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Quit the hobby for a few months now and although I still lurk around sometimes, I have been able to resist the urge to hunt again.

Fast forward, it has been extremely stressful in the past few weeks and I just want to call an escort and fuck my brains out...

Anyone experienced the same thing in the past and any advice on how to completely cut the hobby out? I'm still young, so I don't want escort to completely fuck up my ability to have a proper relationship with someone.

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I have pretty much quit "the hobby". I say that with two meanings. First, you can heed my advice because it works, but second you may not like my advice.

For me, I did not quit cold-turkey. Sometimes when I had a desire to see and SP I would give in and other times I did not. Over time it became easier to resist the urges. I still have them, but they are very easy to manage.

Don't know if that was the advice you were looking for but it has been my experience from someone who has not seen an SP since November 2014 and has tapered off for the year prior to that.
 
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That's pretty much how I started easing off, but I want to completely cut now. I'm the type of person that gets easily paranoid. Since I started this hobby, I've tested myself for STD regularly, and when I ran into "symptoms", I naturally relate to the worst case scenario (like I get a cold the next day, and dry cough, I will think I have freaking HIV... its fucking ridiculous). It's not healthy besides getting off from busting a nut...

I feel that the only way to quit is to find an actual GF, but at the same time, I don't want to make no commitment. I just don't know much girl around me that's down for casual dating for fun.



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I have pretty much quit "the hobby". I say that with two meanings. First, you can heed my advice because it works, but second you may not like my advice.

For me, I did not quit cold-turkey. Sometimes when I had a desire to see and SP I would give in and other times I did not. Over time it became easier to resist the urges. I still have them, but they are very easy to manage.

Don't know if that was the advice you were looking for but it has been my experience from someone who has not seen an SP since November 2014 and has tapered off for the year prior to that.
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jasonlisp1 said:
That's pretty much how I started easing off, but I want to completely cut now. I'm the type of person that gets easily paranoid. Since I started this hobby, I've tested myself for STD regularly, and when I ran into "symptoms", I naturally relate to the worst case scenario (like I get a cold the next day, and dry cough, I will think I have freaking HIV... its fucking ridiculous). It's not healthy besides getting off from busting a nut...

I feel that the only way to quit is to find an actual GF, but at the same time, I don't want to make no commitment. I just don't know much girl around me that's down for casual dating for fun.
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Have you thought about getting happy ending massages? That will help with the stress without the risk of catching something.

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jasonlisp1 said:
Quit the hobby for a few months now and although I still lurk around sometimes, I have been able to resist the urge to hunt again.

Fast forward, it has been extremely stressful in the past few weeks and I just want to call an escort and fuck my brains out...

Anyone experienced the same thing in the past and any advice on how to completely cut the hobby out? I'm still young, so I don't want escort to completely fuck up my ability to have a proper relationship with someone.

Cheers
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You might start with not lurking around this site. Reading everyone else's adventures won't help you stay away. Another thing you may want to consider is only seeing escorts a few times per year. IMO seeing an escort should be a once in a while treat and not because you had a stressful time at work.
 
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In the past when I've taken time off, I normally replace my hobbying time with exercise.
Think about it. You would spend anywhere from 30-90 minutes for a MP or SP session, including travel time.
Take that time, get changed, go for a run or whatever else you enjoy doing, then have a shower, and get back to whatever it was you were doing.

You'll burn off stress and energy, save a few bucks, and it's good for you.
 
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Mr Bret said:
In the past when I've taken time off, I normally replace my hobbying time with exercise.
Think about it. You would spend anywhere from 30-90 minutes for a MP or SP session, including travel time.
Take that time, get changed, go for a run or whatever else you enjoy doing, then have a shower, and get back to whatever it was you were doing.

You'll burn off stress and energy, save a few bucks, and it's good for you.
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The problem for me is that when I'm working out with weights and doing leg workouts, my testosterone blows up sky high and my balls are on overdrive and i have to hit it 2-4 times a week.

I find eating carbs, getting fat and lazy is the ultimate libido killer :)
 
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jasonlisp1 said:
I just don't know much girl around me that's down for casual dating for fun.
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Trust me, if you're the paranoid type, you don't want to have some casual girls to do casual dating and whatever... your chance of getting STD from that is actually known to be higher. The occasions of bareback sex happen more often in one night stands than seeing SP.

MP with happy ending would be a good way to go BUT be sure to resist the offers of extras as it seems to be happening more these days.

But if you're stressed and want to find a good SP and fuck your brains out once in a while, just do it. There's really nothing wrong with that esp you're single.
 
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Buy lube, pour on hand, well you know the rest
 
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jasonlisp1

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Tried MP once, and ended up with a bruised penis because the girl was so rough with junior.

No matter how many hobbies I take up, excess money+horny=wanting to fuck

The best advice so far is to stop lurking and that means stop replying on these threads ! haha

I will miss spending time with all these beautiful ladies, those super slutty moans that made cum within the minute, those perfect round bubble butt from behind, those wet and sloppy BJ that made junior a happy camper... oh damn it was a great ride in the past year.

I think this discussion gave me the closure I needed to move on. Thanks for all the inputs.

Happy and safe hunting!
JL
 
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jasonlisp1 said:
Tried MP once, and ended up with a bruised penis because the girl was so rough with junior.

No matter how many hobbies I take up, excess money+horny=wanting to fuck

The best advice so far is to stop lurking and that means stop replying on these threads ! haha

I will miss spending time with all these beautiful ladies, those super slutty moans that made cum within the minute, those perfect round bubble butt from behind, those wet and sloppy BJ that made junior a happy camper... oh damn it was a great ride in the past year.

I think this discussion gave me the closure I needed to move on. Thanks for all the inputs.

Happy and safe hunting!
JL
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Omg! Which mp was this??? That's not the norm
 
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Send away for a glow in the dark Willy Whacker, it is that little guy in your pants that is giving you ideas.

 
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jasonlisp1 said:
Quit the hobby for a few months now and although I still lurk around sometimes, I have been able to resist the urge to hunt again.

Fast forward, it has been extremely stressful in the past few weeks and I just want to call an escort and fuck my brains out...

Anyone experienced the same thing in the past and any advice on how to completely cut the hobby out? I'm still young, so I don't want escort to completely fuck up my ability to have a proper relationship with someone.

Cheers
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Don't get so worked up about quitting. Hobby occasionally and balance that with seeing civilians.

If that doesn't work try seeing really ugly sp's or get another addiction like heroin
 
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You could do like a friend of mine did. He became an old fat lazy drunk and couldn't get it up anymore and lost interest
 
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