the criminal code say you have the right to defend yourself 40-50% of DV victims are men. 70% of non-reciprocal dv incidents are started by women.


http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1854883/pdf/0970941.pdf


http://www.theguardian.com/society/2010/sep/05/men-victims-domestic-violence
 

wazup

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I guess I am more old school but you definitely do not punch a female in any situation; I do not think that even a slap on the face was warranted and we can only surmise what was said between the two, but you just do not hit a woman, especially with a punch. You are the man, generally bigger and stronger and you suck it up and walk away, rather than punching a female and proving what a Neanderthal, looser asshole you are. And yes that it the same for any race.
Who said anything about him having a looser asshole, how is that relevant? I'm not sure how you know that, nor do i want to
 

nature1

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if somebody attacks you the criminal code say you have the right to defend yourself 40-50% of DV victims are men. 70% of non-reciprocal dv incidents are started by women.


http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1854883/pdf/0970941.pdf
http://www.theguardian.com/society/2010/sep/05/men-victims-domestic-violence
If someone attacks you, you have the right to defend yourself but only with as much force as is necessary to do so. In this situation criminally he did not have the legal right to punch this women, and certainly not morally either.

The sites you are referring to are "intimate partner" relationships, and not abuse between two or more people who are unknown to each other.

I think the quote by Steph from Vixens sums it up well; they want to respect us - As Men. No women is going to respect a man especially in a case like this when a man? (moron) punches a women.
 

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Guys c'mon really?
Her attempt at hitting him amounted to a feeble jab. She only did that after he grabbed her.
Yes she was in the wrong and instigated the confrontation by blocking the bar then getting in his face. But we don't know what precipitated this before they entered the camera.
He didn't have to haul off an hit her like that. This isn't a case of self defense Sure probably far from his strongest punch but enough to give her a bloody nose.
I don't think his football career should be ruined over this however. A misdemeanor charge with some community service and he should be ok.
Hope this guy doesn't get charged.
 

Titalian

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You can defend yourself against women, one way is to just walk away. For every one male victim in spousal abuse there are probably thousands of females that are victims of spousal abuse. In that case though the male has the same opportunity as the female would have; report the complaint or leave the attacker or both. You cannot use an instance like that to defend a male from punching a female.
if somebody attacks you the criminal code say you have the right to defend yourself 40-50% of DV victims are men. 70% of non-reciprocal dv incidents are started by women.


http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1854883/pdf/0970941.pdf


http://www.theguardian.com/society/2010/sep/05/men-victims-domestic-violence
Nature1, don't Bother, little do they realize that even in the situations posted by Canada man. If you walked away, it just wouldn't happen.
It would also give both parties time to reflect. Violence is not an option here. But I guess some of us are still Barbarians !
 

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I think this skank got exactly what she deserved, the guy was moving towards the bar, looks like he excused himself to the girl on the left, the blonde chick then turned her head and beaked off and tried to block his way to the bar with her phat ass. Well I guess watch the video and draw your own conclusions. He lost his scholarship because of this and was charged, and you guessed it, nothing happened to her.:frusty:

I know this thread won't end well, bring it on white knights

http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=2c3_1436211132
And, what do you know that the rest of us don't, without even knowing this women you are calling her a "skank"; quite the insight. I hope you are never picked as a juror supposedly representing an "unbiased" observer.
 

wazup

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I will help you out, it is pronounced "Lewzur" not "loose ur". However, Titalian is right you do sound like your are 16 years old!!
you said he has a looser asshole, how do you know this?? You stated he has a loose asshole and that has no relevance to the story


From the dictionary

adjective, looser, loosest.
1.
free or released from fastening or attachment:
a loose end.
2.
free from anything that binds or restrains; unfettered:
loose cats prowling around in alleyways at night.
3.
uncombined, as a chemical element.
4.
not bound together:



This is more your description

looser
Idiotic way of spelling "loser". Most often used by teens and adults with no more than a 2nd grade grammar level.
Guy 1: OMG! Todd is such a looser!

Guy 2: I told myself I was going to do this do the next person I saw spelling the word "loser" like that; so now I am going to set your house on fire. You brought this upon yourself.
 

Titalian

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I'm not sure if this has been mentioned in the thread (so much being said) but at 0:22 seconds you can see her facing what appears to be him and juts out quickly to block him from getting to the bar.
Then she thrusts her hip out like a good low post play in basketball to keep him out from the bar. lol

Who knows what transpired prior to all this, so many variables, it happens all the damn time at clubs, dirty looks, he hit on her friends, she flirted with him got ignored, they bumped into each other before - words exchanged, etc, etc.
There's a reason why they have bouncers and security at clubs, people + booze = trouble, almost any night.

It sucks for him that he didn't hold back, but everyone has a threshold with and without alcohol. For her, she got to feel what a 50 yard pass would be like. :Eek:
Hopefully it doesn't end for him, because he'll carry this for the rest of his life and like someone else said, everyone deserves a second chance.
I'm not condoning what he did, but the environment is ripe for trouble. It's definitely hard not to talk away, but like Whoopi said you also have to teach women "do not put your hands on anybody/you hit somebody, they hit you back, don't be surprised" the "chivalry thing" isn't alive.
TES, yes your right we are dealing with young people and alcohol here and surely things could get out of hand. But AH put it up as a stereotype, of whats going on in our society as a whole.
 

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i will help you out, it is pronounced "lewzur" not "loose ur". However, titalian is right you do sound like your are 16 years old!!
lol.
 
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